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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This morning I Messaged a new local lady who's profile I thought was pretty much compatible with mine. We've chatted all day. Agreed a meet and a time - she asked for my number so she could confirm she was on her way. 2 hours later she's no longer online. Fair enough. Each to their own.

10 minutes later. New profile pops up. It's her - identical to what her previous one earlier says. But I'm outside her age range. Can't beat honesty!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This morning I Messaged a new local lady who's profile I thought was pretty much compatible with mine. We've chatted all day. Agreed a meet and a time - she asked for my number so she could confirm she was on her way. 2 hours later she's no longer online. Fair enough. Each to their own.

10 minutes later. New profile pops up. It's her - identical to what her previous one earlier says. But I'm outside her age range. Can't beat honesty!!!"
women eh

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well I guess that's one way of saying she's changed her mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shit happens i guess......takes all sorts.

your reaction will be a measure of you as much as the actions of this person are a measure of them....=)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that seems a lot of work on her behalf, she'd be better off just blocking...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was so annoyed I watched the second half of the England game lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that seems a lot of work on his behalf, he'd be better off just blocking... "

Corrected it for you

I have had similar recently on more than one occasion. I pretty much expect any message exchange to remain just that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All talk! Move on, some just like wanks.

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was so annoyed I watched the second half of the England game lol!!!"

now that's annoyed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us women as well by guys who bottle it just before meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens to us women as well by guys who bottle it just before meets"

Oh I know. That's why I said nothing surprises me any more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that seems a lot of work on his behalf, he'd be better off just blocking...

Corrected it for you

I have had similar recently on more than one occasion. I pretty much expect any message exchange to remain just that now. "

Okay I have had a few vino's in the spirit of the game so might be missing something....

I meant her ~ why bother creating a new profile when you could just block the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that seems a lot of work on his behalf, he'd be better off just blocking...

Corrected it for you

I have had similar recently on more than one occasion. I pretty much expect any message exchange to remain just that now.

Okay I have had a few vino's in the spirit of the game so might be missing something....

I meant her ~ why bother creating a new profile when you could just block the guy?"

I know you meant her, I just suspect her was a him, or maybe I am just a cynic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's happened to me too. I still don't know why some people go to all that trouble and clearly have no intention of meeting but that's life on here, just have to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman "

I reckon that too.

OP did you give 'her' your proper phone number or do you have a Fab phone (separate phone just for meets)?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So a brand new profile who just joined the site? Hmm let me think about this one.....

She either felt overwhelmed or your selection process needs to be adapted!

I have male friend on here who to me 'any hole is a goal' and he wonders why he gets the nutters?? Go figure!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman

I reckon that too.

OP did you give 'her' your proper phone number or do you have a Fab phone (separate phone just for meets)? "

I only have one phone - as I'm single and live alone I don't need another

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So a brand new profile who just joined the site? Hmm let me think about this one.....

She either felt overwhelmed or your selection process needs to be adapted!

I have male friend on here who to me 'any hole is a goal' and he wonders why he gets the nutters?? Go figure! "

I dunno how she would have felt overwhelmed as she made all the chasing regarding the meet. And I'm not sure if you're suggesting I'm like your friend. My profile clearly states I'm not just after loads of goals!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"that seems a lot of work on his behalf, he'd be better off just blocking...

Corrected it for you

I have had similar recently on more than one occasion. I pretty much expect any message exchange to remain just that now. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman "

Nooo!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Haha! I've been chatting to a lady, 'ooh you're hot' type messages, sent a face pic then....BOOM! Blocked!

Too ugly to fuck

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough


"I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman

Nooo!!! "

that would not happen on here would it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet both profiles were the same guy posing as a woman "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably a guy having fun. On my single female profile, I've had 'women' and 'couples' contact me and then disappear off the planet either on the same day or a couple days later. They're either guys, fakes or pic collectors. You soon get wise to it.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I never message unverified or new profiles. It may seem elitist but it's worked pretty well so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never message unverified or new profiles. It may seem elitist but it's worked pretty well so far..."

I blocked non verified members last year after 4 years on here, I have very few, if any issues with time wasters or fakes now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I never message unverified or new profiles. It may seem elitist but it's worked pretty well so far...

I blocked non verified members last year after 4 years on here, I have very few, if any issues with time wasters or fakes now. "

Same here I've also blocked new profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that seems a lot of work on his behalf, he'd be better off just blocking...

Corrected it for you

I have had similar recently on more than one occasion. I pretty much expect any message exchange to remain just that now.

Okay I have had a few vino's in the spirit of the game so might be missing something....

I meant her ~ why bother creating a new profile when you could just block the guy?

I know you meant her, I just suspect her was a him, or maybe I am just a cynic."

Ah I see durr!!

I just take everyone for face value ~ probably a little naive of me but hey ho.

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

I do the face value method too - been disappointed but often works

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