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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're off on our hols soon and both looking forward to being naughty in the sun.

Chances of finding an established swinging couple who we both fancy are slim, but we discussed getting a single to join us. Guessing that persuading a single guy wouldn't be too difficult ,a single woman would maybe take more work.

Question is, any couples actually managed this? Would love to hear how you approached this and did it all work out or did the person freak when it came down to it.

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I look forward to hearing people's stories on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is it your going? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where is it your going? Xx"

Nice try

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By *aledCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

About 3 years ago me and jo were staying in a hotel in Newcastle, off we go for a drink, jo goes off to the toilet, and is away for ages. Anyway, she comes back and told me she'd been talking to a girl in the toilets whod just split up with boyfriend. Cutting to the chase, she joined us for a drink, and during conversation, we said that we were swingers, and she was intrigued. She joined us at our hotel, stayed all night, one of the best nights of my life tbh. We are still in touch, and meet up occasionally. Think if you drop the subject into conversation, so long as you know your not likely to bump into them again, go for it and you will find that most people are interested in the life, and up for fun too.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"About 3 years ago me and jo were staying in a hotel in Newcastle, off we go for a drink, jo goes off to the toilet, and is away for ages. Anyway, she comes back and told me she'd been talking to a girl in the toilets whod just split up with boyfriend. Cutting to the chase, she joined us for a drink, and during conversation, we said that we were swingers, and she was intrigued. She joined us at our hotel, stayed all night, one of the best nights of my life tbh. We are still in touch, and meet up occasionally. Think if you drop the subject into conversation, so long as you know your not likely to bump into them again, go for it and you will find that most people are interested in the life, and up for fun too.

good luck"

sounds great, nice to hear it can happen

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We have done this many times and would be surprised how many don't get freaked out with it. This is our fav type of fun and do it locally when out too (infact out this weekend on pull). Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're off on our hols soon and both looking forward to being naughty in the sun.

Question is, any couples actually managed this? Would love to hear how you approached this and did it all work out or did the person freak when it came down to it."

It would definitely count on your location I would have thought. In Newcastle its a bit more laid back when it comes to sex. If you are abroad people tend to be more relaxed and open to sex especially women. I guess because nobody would know them there so they are not conscious of people judging them. You are an attractive couple so if you are friendly enough some girl might come forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted on here a something sort of related to this.

One of my favorite things to do, is meet cpls, who are on holidays here in vanilla tours it bars. And see if I can seduce them into having fun. It's ridiculously hard!

Of course I will be discrete and very non pushy. Always respect them and know the boundries of the game.

Just simple fun cheeky talk. Planting seats in their thoughts about sex and being liberated.

A few times I succeeded. A few times you could see that one was up for fun while the other was reserved.

One time I remember, his wife telling me to get him d*unk and meet later.

One of the most shocking was her hubby asking me if i can find a mucky to put in his wife's drink...i told that fucker...fuck off and walked away.

It's good fun just know your boundries and respect them and the bar where you do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 4sum I ever had me and my then g/f pretty much seduced to vanilla friends (not a couple).

crystal and I have also had several 3sums with females that we have met at munches and invited home with us. Though granted that is a little easier than a totally vanilla environment, I'm confident we could in the right sort of bar

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think if they are single then it's simply a matter of being clear that you are open to flirtation just like the rest of the singles.

But like you say single guys will be easier to pick up so good luck and have fun

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