FabSwingers.com forum: Astounding

By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, many don't bother then wonder why they get no reply. I see it as if they can't take the time to read it, then why should I take the time to reply?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Agree, many don't bother then wonder why they get no reply. I see it as if they can't take the time to read it, then why should I take the time to reply?"

Me also, especially the ones that say they have read if when clearly they havent, or the ones who msg u telling you to check out/read their profile

My profile is ranty/demanding but this is what has to be done sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering. "

Spot on,

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering. "

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest "

Then don't complain when you get loads that are unsuitable,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. "

This

Find it much easier and its a great excuse to go perving....

But men are not the only ones guilty of not always reading profiles.....

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative "

No wonder they don't read it. I got a quarter of the way through and clicked off. Very negative indeed. High maintenance springs to mind.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative "

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a man I wouldn't message you your profile is extremely negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway"

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest "

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

No wonder they don't read it. I got a quarter of the way through and clicked off. Very negative indeed. High maintenance springs to mind. "

Negative how exactly?

Fussy-yes

Picky who i meet/msg/have fun with-yes

Have the right to be this way-yes

And as a said if its that negative why bother messaging me: yet they do

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol"

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding' "

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If I was a man I wouldn't message you your profile is extremely negative "

Me either tbh....yet they all do

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Comes in with her steam powered printing press and sets up stall to print out FORUM INSURANCE claim forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views"

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh "

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

Good on them, I think it's hilarious,do something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working "

Honestly: yes, coz if i get a msg that shows they havent read then a dnt want to meet them so they may aswell be blocked

And the people that do match what i am looking for, i have met some lovely people..

As for being high maintenance: its called preferences, i am not demanding a 6ft5 prince with an 8 pack and 14 inch penis

I am asking for respect, someone around my age and race, hardly high maintenence

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!"

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views"

Lol ok!

You have been given suggestions to help avoid your situation yet you choose to ignore them. Think that says it all....enjoy your little ego trip, I'm off to work.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't "

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle "

Give me one reason why I should read your profile before messaging you

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Lol ok!

You have been given suggestions to help avoid your situation yet you choose to ignore them. Think that says it all....enjoy your little ego trip, I'm off to work. "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from"

What's the point of your OP

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle

Give me one reason why I should read your profile before messaging you "

Coz if u msg me u have just wasted a part of your life u will never get back coz if u dont read my profile no chance are you getting a reply: so in other words feel free to not read it, but enjoy my block list

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

A single women's profile can have nothing on it and SOME people would still contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Honestly: yes, coz if i get a msg that shows they havent read then a dnt want to meet them so they may aswell be blocked

And the people that do match what i am looking for, i have met some lovely people..

As for being high maintenance: its called preferences, i am not demanding a 6ft5 prince with an 8 pack and 14 inch penis

I am asking for respect, someone around my age and race, hardly high maintenence "

If one of your main issues is with age...The age filter is a great tool...

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

What's the point of your OP"

My point is: i was stating, its astounding the amount of men who dont read profiles, but a few people , as always on here seem to swerve away from that and onto other points

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Honestly: yes, coz if i get a msg that shows they havent read then a dnt want to meet them so they may aswell be blocked

And the people that do match what i am looking for, i have met some lovely people..

As for being high maintenance: its called preferences, i am not demanding a 6ft5 prince with an 8 pack and 14 inch penis

I am asking for respect, someone around my age and race, hardly high maintenence

If one of your main issues is with age...The age filter is a great tool..."

True: and its on, but people who have messaged before can get around this part

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

A single women's profile can have nothing on it and SOME people would still contact them. "

True: and my OP is the fact they wont even know this anyway as they dont read it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Honestly: yes, coz if i get a msg that shows they havent read then a dnt want to meet them so they may aswell be blocked

And the people that do match what i am looking for, i have met some lovely people..

As for being high maintenance: its called preferences, i am not demanding a 6ft5 prince with an 8 pack and 14 inch penis

I am asking for respect, someone around my age and race, hardly high maintenence

If one of your main issues is with age...The age filter is a great tool...

True: and its on, but people who have messaged before can get around this part

Only if you've replied, other than that it is the block list I'm afraid...just be aware that it only holds so many before they drop off or so I've been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle

Give me one reason why I should read your profile before messaging you

I see, I blocked you after I read the first line of your profile, btw it takes 2 seconds to send a copy and pasted message but a lot longer to read one, so if I could be arsed send you one I would be wasting your time not mine

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle

Give me one reason why I should read your profile before messaging you

Wish more people would do that

I think it takes about the same amount of time to hit block than it does copy and paste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

What's the point of your OP

My point is: i was stating, its astounding the amount of men who dont read profiles, but a few people , as always on here seem to swerve away from that and onto other points "

Yes it is astounding, it's also astounding that people are astounded that men don't read profiles,

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Honestly: yes, coz if i get a msg that shows they havent read then a dnt want to meet them so they may aswell be blocked

And the people that do match what i am looking for, i have met some lovely people..

As for being high maintenance: its called preferences, i am not demanding a 6ft5 prince with an 8 pack and 14 inch penis

I am asking for respect, someone around my age and race, hardly high maintenence

If one of your main issues is with age...The age filter is a great tool...

True: and its on, but people who have messaged before can get around this part

Only if you've replied, other than that it is the block list I'm afraid...just be aware that it only holds so many before they drop off or so I've been told"

Really: another reason why the thanks but no thanks msgs are not the best idea

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over a year ago

"A think people are missing my point

I dont need to be told my profiles ranty/negative/or that u wouldnt msg me

Thing is loads of guys continue to do so depsite all of these

But not the guys you're interested in meeting?!

Most no: some yes, always gona happen with the amount of guys on here, only gona be a small amount who tickle my pickle

Give me one reason why I should read your profile before messaging you

Wish more people would do that

I think it takes about the same amount of time to hit block than it does copy and paste

Astounding

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

What's the point of your OP

My point is: i was stating, its astounding the amount of men who dont read profiles, but a few people , as always on here seem to swerve away from that and onto other points

Yes it is astounding, it's also astounding that people are astounded that men don't read profiles,"

And also that someone seems to have a chip on their shoulder

You have tried to state many points in which i have asked for clarification but u seem to only reply to the ones u have an argumentititve/snide answer for and ignore the rest

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over a year ago

Just carry on blocking them and then have a good laugh at their updates that's what I do

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over a year ago

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

What's the point of your OP

My point is: i was stating, its astounding the amount of men who dont read profiles, but a few people , as always on here seem to swerve away from that and onto other points

Yes it is astounding, it's also astounding that people are astounded that men don't read profiles,

And also that someone seems to have a chip on their shoulder

You have tried to state many points in which i have asked for clarification but u seem to only reply to the ones u have an argumentititve/snide answer for and ignore the rest"

Have we met?? I am entitled to my opinion, you to yours if you don't like people not reading your profile and sending you messages do something about it, moaning in here makes you look like you have a 'chip on your shoulder'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wnt this

Wnt that

Hmmm

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So:

Have most people swerved onto other points outwith my point: yes

Does someone have a chip on their shoulder: yes

Have we realised im not asking if u wud msg me:not quite sure yet

Is my profile ranty: maybe in some opininions yes, personally i see it as stating preferences

Are preferences allowed: yes

Do some people have trouble accepting this: yes

Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes

From the right men: yes

So is my profile working: yes

Answered to how im high maintenance for stating preferences: no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wnt this

Wnt that

Hmmm"

Do this

Do that, as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So:

Have most people swerved onto other points outwith my point: yes

Does someone have a chip on their shoulder: yes

Have we realised im not asking if u wud msg me:not quite sure yet

Is my profile ranty: maybe in some opininions yes, personally i see it as stating preferences

Are preferences allowed: yes

Do some people have trouble accepting this: yes

Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes

From the right men: yes

So is my profile working: yes

Answered to how im high maintenance for stating preferences: no

Sorry, I can't be arsed reading that, thought I would reply though

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Wnt this

Wnt that

Hmmm"

Sorry:

I will fuck anyone any age, looks, race, height, weight, sex

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So:

Have most people swerved onto other points outwith my point: yes

Does someone have a chip on their shoulder: yes

Have we realised im not asking if u wud msg me:not quite sure yet

Is my profile ranty: maybe in some opininions yes, personally i see it as stating preferences

Are preferences allowed: yes

Do some people have trouble accepting this: yes

Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes

From the right men: yes

So is my profile working: yes

Answered to how im high maintenance for stating preferences: no

Sorry, I can't be arsed reading that, thought I would reply though

Have we discovered ur actually pointless: yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So:

Have most people swerved onto other points outwith my point: yes

Does someone have a chip on their shoulder: yes

Have we realised im not asking if u wud msg me:not quite sure yet

Is my profile ranty: maybe in some opininions yes, personally i see it as stating preferences

Are preferences allowed: yes

Do some people have trouble accepting this: yes

Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes

From the right men: yes

So is my profile working: yes

Answered to how im high maintenance for stating preferences: no

Sorry, I can't be arsed reading that, thought I would reply though

Have we discovered ur actually pointless: yes "

Did you say something

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

Nothing to do with getting replies, you seem to think your profile should attract the messages and people you want, it obviously doesn't

How do u know it doesnt? Not all msgs are from people i dont want, and i have yet to have said that so no idea where you got that part from

What's the point of your OP

My point is: i was stating, its astounding the amount of men who dont read profiles, but a few people , as always on here seem to swerve away from that and onto other points

Yes it is astounding, it's also astounding that people are astounded that men don't read profiles,

And also that someone seems to have a chip on their shoulder

You have tried to state many points in which i have asked for clarification but u seem to only reply to the ones u have an argumentititve/snide answer for and ignore the rest

I do: i block

Dont see what you have brought to this post so i will ignore future posts

Thanks for ur input

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And my profile was to save them from the: why dont i get replies

I could write "will fill this in later" and just block anyone that doesnt meet what im looking for without giving them a clue as to what i want, either or

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over a year ago

"And my profile was to save them from the: why dont i get replies

I could write "will fill this in later" and just block anyone that doesnt meet what im looking for without giving them a clue as to what i want, either or "

Pardon!

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think i will suggest admin remove the preferences part on profiles: god forbid anyone dare have any on here

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

We get a lot of messages from those that have ignored our criteria but nearly all polite. Know it's hard to find genuine meets but only those that ignore our reply get blocked. It is no big deal and sometimes quite flattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's strong evidence to suggest that whatever a lady writes on her profile, it's quite likely she will get lots of replies many of whom don't fit the criteria.

If you're not prepared to put filters on and seek out what you want then I don't think you can complain too much.

Be thankful you get interest. I imagine the more you rant the more the emails will drop off....until May have none ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think i will suggest admin remove the preferences part on profiles: god forbid anyone dare have any on here

The great thing about this site is that you can message anyone you like unless they have filters to prevent you, god forbid those people who don't understand this concept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes "

The "other" point that everyone is trying to make and you are missing is this: you are getting a gazillion useless messages BECAUSE of your profile, not despite it.

Negativity breeds negativity! Write an aggressive, negative profile, and you'll hear from aggressive, negative people. Write an interesting, polite profile and you'll hear from... you get the idea.

Your profile may work for you as-is because the numbers game is stacked in favour of the women. But it is frustrating to you - hence the need to vent in this thread. You would have much better results (ie. a much, much better wanker to good guy ratio) if you presented yourself in better light. This is not a different point, this is the point - how to make your experience of the site better. That's what people have talked about - you can try out this advice OR you can keep going as you are, and bitch about it

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do i still get loads of msgs despite my profile: yes

From the wrong kind of men: yes

The "other" point that everyone is trying to make and you are missing is this: you are getting a gazillion useless messages BECAUSE of your profile, not despite it.

Negativity breeds negativity! Write an aggressive, negative profile, and you'll hear from aggressive, negative people. Write an interesting, polite profile and you'll hear from... you get the idea.

I respect your point and see where your coming from

But my point is the ones who clearly dont bother to even read it, i still get the "nice"

Hey how r u msgs, but from people who havent read my profile

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And i have took on advice/citisism and updated my profile, to state what im looking for in a less negative way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually it reads very pleasant now. Good luck I won't be emailing you.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

" Actually it reads very pleasant now. Good luck I won't be emailing you.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working "

Her profile isn't negative. she just stating what she wants. Same as any other profile. It's not friendly tho but does it have to be? properly not. Most men still wouldn't read it if it was.

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over a year ago

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Her profile isn't negative. she just stating what she wants. Same as any other profile. It's not friendly tho but does it have to be? properly not. Most men still wouldn't read it if it was. "

When did you read it?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why not block all men and concentrate in finding/messaging the guys you DO want then. The site has tools to prevent you having to put up with such pestering.

Coz i get the odd decent one which im not the best at finding: happy to block the rest

So why moan then if you're happy blocking people?

Perhaps they are messaging you ironically...you know....the whole 'do not step on the grass' temptation?

I'd probably do that to be honest but then I'm quote childish at times lol

Not moaning about blocking: quite enjoy it

Just thought id state my views

Which your entitled to, and I am stating mine, you reap what you sow, your profile is negative and you have had to block 400 people and counting, do you think your profile is working

Her profile isn't negative. she just stating what she wants. Same as any other profile. It's not friendly tho but does it have to be? properly not. Most men still wouldn't read it if it was. "

Thats my point, someone sees it, friendly or not most arent reading it to even find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty you have no real description of your "type" so how would guys know. Also you ask for face pics but have no pics on your profile at all we wouldn't email you based on that alone

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In all honesty you have no real description of your "type" so how would guys know. Also you ask for face pics but have no pics on your profile at all we wouldn't email you based on that alone "

And people are within their rights to do so, but some choose to msg anyway without me having a pic and thats their choice, me personally i wouldnt either like yourselves, and thanks coz it also says im not looking for couples lol

I dont have a set type thats why, someone either is or isnt, i dont find all 6ft tanned dark haired men attractive for instance, so no point me saying i like a certain type when it varies

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over a year ago

We're still none the wiser of what type of man you want mailing you. Is it a tall man, short, fat, skinny, muscles, 6 pack. Until you put in black and white what type of guy you're looking for then you'll continue to get messages from guys you'll have to reject and you'll continue to complain about blocking.

An example for you.............you seek tall, bronzed and ripped.............I know not to mail you.

'I have a certain type and you're it or not' would lead me to mail you and find out. You still wouldn't know if I'd read the profile or not though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you state in your profile your looking for a certain type

Now I'm getting confused

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We're still none the wiser of what type of man you want mailing you. Is it a tall man, short, fat, skinny, muscles, 6 pack. Until you put in black and white what type of guy you're looking for then you'll continue to get messages from guys you'll have to reject and you'll continue to complain about blocking.

An example for you.............you seek tall, bronzed and ripped.............I know not to mail you.

'I have a certain type and you're it or not' would lead me to mail you and find out. You still wouldn't know if I'd read the profile or not though."

Thats what i want though, if they match my age preferences etc then im happy for them to msg to see if they are my type, as they may well be

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am....only people i find attractive but they dont all fall into a category i can explain: i could find someone attractive thats 5ft 4 thin and ginger, and also find someone unnatractive under this description, same way i can find someone 6ft5 tall and dark attractive but someone under this description unattractive, i dont go for a certain category, if the face fits then thats my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

An example for you.............you seek tall, bronzed and ripped.............I know not to mail you.

'I have a certain type and you're it or not' would lead me to mail you and find out. You still wouldn't know if I'd read the profile or not though."

I have never moaned about messages from people who arent my type, its about people outwith my age range etc.

More than happy to have a msg from someone that may be my type if they fit my age range etc, i dont demand 6 packs, 6ft 5 models

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Example:

Say my age range was 20-50

I find eminem, simon cowell, iker casillas, fernando torres and pete from green street attractive

They are all hot but dont fit into the same category such as tall, dark, tanned etc....

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over a year ago

An example for you.............you seek tall, bronzed and ripped.............I know not to mail you.

'I have a certain type and you're it or not' would lead me to mail you and find out. You still wouldn't know if I'd read the profile or not though.

I have never moaned about messages from people who arent my type, its about people outwith my age range etc.

More than happy to have a msg from someone that may be my type if they fit my age range etc, i dont demand 6 packs, 6ft 5 models"

So if it's all about age then just set your filter to stop people of a certain age from messaging you job done

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

True

So priveleged they may be willing to meet lol

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

An example for you.............you seek tall, bronzed and ripped.............I know not to mail you.

'I have a certain type and you're it or not' would lead me to mail you and find out. You still wouldn't know if I'd read the profile or not though.

I have never moaned about messages from people who arent my type, its about people outwith my age range etc.

More than happy to have a msg from someone that may be my type if they fit my age range etc, i dont demand 6 packs, 6ft 5 models

So if it's all about age then just set your filter to stop people of a certain age from messaging you job done

Its not just about that, its location, what we are both looking for, etc, age one is sorted other than the ones that squeeze around the filter

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh "

People like u make me laugh want this don't want this. Must have pic on profile. Where are your pics? Suggest you remove that stick from up your arse and get in the real world

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this same issue constantly!

Except...I don't whinge about it!

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over a year ago

At the end of the day some people read profiles, some don't, some message regardless of whether they fit your criteria or not, they try it on. If it bothers you that much then block men and look for what you want. I've done this many times and found my latest fb that way and generally have far more success than sitting waiting for "my type" to message me because they may not. No point stressing over it as whatever you write people may or may not read it, its life on here.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

People like u make me laugh want this don't want this. Must have pic on profile. Where are your pics? Suggest you remove that stick from up your arse and get in the real world"

In private: which i have said i will send

I understand if people dont msg me due to no public pic, but they still do so ur point is invalid

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

People like u make me laugh want this don't want this. Must have pic on profile. Where are your pics? Suggest you remove that stick from up your arse and get in the real world

In private: which i have said i will send

I understand if people dont msg me due to no public pic, but they still do so ur point is invalid "

Of course everyone's point is invalid in your sad world love

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The amount of men who do not read my profile

Or read it yet ignore what i want and message anyway

Read it and ignore half of it

Still think they can msg and say hello i would like to arrange a meet......like seriously

Block list is 400+ long and sure its gona be 500 in a few days

So bloody lazy and they wonder why they dont get replies/meets

Perhaps they can't be arsed reading it, what makes your profile stand out from all the rest, it's very negative

Exactly: so if they are that lazy they arent for me

Whats negative about me having choices? Nothing negative about that

And my profile doesnt need to stand out unfortuantely for you: i am a female thats all that matters to most people on here

Oh and they would have to read it to know its "negative", and if this is the case why still message me anayway

Your sense of entitlement is truly 'astounding'

Explain-??

I am not expecting anything other than people to read my profile, and if they dont do that they cant expect to be entitled to a reply eh

People like u make me laugh want this don't want this. Must have pic on profile. Where are your pics? Suggest you remove that stick from up your arse and get in the real world

In private: which i have said i will send

I understand if people dont msg me due to no public pic, but they still do so ur point is invalid

Of course everyone's point is invalid in your sad world love"

Was only yours but anyway thanks for reading my profile

its all i asked

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct? "

No I always read profiles which is why I never message the likes of you

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct?

No I always read profiles which is why I never message the likes of you"

You read mine lol

And thats great you arent my type anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct? "

no your a woman and not supposed to say anything bad about single men on here didnt you know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a shag

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct?

No I always read profiles which is why I never message the likes of you"

And seems my success rate is better so maybe you should review

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So, let me get this right, all the ones who have had a go etc

You agree men shouldnt bother to read profiles? Correct?

no your a woman and not supposed to say anything bad about single men on here didnt you know that.

Sorry i take it back

Dont read ma profile send winks cock pics friend requests old men black men couples timewasters zombies my way

Why the fuck not

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Fancy a shag

Yes meet u round the back in half an hour

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

In this case I think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

We are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

We are

No thanks your not realy my type.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

In this case I think they are

Btw ur mirror is dirty

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

We are

No thanks your not realy my type."

Or mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

We are

No thanks your not realy my type.

Or mine

Blocked you as well, I am starting to enjoy blocking, it's fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think some men think they are doing you a favour by messaging you in the first place.

In this case I think they are

Your definatly not my type.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure why the OP is getting such a hard time over this...she is right, some people don't read profiles...but that goes for everyone, couples, single women and single men.

What she puts on her profile probably won't matter as some just don't bother reading it or disregard it if they do.... but this thread has just turned into a dissect her profile thread instead.

BUT...there are ways of limiting the amount of mails you get and that is through the filters...it saves you getting wound up over things that you could control part of....you could then mail the people you want to instead.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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