FabSwingers.com forum: Who wants to organise a meet for us

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well we have been talking and thought it would be hot If someone could arrange a meet for us.

We know it sounds lazy and welcome any criticism for our post.

Just go easy we are people to you know x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck

you may need to give a clue what type of meet you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well we are looking for a social first to make sure we get on and then see where it leads. We are looking to meet bi women as well

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Not quite sure what you're asking for here... is it that you want a third party to organise a meet between you and someone else? Like a go-between?

If so - a bit cheeky in my opinion.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

will you want the person organising to play a part in the meet or just be Cilla

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not quite sure what you're asking for here... is it that you want a third party to organise a meet between you and someone else? Like a go-between?

If so - a bit cheeky in my opinion."

That is it exactly. We know it's cheeky but we are known for being cheeky.

Just thought we might give it a go. If people think it's a bad idea we will just drop it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"will you want the person organising to play a part in the meet or just be Cilla"

Depends really, if it's a man then no. As we aren't ready to meet men yet

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"will you want the person organising to play a part in the meet or just be Cilla

Depends really, if it's a man then no. As we aren't ready to meet men yet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This us actually quite funny...lazy as hell but funny

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Not quite sure what you're asking for here... is it that you want a third party to organise a meet between you and someone else? Like a go-between?

If so - a bit cheeky in my opinion.

That is it exactly. We know it's cheeky but we are known for being cheeky.

Just thought we might give it a go. If people think it's a bad idea we will just drop it

It's a great idea!

Got you sorted already! There's a guy in another thread looking for a meet right now!!

Admittedly - it's via Skype - but hey - you didn't give enough detail so it's your fault.

I told him you'd be naked, oiled and on your bed in half an hour - that ok?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wish you a lorra lorra luck with this....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This us actually quite funny...lazy as hell but funny

It's a Sunday. The day of rest so technically it's fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bad idea for a number of reasons.

1. What's in it for the person organising the meet?

2. If a complete stranger organises a meet for two other complete strangers with yet more complete strangers....complete disaster in the making.

3. It's hard enough to arrange your own meets, balancing diaries...imagine that x2

I'm sure there are agencies that specialise in this but that would be a paid service.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not quite sure what you're asking for here... is it that you want a third party to organise a meet between you and someone else? Like a go-between?

If so - a bit cheeky in my opinion.

That is it exactly. We know it's cheeky but we are known for being cheeky.

Just thought we might give it a go. If people think it's a bad idea we will just drop it

It's a great idea!

Got you sorted already! There's a guy in another thread looking for a meet right now!!

Admittedly - it's via Skype - but hey - you didn't give enough detail so it's your fault.

I told him you'd be naked, oiled and on your bed in half an hour - that ok?

Great did you tell him we have celery sticks and houmous to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a bad idea for a number of reasons.

1. What's in it for the person organising the meet?

2. If a complete stranger organises a meet for two other complete strangers with yet more complete strangers....complete disaster in the making.

3. It's hard enough to arrange your own meets, balancing diaries...imagine that x2

I'm sure there are agencies that specialise in this but that would be a paid service.

Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you a lorra lorra luck with this...."

You'd make a great Cilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bad idea for a number of reasons.

1. What's in it for the person organising the meet?

2. If a complete stranger organises a meet for two other complete strangers with yet more complete strangers....complete disaster in the making.

3. It's hard enough to arrange your own meets, balancing diaries...imagine that x2

I'm sure there are agencies that specialise in this but that would be a paid service.

Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?"

It could be cool. No harm in trying. Just be wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?"

I really wouldn't have thought so, not a lot if people read the forums.

If this is really something you'd like to do why not get someone you've already met to do it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I wish you a lorra lorra luck with this....

You'd make a great Cilla.

thank you for your kind words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish you a lorra lorra luck with this....

You'd make a great Cilla.

thank you for your kind words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?

I really wouldn't have thought so, not a lot if people read the forums.

If this is really something you'd like to do why not get someone you've already met to do it.

Becuase we still haven't met any one yet

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?

I really wouldn't have thought so, not a lot if people read the forums.

If this is really something you'd like to do why not get someone you've already met to do it.

Becuase we still haven't met any one yet

It's a beautiful day - why not get yourselves down to Kestrels and meet some people to have fun with? It'll be busy today so lots to choose from.

There - I've done some arranging for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?

I really wouldn't have thought so, not a lot if people read the forums.

If this is really something you'd like to do why not get someone you've already met to do it.

Becuase we still haven't met any one yet

It's a beautiful day - why not get yourselves down to Kestrels and meet some people to have fun with? It'll be busy today so lots to choose from.

There - I've done some arranging for you

Kestrels is quite far from us. We are definitely thinking of hitting it up soon. Same with OP4F

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we are looking for a social first to make sure we get on and then see where it leads. We are looking to meet bi women as well"

Well you can count us out then , a social first ?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Why on earth would you want to meet someone you have never even interacted with? Recipe for disaster.

Someone could set you up with a couple/fem they think is hot, and you could just think "no way"

Stop being lazy, and go make your own meets. Even as a single bi fem, when I play - I do all the looking, and choose my play friends. Its not all just be pretty and watch the ladies flock to you.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Surely this is a wind up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it first odd other users had to ask what the op wanted.. being more specific saves time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm up for it, I've got a few 'ladies' in mind. But once I set it up you can't turn it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we are looking for a social first to make sure we get on and then see where it leads. We are looking to meet bi women as well

Well you can count us out then , a social first ?

Some people prefer a social meet 1st even if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we are looking for a social first to make sure we get on and then see where it leads. We are looking to meet bi women as well

Well you can count us out then , a social first ?

Some people prefer a social meet 1st even if you don't. "

And some people don't , even if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle arranging my own not alone someone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you free on 28th June?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This us actually quite funny...lazy as hell but funny

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're seeking a fuck planner?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

read the green arrow, sense of expectation is quite high, effort in is quite low OP. Only you can make fab work for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We were just seeing if it was possible that's all. Yeah it's lazy as hell and we did find it funny and didn't really expect anything from it.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Yeah you are right and we did think it wouldn't work. No harm in trying tho right? Or have we just destroyed our chances of meeting completely now?

I really wouldn't have thought so, not a lot if people read the forums.

If this is really something you'd like to do why not get someone you've already met to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and just when I'm thinking the fucking weirdos on this site are predominantly sad single men.... this comes along

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

"We were just seeing if it was possible that's all. Yeah it's lazy as hell and we did find it funny and didn't really expect anything from it.

If you were closer we would take you up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea, turn up at lady gardens next London social. Meet charming people and bobs yer uncle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"will you want the person organising to play a part in the meet or just be Cilla

Depends really, if it's a man then no. As we aren't ready to meet men yet"

So basically you're after one of the elusive females to play with and hope someone will organise it for you?

Good luck with this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great idea, turn up at lady gardens next London social. Meet charming people and bobs yer uncle!"

It' why I suggested the 28th - the Jaydee's Scocial. Plenty of single females on the list to meet the OP's [reference and easy travelling from London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sincerely hope you haven't started a trend. Kill me now if we get any more threads like this please. Will the planner have to provide condoms and lube as well

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I sincerely hope you haven't started a trend. Kill me now if we get any more threads like this please. Will the planner have to provide condoms and lube as well

Condoms, lube and a bevy of single bi fems for them to chose from... you not fancy the role of organiser? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sincerely hope you haven't started a trend. Kill me now if we get any more threads like this please. Will the planner have to provide condoms and lube as well

Condoms, lube and a bevy of single bi fems for them to chose from... you not fancy the role of organiser? haha

lol. I'd be keeping those single fems to myself! In fact can someone organise some meets for me (maybe pop to the asda for some bread whilst your at it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great idea, turn up at lady gardens next London social. Meet charming people and bobs yer uncle!

It' why I suggested the 28th - the Jaydee's Scocial. Plenty of single females on the list to meet the OP's [reference and easy travelling from London"
if they think op4f is too far to travel, I doubt they would travel to the social. As great as it will be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it's not to far from us hayseed or abfabs. It's more the amount that it will cost us to get there get in and find somewhere to stay the night.

When we are on top of money again which will be over the next few weeks we will definitely think about going

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