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Is switching more of a male thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive only been on here for about a week, and so far ive noticed (from the profiles ive read) that most women prefer to be either sub or domme! Is switching more of a male thing?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Don't know if it is or isn't. If I had to give myself a label it would be switch. I get messages every day asking if I'm sub and when I say no it's invariably. 'oh so you're domme then.' can't two people just meet for a good old fashioned fuck anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt that, I would think a man would stick to Dom/ Sub, I maybe wrong, just what I have seen on my travels.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love being both, but it doesnt seem to be that common with the women on here

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd love to try switch ! But unfortunately yet to find right person to explore this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Each to their own I guess, Do feel abit of a freak though when I get replies saying things like "I could never domme a man" or "Its un-manly to be dommed" lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How fast can you get down here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few profiles on here admit to a D/s preference. Call me a cynic I suspect some men will claim to identify as switches in an attempt to cover all bases

Amongst our friends on the kink scene I've never viewed switching as gender specific. Some people switch, some don't.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Don't know if it is or isn't. If I had to give myself a label it would be switch. I get messages every day asking if I'm sub and when I say no it's invariably. 'oh so you're domme then.' can't two people just meet for a good old fashioned fuck anymore? "

I'm Dom and don't switch so accept that those who want a sub/ switch aren't going to be interested in me

However I can, and do meet for non D/S meets as well and enjoy them loads and suspect many Doms out there do exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to try switch ! But unfortunately yet to find right person to explore this. "

I'm not too busy. *hint*

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Shame you're not local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switch but I'm not meeting

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We just like to have fun.. however the mood takes us. Sometimes she's in charge other times she wants to be dominated.

I just do as I'm told

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation "

That's two of us then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation

That's two of us then "

And a third - I do a little bit of sub (once), a little bit of Dom, a little bit of switch and a huge amount of just getting on with sex and fucking

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By *drogansMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation

That's two of us then

And a third - I do a little bit of sub (once), a little bit of Dom, a little bit of switch and a huge amount of just getting on with sex and fucking "

I'm generally in this category too... But then I've only dabbled. I had a recent sub experience that really whet my appetite for it, perhaps because I normally assume a more dominant role.

Jase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do what you enjoy and feel good doing. I'm a sub that has no inclination to switch, its not me at all. One of my doms is a switch and it's great because he knows it from both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had always been sub but recently found I have a Domme side by accident. A "Dom" pissed me off and I totally switched on him. Have played Domme few times now and liking it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much depends on my mood and who I am with at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both but go in phases sometimes I want to told what to do , then the Dom in me comes out and it's god help the man then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being told what to do, waiting on commands, A Dom teaching a sub I love to watch.

Her

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I've never noticed a gender divide in switching. That said I do very much appreciate switch ladies so perhaps I'm more on the look out

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I thought about switching, then reality kicked in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a switch but only sub on fab as I have enough sub males to keep me happy for 2 life times but finding a Dom is hard work. I seem to be a lot more choosy. I would need a connection with a Dom but I can be Dom with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and to answer your question. I haven't got a frigging clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss giggles switches although she is still finding her dom side

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