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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons

Which do you go for . Me I go for personality everytime and like intelligence as well.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All 3

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price?"
lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we have to choose there are lots of good looking nice people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not fooling any body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price?"

i actually really would

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price "

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

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I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x"

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic???

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic??? "

No im saying she is attractive but would like to find out about her personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like a mixture of all 3.

On a swinging site where the objectives are sexual then one can afford to be shallow and say looks. If you're looking for a life partner however, then it might be a different story.

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic???

No im saying she is attractive but would like to find out about her personality "

Oh damn !!!!!

No plastic here !!!! They don't make a mould big enough !!!!!!! but void of personality too Bloody fab at BJ's tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they are that good looking it doesnt matter much about their personality as long as they are reasonably nice, to your face anyway. i think the nicer ones are probably married, on here anyway.

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"Would like a mixture of all 3.

On a swinging site where the objectives are sexual then one can afford to be shallow and say looks. If you're looking for a life partner however, then it might be a different story."

Agreed and we all have different ideas of attractive but even on a sex site I wouldn't want to have sex with a vacuous airhead who just lay there and had nothing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love the remote controls (lol) xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits, arse and fanny please.

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic???

No im saying she is attractive but would like to find out about her personality

Oh damn !!!!!

No plastic here !!!! They don't make a mould big enough !!!!!!! but void of personality too Bloody fab at BJ's tho "

Now you are teasing lol

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic???

No im saying she is attractive but would like to find out about her personality

Oh damn !!!!!

No plastic here !!!! They don't make a mould big enough !!!!!!! but void of personality too Bloody fab at BJ's tho

Now you are teasing lol"

Who Moi !!!! As if I would !!!

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price? lol mind you Katie is all plastic. Would prefer dawn French to Katie price

I would chat to miss chevious and find out about her personality x

Does that mean you're saying she's fat ? Or not made of plastic???

No im saying she is attractive but would like to find out about her personality

Oh damn !!!!!

No plastic here !!!! They don't make a mould big enough !!!!!!! but void of personality too Bloody fab at BJ's tho

Now you are teasing lol

Who Moi !!!! As if I would !!! "

And you said you had no personality and if im not mistaken I spot the intelligence coming through too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about pamela anderson then, shes got the looks, and personality too.

nice kind gentle lady who cares about animals, beautiful on the inside too.

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"what about pamela anderson then, shes got the looks, and personality too.

nice kind gentle lady who cares about animals, beautiful on the inside too. "

Agreed . My response was to Katie Price who in my opinion has none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them...these are my preferences

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

If we're at a club then the first thing that attracts us is the personality of the others we may meet there. Looks would, in all honesty, be second. Sure attractiveness is important but that's only skin deep. Personality is the sum of the whole not just the flesh.

Via fabs the first thing would be the profile (hopefully shows some of their personality in it), then pics.

Last is intelligence. A warm bright vivacious personality couldn't be connected to an IQ the same size as a glass of water could it?

Finally, concerning Jo Brand over Katie Price? To paraphrase Vivian from the Young Ones "I wouldn't sleep with her unless I was using Neil as a condom". Jo Brand is mega hot compared to the vacuous mare that is Katie Price.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

A combination of all three....albeit how a person instinctively behaves and carries themselves can be very sexy in itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

neither

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By *ornyboy46 OP   Man
over a year ago

heatons


"If we're at a club then the first thing that attracts us is the personality of the others we may meet there. Looks would, in all honesty, be second. Sure attractiveness is important but that's only skin deep. Personality is the sum of the whole not just the flesh.

Via fabs the first thing would be the profile (hopefully shows some of their personality in it), then pics.

Last is intelligence. A warm bright vivacious personality couldn't be connected to an IQ the same size as a glass of water could it?

Finally, concerning Jo Brand over Katie Price? To paraphrase Vivian from the Young Ones "I wouldn't sleep with her unless I was using Neil as a condom". Jo Brand is mega hot compared to the vacuous mare that is Katie Price. "

This shows you can have looks personality and intelligence Ty for you words of wisdom and may I say I also admire your courage to agree with me re Katie Price lol

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,


"neither"

looks intelligence and personality.....and its neither from you! Lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Wit. That rare combination of intelligence, personality and a similar wavelength both in terms of laughter and kinkiness. I take sex seriously but it should be loads of fun.

Looks help but only if you've got the other two in the right combination. I'm a cerebral fucker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All 3 "

Me too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would like a mixture of all 3.

On a swinging site where the objectives are sexual then one can afford to be shallow and say looks. If you're looking for a life partner however, then it might be a different story."

Yep. I go for looks on here, why wouldn't I? I do have to like them too but I have to like their looks first.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"All 3 "

This if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks initially

personality

intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"neither

looks intelligence and personality.....and its neither from you! Lol"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be the combination of all three. You can't choose just one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch ."

NSA means no strings attached not NO STANDARDS APPARENTLY..

AHAG might be more your motto (any holes a goal)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all 3 but some more than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has to be the combination of all three. You can't choose just one "

I knew you would have this opinion Banana!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch ."

Tut tut ...no standards then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch ."

Gulp....

*rushes for block button*

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch .

Gulp....

*rushes for block button*

"

Beats you to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks initially

personality

intelligence

"

same here....

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

There has to be a physical attraction at first, it could be a smile or the eyes, not necessarily the whole package, then if you can chat easily and laugh you're getting somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all three so expect the same in return but I find modesty is another desirable trait.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

On here... Looks attract me initially then as long as they can have a laugh and a good chat that's good for me.

I have however been in relationships with people that I haven't thought 'phwoar' when we met as I've got to know them over time and personality shines through.

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

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"looks initially

personality

intelligence

"

Personality means they might get a second meet us! (If they want one) But it's 100% looks to start with.

Intelligence is a nice bonus but merges with personality and is a huge part of what you bring to the conversation.

If you're total air heads we would find you less attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch .

Gulp....

*rushes for block button*

"

That's ok lol to far anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch .

Gulp....

*rushes for block button*

That's ok lol to far anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for owt, cos shag is a shag, that's what NSA means, another bed notch .

Gulp....

*rushes for block button*

That's ok lol to far anyway "

Ah drat!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you prefer Jo Brand to Katie Price?"

Hmmmm, is Jo Brand intelligent? Is a bit subjective. Shall we count their millions stashed away as evidence of their intelligence and personality? You can make money if you are pretty and thick, not easy to keep it though, that takes a bit of savvy

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Looks to start with if pics, or a well written profile

Then a combination of personality and intelligence as trying to converse with someone is part of the build up to a meet so in my view a degree of intelligence and personality go hand in hand

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

All 3 in that order.

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

They don't have to be typically good looking, just so long as they aren't hideous. Average is fine and becomes hot for me if they are funny and have half a brain. Quirky is even better, quirky is the hottest. All you weirdos gather here upon my altar to be worshipped.

Sexual attraction is very superficial, but I can easily go off someone good looking when they open their mouth and find them to be "ugly on the inside". I shagged an arrogant twat when I went to my very first swingers club. Not traumatised or anything, but sheesh, I won't be doing that again, I'd rather have a wank.

Those who said intelligence is last on the list and not that important, I don't know. Academics are filth, I should know, I married one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you go for . Me I go for personality everytime and like intelligence as well. "

On here, looks

Relationship wise , all three...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks are fairly important as im not bothered about personality when im meeting a man for sex, i would prefer to meet quiet men but not too quiet.

some people just talk so much rubish they bore me to death.

i like nice people who arent too serious or grumpy, not much to ask for is it.

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"looks are fairly important as im not bothered about personality when im meeting a man for sex, i would prefer to meet quiet men but not too quiet.

some people just talk so much rubish they bore me to death.

i like nice people who arent too serious or grumpy, not much to ask for is it. "

Ha yes; I've often thought , "yes, I would, but you'll have to shut the fuck up though" about blokes in my day to day life. Quiet ones are the best. No one wants "all mouth and no trousers".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks

Intelligence

AND personality

All three are important.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Why do we have to choose there are lots of good looking nice people out there "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All three in that order

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

All three definatly x have turned down a couple of six pack who have personality of a stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 6pack lol

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