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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is well known even porn stars can suffer with performance anxiety and have problems getting and staying hard. On a similar theme, how common is for guys to get and stay hard in gangbangs? I'm sure they'll be women and men who can comment on this! How common is it?

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

E Suffolk

Performance anxiety?

Hang on, I'll just tune my fiddle. The g string needs slackening off a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is common for guys to suffer it.. however I find those that do best don't worry about others... they are confident in what they have..

BUT... even the most experienced gangbang guys can sometimes have issues..and you have to remember that its not just about being turned on... it is so many other factors.

but it is such a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Cali. I have an invite to one and find the idea so incredibly horny at one level, yet daunting at another! It wouldn't be good to show and just not to get hard. Would feel awful, if that happened. Perhaps my horn levels on the day will see me through! Would love to try, maybe just this once, but hate the idea of losing my bottle before or struggling to get and stay hard when in such close proximity to a load of blokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you done 3sums etc ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope experienced greedy girls and other GB men attendees would carry on between themselves and not make issue.

It's not like a school playground OP where if you don't perform 100 % the others will stand stare and laugh! I expect it when we have GBs and make allowances, hopefully to the point that it goes pretty much unnoticed and the guy has time to recover whilst watching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the words. They've helped. Of course, it's a male pride thing! Sure you're right and the attention will all be focused on the woman at the centre of things! The idea is a massive turn on. And to answer Cali, no, I haven't! Too sheltered a life, I guess! I've been with women whose partners watched on, so guess it's just an extension of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a very, very horny orgy a few years ago with 2 other gorgeous couples. It was one of these wild nights when there the girl had no limits.

Unfortunately for one of the guys the whole thing just proved to much for him & even 3 girls simultaneously sucking his cock & balls failed to have any impact.

I felt really sorry for him - there but by the grace of God.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed a few guys behind me have problems staying hard after 45 minutes or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would hope experienced greedy girls and other GB men attendees would carry on between themselves and not make issue.

It's not like a school playground OP where if you don't perform 100 % the others will stand stare and laugh! I expect it when we have GBs and make allowances, hopefully to the point that it goes pretty much unnoticed and the guy has time to recover whilst watching.

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This is true.. I will always try to help a guy and cover up to some degree and make it not an issue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find that a GB takes some of the pressure off...

lets face it, it can be quite intimidating to meet a couple and be expected to fuck for hours like a porn star at least at a gangbang others can take up the slack when you need a rest LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. That last story shows what can happen. For women, a lot of sex is in the mind. For men, I think that's even more pronounced! In a situation like that, anxiety will take over and a crane isn't going to move the thing! Lol. I suppose I'll try to think if it's good, great, have fun. Else who cares? Only way to find out if it's your thing is to try it at least once!

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