FabSwingers.com forum: I thought this would be more straight forward

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've used this site since October last year and I've started again this month but I rarely hear anything back and when I do nothing materializes.

Without sounding vain I'm a good looking guy to 'some' people, even my mates. I've never been contacted by a woman, so I've come to the conclusion they get a lot of attention from other people.

My balls will probably explode in the next few days as I don't masturbate or anything which is a shame for me. Oh well I guess I tried...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come you don't wank ?..any reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your profile could say a little more! Just sayin

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

when you post here moaning about getting nowhere is longer than your profile, what do you expect?

Knicker elastic to ping at your hidden pics? ladies to lay themselves down over a few words...

successful men get out what they put in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile content

No pics

=No meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile dusnt stand out... theres thousands of single guys on here you need to stand out from the crowd. A couple of public pics maybe a few body shots would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask, what did you actually expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the blandest profile on fab. Your forum post is more explanatory. No public pics and a few lines of text will not set you apart from even the more basic but better profiles. Would you meet you??????

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

No one can see what you look like, you cant accommodate, you have a non existant profile yet you thought it would be easy.

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Think everyones summed it up for you

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By *_want--youMan
over a year ago

sunderland

same here dude ... but i often wank. still loaded :p

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Your profile says literally nothing.

(That said, mine doesn't say much, but it does so over a few hundred words....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of reasons to be honest. I feel a lot different, in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

Women are in demand on here they are not going to message a shadow with no profile.

I thought exactly the same thing when I joined. Going to have to put some effort in or take your good looks elsewhere I am afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself.

Women are in demand on here they are not going to message a shadow with no profile.

I thought exactly the same thing when I joined. Going to have to put some effort in or take your good looks elsewhere I am afraid."

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

trust me, i don't bother asking. If its not there, its pass by.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

It seems you've landed on the wrong site, OP. Instashag.com is further along.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

`message me if you want to know more`

clearly isnt working ...

Woukd you mail some random chick with no pics and a pretty lame profile?

Do you use the chat rooms?

Engage in banter ?

Have any pics,its kinda essential(no one is ever gonna meet someone they cant even see.. and many will just pass by,as already proven ..

That you tried??? Im sure you havent tried your hardest-your in competition with alot of guys here putting much more thought and effort into making things happen for them ..

Analize,and re consider your game plan maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

lol

Imagine your a shop and your profile is your window. If you put nothing in it people are just gonna walk on by...not walk in and ask you what you're selling lol

This reminds me of communist Russia, where all the shops in the high street had the same blank cardboard boxes in the window except inside one shop's boxes was food whilst in another's was clothing. The shop owners made zero effort and all the expectations were on the consumer to make the effort to go in and find out what the fuck each shop was actually selling lol

fail

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Thing is, I do message guys. Sometimes if they catch my eye and i haven't got time to craft a message I let them know I've looked by fabbing a pic or two. I read profiles before deciding not only if to message but what to write and yours gives me nothing to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about your passions and talk with passion. Describe what you'd like to do and how you want to make her feel. Show how good looking you are and reach out to people with profiles that gel with yours.

Read her profile THOROUGHLY, look at all if her pics and say something that you think would stand out (and not by being the creepiest thing she's ever read). Show her that you've read and understood her profile and that you find her pics beautiful and sexy.

Remember that she probably gets hundreds of messages a day. Some of them are from guys with six packs and A levels in romantic poetry.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

hence why you have started this thread as it isnt working, people wont/dont message a faceless profile that basically says nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip me, you were 19 when you started this thread

That's some time machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

If you're leaving it up to people to make the effort to find out about you, then what does that say about what would happen during a meet? Put more effort into your profile as others have suggested and you'll reap the rewards. Just be yourself, no need to put 'irrelevant BS'!!

What's probably going against you is your age - increasing it won't help and people will notice when you meet. No public pics - doesn't need to be face ones - keep in private gallery, but ones like torso shots, maybe (but doesn't have to be) a cock pick - even ones 'under' clothing can be erotic; and after 8 months, it appears you don't have any friends - another disadvantage. Maybe delete profile and start again.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"No profile content

No pics

=No meets"

This

We will message single men but will decide to contact them on the information shown. Your profile would give us nothing to go on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in=reward out

Your profile and attitude is giving you exactly what you deserve. 0 effort=0 response.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Don't think anything more can be said, read the above comments, take note and act on the advice given . Trust me it's worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWW another whigin single guy!!!! why dont you try and find your.own girlfriend and come on here as a couple....how many times do we see this type of post...single guys dont have a god given right to a free shag!! and lets face it thats what they are looking for...We get fed up with trying to explain..so many single guys all looking to get off and someone elses grilfriend/wife..get a LIFE..and get real..There are so many single guys on here ,those that are looking have the widest choice...maybe you should give up whingin and try a bit harder with your profile and profile pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flip me, you were 19 when you started this thread

That's some time machine"

Haha. Now you've done that, I would think why and what else is he lying about or prepared to lie about so would give you a wide berth.

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

Bitches loves BS innit,makes thems keks fall off !

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you guys have got a point. Frankly my profile is crap but I think it's better if someone asks me specific questions that they want to know, rather than put irrelevant BS about myself."

With respect dude that is EXACTLY the sole content of your profile...irrelevant BS about how great looking you are (but no pics to evidence it) and all that about not watching porn or not wanking...who would actually care? Is it relevant?

Lacks humour and any actual facts of what you can offer or what you seek.

Thousands of single guys on here. To have any success your profile probably needs to rank in the top 5%... Ask yourself seriously and objectively....do you think yours would rank that high?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is, I do message guys. Sometimes if they catch my eye and i haven't got time to craft a message I let them know I've looked by fabbing a pic or two. I read profiles before deciding not only if to message but what to write and yours gives me nothing to go on."

You never dabbed any of mine Ligeia.... But then I'm probs a year or two to old lol!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loads of men come here expecting it to be straightforward, make a profile, sit back and wait for offers to come flooding in. You've discovered like them, that isn't the case so you need to either up your game or move on really. Only you can decide if you want to put the work in but you do need patience and a thick skin. Take the advice others have given and good luck.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

On your profile you say your smile and your butt are your two best assets. Then you choose a pic that shows neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've used this site since October last year and I've started again this month but I rarely hear anything back and when I do nothing materializes.

Without sounding vain I'm a good looking guy to 'some' people, even my mates. I've never been contacted by a woman, so I've come to the conclusion they get a lot of attention from other people.

My balls will probably explode in the next few days as I don't masturbate or anything which is a shame for me. Oh well I guess I tried..."

Maybe you are not as good looking to others as you think you are and should be setting your sights lower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a few pics in public gallery would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably the blandest profile on fab. Your forum post is more explanatory. No public pics and a few lines of text will not set you apart from even the more basic but better profiles. Would you meet you??????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard luck bro it's actually harder on fab to meet a woman than in real life try normal pubs and clubs of you're that good looking you shouldn't have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've used this site since October last year and I've started again this month but I rarely hear anything back and when I do nothing materializes.

Without sounding vain I'm a good looking guy to 'some' people, even my mates. I've never been contacted by a woman, so I've come to the conclusion they get a lot of attention from other people.

My balls will probably explode in the next few days as I don't masturbate or anything which is a shame for me. Oh well I guess I tried...

Maybe you are not as good looking to others as you think you are and should be setting your sights lower?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt that spending hours tinkering with your profile will make much difference, but a couple more photos would be good.

Keep an eye on the 'meet today' for when people are looking to meet - you'll find they're a lot friendlier to you when they're hoping for a shag than when they're lording it up in the forums.

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