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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are thinking of trying anal for the first time. Whilst we enjoy a great sex life this will be the first time either of us have had anal sex. Any help/tips on the practicalties to make it as easy/pleasurable as possible would be greatly appreciated x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Lube, lube and oh did I mention, lube

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i love anal with the right people as there has to be trust there to do it i think

personally i am not a fan of lube but yo may wish to try it if it is your first time.

Take it slowly, get yourself nice and relaxed (a good few orgasms should do this

), let the woman take the lead - backing herself onto the guy so she has control over depth and speed etc

hope this has helped and hope you have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the tips. I think it would be a combination of lube and relaxation for our first attempt,lol x

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

and of course its no good with a floppy cock!.

if it aint stiff it ain't worth a fuck!,you just cannot get a floppy cock in there properly.lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"and of course its no good with a floppy cock!.

if it aint stiff it ain't worth a fuck!,you just cannot get a floppy cock in there properly.lol"

pmsl!! true i guess

although there was a guy on here that could do it to himself when floppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that guy was genetically fucked!!!

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

My man is great at anal.. We start of nice and slow with him whispering in my ear to relax me. We dont need lube but you can get booty lube to help you out. He slides in nice and slow making sure all ok then slowly gets deeper and faster. Heaven. Make sure that if you do anal you change condoms before sliding back into a pussy ( prevents the possibilty of germs transferring )

So plenty of trust needed and patience. Have you tried butt plugs first??? That might ease you in to it too.

Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things

1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock

2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too

3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed

4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved

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By *imberTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things

1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock

2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too

3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed

4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved

Will agree on all four points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bite the pillow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a self proclaimed expert on the issue, I just find it difficult to put into type my advice, I can show you.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Buy some "poppers" from your local sex shop about £4 bottle. Its what gay guys use to relax their ring. Sniff about 10 mins before will make u feel sexy and relax your anal area. Its cheap and legal Try it sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy some "poppers" from your local sex shop about £4 bottle. Its what gay guys use to relax their ring. Sniff about 10 mins before will make u feel sexy and relax your anal area. Its cheap and legal Try it sometime

I've heard that works, but can also give serious headache afterwards, so plenty of painkillers in case that happens, lol.

Lube, some swear by it, others think it desensitises the experience, but I would recommend using lube the first time at least, although I didn't and it was ok, in fact the lady loved it.

take advice from here, and find your own way around it.

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By *ennylanebabeWoman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things

1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock

2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too

3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed

4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved

agree with all of them. Being relaxed is key to trying it, could also have a bath before hand as that helps.

But don't rush, go with what feels right. even if it takes 20 minutes or longer before you feel comfortbale.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

If all the above dont work go out with Wayne Rooney . Hes got a microscopic Cock (so im told lol)

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