FabSwingers.com forum: Downright rude

By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Just been looking at the "who's _iewed me" thing.

Last profile started off with the memorable line...ARE MOST OF YOU SINGLES GUYS THICK (sic).

The whole thing continues in much the same vain with lots of block capitals, rules such as the fact they're looking for "discreet" (sic) people etc.

It concludes with the warning that if you don't fit the bill, your message will be DELETED & BLOCKED.

Should I block them to save them trouble of having to nuke me as totally unsuitable due to my lack of ability to deal with anyone so angry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles like that, often makes me wonder what they're trying to achieve. If they message you just say thanks but you're not really appealing to me with your negative profile then block

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I would!

Plenty of couples who are polite and respectful. Who needs the ones who aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men get pissed off with abusive comments.

Single fems and couples get pissed off being bombarded by single men who bombard their inbox who don't even match their requirements.

What do you think OP, is there an answer somewhere ?

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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Nah - into every life a little rain must fall I guess!

But hey the sun is shining outside so anyone for al fresco fun - as long as you're not....

.....starts long list.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You might think that my profile starts off on a negative note too...

But it's only because I get lots of messages asking the same thing over and over... It's at the top of the profile for those not reading the full content.

As soon as I take this message off, I get asked the same question, so now it stays.

I would just reply a polite ty no ty and block if you don't want contacted again.

Hope this makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everybody needs to chill, why is there such a single male / female and couples divide ?

We are all here for similar things but ultimately one thing and that's fun, be that through social, chatting, bedroom fun or camming or what ever takes your fancy !

Enjoy the sun, I am

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By *rnortholt OP Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"You might think that my profile starts off on a negative note too...

But it's only because I get lots of messages asking the same thing over and over... It's at the top of the profile for those not reading the full content.

As soon as I take this message off, I get asked the same question, so now it stays.

I would just reply a polite ty no ty and block if you don't want contacted again.

Hope this makes sense lol

Nope - I think making clear what you want is fine - or don't want. But blanket insults kind of make people look like they're too wound up to actually be a fun meet - even with their ideal profile.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the more ranty, the more fools they attract

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Why are you concerned about someone elses profile, its not to your taste so simply move on.

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By *hatFellaNZMan
over a year ago

London

"You might think that my profile starts off on a negative note too...

But it's only because I get lots of messages asking the same thing over and over... It's at the top of the profile for those not reading the full content.

As soon as I take this message off, I get asked the same question, so now it stays.

I would just reply a polite ty no ty and block if you don't want contacted again.

Hope this makes sense lol

Nope - I think making clear what you want is fine - or don't want. But blanket insults kind of make people look like they're too wound up to actually be a fun meet - even with their ideal profile. "

That's true, but that the risk they run with that type of profile commentary.

On the plus side, they are at least easier in some respects - you wouldn't bother trying to contacting them and wasting either your time or theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to be the arsehole of the thread here...

The "discreet" you reference as incorrect but taken directly from the profile is actually correct, meaning subtle, covert etc.

The other "discrete" means set value or non continuous.

Its a pet peeve that was once on my profile.

/end rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everybody needs to chill, why is there such a single male / female and couples divide ?

We are all here for similar things but ultimately one thing and that's fun, be that through social, chatting, bedroom fun or camming or what ever takes your fancy !

Enjoy the sun, I am

my thoughts exactly! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ranty capital lettered profiles are usualla clear warning that these peeps will not be much different in the flesh so stear the hell clear. My faves are the ones which scream "NO COCK PICS" yet their profile pics are usually full of fanny pics similar to 5 day old roadkill(after the crows have picked it over). Consider such profiles as close shaves and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been looking at the "who's _iewed me" thing.

Last profile started off with the memorable line...ARE MOST OF YOU SINGLES GUYS THICK (sic).

The whole thing continues in much the same vain with lots of block capitals, rules such as the fact they're looking for "discreet" (sic) people etc.

It concludes with the warning that if you don't fit the bill, your message will be DELETED & BLOCKED.

Should I block them to save them trouble of having to nuke me as totally unsuitable due to my lack of ability to deal with anyone so angry?

That is just a shit profile of someone you definitely do not want to meet socially let alone intimately. Fuck um and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ranty capital lettered profiles are usualla clear warning that these peeps will not be much different in the flesh so stear the hell clear. My faves are the ones which scream "NO COCK PICS" yet their profile pics are usually full of fanny pics similar to 5 day old roadkill(after the crows have picked it over). Consider such profiles as close shaves and move on."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'ranty' negative profiles speak volumes don't they....

A really good filter tbh.... And always amuse

Ours makes mention of said types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome....

Road kill, Crows etc..... Very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been looking at the "who's _iewed me" thing.

Last profile started off with the memorable line...ARE MOST OF YOU SINGLES GUYS THICK (sic).

The whole thing continues in much the same vain with lots of block capitals, rules such as the fact they're looking for "discreet" (sic) people etc.

It concludes with the warning that if you don't fit the bill, your message will be DELETED & BLOCKED.

Should I block them to save them trouble of having to nuke me as totally unsuitable due to my lack of ability to deal with anyone so angry?

Any women with BLOCK CAPS writing and vile comments about WHAT THEY WANT ect. I just ignore or block. I just think get a grip, its about mutual satisfaction and respect. If theyve got their heads so far up their own asses just because a lot of desperate guys message them daily, well good luck. But they aint for me. Unlike a lot of guys on here ive got standards and im prepared to wait as long as it takes to meet the right women on here. As ive mentioned on a previous thread, this is a secondary way for me to meet women. Real life is the primary. If more blokes thought like that, then single fems or couples with vile, horrible, negative profiles would have a completley different attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome....

Road kill, Crows etc..... Very good"

Substitute Crows for badger or fox depending on length of bush!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a profile the other week and the lady listed about 50 reasons why she would block you messaged her.

All I could think was "get over yourself "

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