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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats everyone view on inviting people that are new to all this to parties?

Would you prefer the experienced guys or the new and possibliy nervous guys?

I've only been on here a few weeks but spoken to some great people already & would love to attend a party or two...

I look forward to your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has to have a "first party" as some point..

i remember mine. was a good few years go. and had been chatting on another site, when i was inviting along.. i arrived and nocked on the door and i was as neverous as hell.. everyone was welcoming and i did enjoy the evening.. even if i only left the corner i found a couple of times..

i've never looked back since. .and loved every moment of the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has to have a "first party" as some point..

i remember mine. was a good few years go. and had been chatting on another site, when i was inviting along.. i arrived and nocked on the door and i was as neverous as hell.. everyone was welcoming and i did enjoy the evening.. even if i only left the corner i found a couple of times..

i've never looked back since. .and loved every moment of the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we are looking for a guy for a threesome, we always try to find out if the guy is experienced. We need to be assured that he can perform "in company".

Now, the only way we can find out how good he is, is by his verifications, or if we know him from a party or club or if he is recommended by friends.

We aren't really interested in teaching someone. We want the fully trained people

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I had (may rephrase that) entertained some new people to parties and someone new to swinging entirely. Both people were great at the party. Naturally a bit nervous but then I was totally bricking it anyway and have had a number of house parties and met loads of people over the past 4 years.

I would just explain how it works and the rules very clearly so they dont make a massive mistake that could be bad for their future experiences.

But no, I have no probs inviting new people x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"When we are looking for a guy for a threesome, we always try to find out if the guy is experienced. We need to be assured that he can perform "in company".

Now, the only way we can find out how good he is, is by his verifications, or if we know him from a party or club or if he is recommended by friends.

We aren't really interested in teaching someone. We want the fully trained people "

I agree that for a 3 some then an experienced additional person is the best really but everyone still has to have a first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice..thanks guys, private parties sound fun, not sure I'd go without chatting for a bit first though.

Understand what you mean about 3sums, would be nervous with another guy watching me with his wife for the first time...Maybe I need to find two sexy ladies for a ffm instead haha

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By *en2203Man
over a year ago

cheshire/n.wales/merseyside

I'm a NW male looking for both party invites or just to enjoy a relaxed day/night with couples. Ive attended a few clubs & had a few gr8 mmf/mmf & even one mmmf meet so lm defo well experienced, l have yet to get verified - so pls DO check out my profile & say hi, even if only to give feedback as to improving wording etc!

cheers

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

We want to go our first party, even got a nice invite for this saturday. can't get a bloody baby sitter so had to turn it down well gutted.

Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think we should all help newbies because after all we was all new once and remember how neverous you was, i think newbies need experienced people to help them along, i remeber my first meet many many years ago when i was with the hubby, we had never met anyone before and nor had the couple we was meeting, what a nightmear, four nervous people, not knowing what to do, not knowing what was expected, not knowing if we dare make the first move lol if your new i think i really need to meet someone with confidance in swinging to tell you, this is ok, thats ok, someone who will take the lead a little, 3 times we met that couple and never played because none of us dared make the first move lol

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Yep I agree, everyones new.

maybe our first party and a three sum. Know that would be a frist time party.

cheers

Sue and Ian

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