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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooooo

Go to a club or party I like to dress nice

Hot underwear nice dress heels etc

But for a meet one on one ( which doesn't often happen tbh) I feel a bit silly

So I opt for just pretty casual clothes but nice knickers and bra etc

Is anyone else like me or do you all think I should make more of an effort ?

What do all you ladies wear ? All your pics show you in stockings etc

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If I'm going pubbing and clubbing or to a TG Event, like BNO or LFF, then I dress up, with a nice dress and so on.

If I'm going to the Attic or dogging, then I'll look a bit more tarty, with a shorter skirt on.

I don't do 1 on 1 meets, generally, as it takes 90 minutes to get ready and most guys have shot their load in 15 minutes, less if they can get me to shut up quicker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress for clubs.

Casual for one to one meets. As the above poster said, sometimes it's not worth getting dressed up for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I'm going pubbing and clubbing or to a TG Event, like BNO or LFF, then I dress up, with a nice dress and so on.

If I'm going to the Attic or dogging, then I'll look a bit more tarty, with a shorter skirt on.

I don't do 1 on 1 meets, generally, as it takes 90 minutes to get ready and most guys have shot their load in 15 minutes, less if they can get me to shut up quicker. "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club.. Dress, heels and usually a basque.

Private meets.. Skinny jeans, and a vest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make the effort, smell nice regardless of when and where i meet. Although, my dress sense may be rather different but i like to look good.

However, this may be ironic (if that's the rigt word) but whoever i'm meeting i want them to be comfortable around me. So, they're welcome to wear whatever they want and i always tell them that - no need to fancy dress around me.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Tend to wear a dress to both, but only cause I look a bugger in jeans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear a skirt with hold ups as I hate bare legs on a meet. I wear trousers if we have a social though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooooo

Go to a club or party I like to dress nice

Hot underwear nice dress heels etc

But for a meet one on one ( which doesn't often happen tbh) I feel a bit silly

So I opt for just pretty casual clothes but nice knickers and bra etc

Is anyone else like me or do you all think I should make more of an effort ?

What do all you ladies wear ? All your pics show you in stockings etc "

I have only ever done one on ones...so far.

I wear a dress, something low cut and usually with stockings underneath and a matching bra...

Sadly I can't wear heels due to a knackered back. I can bring them though!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wear nice knickers too, but only if appropriate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been to 1 club but wore a low cut, short dress, stockings, heels and nice undies..next time I'll be a little more daring I think. For a first 1 2 1 after a social it's usually a drink out first so I'd wear the same but if I'm meeting at home with a buddy it's something a little more sexy. Just a social is smart casual, jeans, maxi dress, jumper dress etc dependant on weather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally - I've asked the ladies I've met to turn up in what they're comfortable in.

first meets are nervous enough without stressing about what you're wearing.

If you want to dress sexy then great, but if you'd rather turn up in jeans and top then that's fine too.

accept people for who they are - not what you want them to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make the effort. I usually feel I go ott. So last night I wore white trousers and a purple top and pretty flip flops. I think he appreciated it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear short skirt, stockings and heels. I don't like wearing underwear and lets be honest it doesn't stay on long enough to be appreciated anyway.

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By *oxy-blonde-vixenWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

For me it depends on my mood and also how well I know the person

First meet I tend to wear a nice dress stockings heels the works

If I meet them again especially if it's at home it seems to get less each time haha

D x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just feel a bit silly sat on sofa with stockings and heels lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooooo

Go to a club or party I like to dress nice

Hot underwear nice dress heels etc

But for a meet one on one ( which doesn't often happen tbh) I feel a bit silly

So I opt for just pretty casual clothes but nice knickers and bra etc

Is anyone else like me or do you all think I should make more of an effort ?

What do all you ladies wear ? All your pics show you in stockings etc "

I don't go to clubs but if I did I'd dress up but one for one meet am like you casual clothes nice underwear one man asked me to dress up as if I was of out got dressed and felt uncomfortable to be dressed like that sat in the house so got changed lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should always wear whatever makes you feel happy, confident and sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in my birthday suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do clubs but for meets something short n tight dress usually with nice undies n heels luv the look on his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to dress up for meets, sexy undies, stockings and heels. Just feels good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wear basque heels etc on a meet although depending on who when I where I sometimes don't bother just nice bra and knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as you OP for one to one meets as I don't go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just ordered new undies !!!!! Mmmm hee hee got a special meet end the month sooo excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you angel nothing like new undies to make u feel sexy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good for you angel nothing like new undies to make u feel sexy x"

Got to over come feeling silly though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooooo

Go to a club or party I like to dress nice

Hot underwear nice dress heels etc

But for a meet one on one ( which doesn't often happen tbh) I feel a bit silly

So I opt for just pretty casual clothes but nice knickers and bra etc

Is anyone else like me or do you all think I should make more of an effort ?

What do all you ladies wear ? All your pics show you in stockings etc "

Just those heels in your profile pic would be good for me

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

One thing I never ever do is dress for a meet. (No that doesn't mean I'm naked). I dress for me and only me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have got all the new bits for me

But not sure what others do as obv we will have a catch up first

Do I wear all my stuff under a dress and pop my slippers on as well ha ha

Omg bloody clueless

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Circumstances dictate.

I met a lady who was dressed for business and I asked if she would like me to dress similarly to avoid looking incongruous.

She said wear what you want, so it was jeans and a polo.

Personally I would rather not meet a lady 'dressed to impress' publicly but in private then she can wear wth she wants. Its irrelevant what she wears unless its for ease of access in the carpark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Circumstances dictate.

I met a lady who was dressed for business and I asked if she would like me to dress similarly to avoid looking incongruous.

She said wear what you want, so it was jeans and a polo.

Personally I would rather not meet a lady 'dressed to impress' publicly but in private then she can wear wth she wants. Its irrelevant what she wears unless its for ease of access in the carpark

"

It's not public it's at home

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Whatever is comfortable.

Its all in tge face and eyes for me....all the rest is frippery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the things I love about the summer is women in summer dresses, better still if no knickers and stockings lol. come on girls, get your dresses out, flash some thigh and make all us older pervs happy. Re meeting, tbh I always make the effort with a nice shirt, maybe jacket, decent pair of trousers or jeans and nice shoes, but I'm not fussed what my meet is wearing. If I get my way, they wont be wearing it for long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's all go then ooooh I am be trussed up under my onesie ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I feel like going the whole hog. Extra makeup,nice dress,nice underwear,holdups,heels and shaved to within an inch of my life. Then I remember I don't have anyone to do it for so I stick my pjs on and watch a film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If going club then a dress normally followed by lots of flapping.

One on one then it's jeans and a top with nice underwear.

I don't do skirts and dresses so always tell them it will be jeans. I've been really lucky as no one has ever turned me down for it rather they have said they are happy so long as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Circumstances dictate.

I met a lady who was dressed for business and I asked if she would like me to dress similarly to avoid looking incongruous.

She said wear what you want, so it was jeans and a polo.

Personally I would rather not meet a lady 'dressed to impress' publicly but in private then she can wear wth she wants. Its irrelevant what she wears unless its for ease of access in the carpark

It's not public it's at home "

I don't accom so that solves that

One guy I have known for years had ended up with me in his dressing gown before now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you just gotta feel good in what ever you wear, if your nervous will take the good outta it xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

95% of ours are private meets.....what I wear will depend on where we are meeting and if it's a social or a play meet.

Play meets I will always wear a dress or nice outfit complete with heels, hold ups etc.

Social meet will usually be smart jeans and a top.

I wear what I feel comfortable in at the time....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"95% of ours are private meets.....what I wear will depend on where we are meeting and if it's a social or a play meet.

Play meets I will always wear a dress or nice outfit complete with heels, hold ups etc.

Social meet will usually be smart jeans and a top.

I wear what I feel comfortable in at the time...."

We will be playing oh yes ha ha

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