FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Winks is there any point in doing them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a wink to someone and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? I've had a couple of good meets start from one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winking, and I like being winked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We....or should I say...Sam gets loads so no time to trawl through them all....we only respond to messages now and have turned off notifications of winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See nothing wrong with winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely acknowledge or send them, would much rather receive a message . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them and send the odd one myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like them and send the odd one myself

yes i send the odd one to a sexy lady xe

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting winks off the same profile. I've had about 5 in the last few weeks from her. But her profile is hidden?

She's probably waiting for me to message her but I BLOODY CAN'T BECAUSE YOUR PROFILE IS HIDDEN FOR CHRIST SAKE

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

We delete them.We assume Its someone too lazy to write à message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people wink, you wink back or message then get nothing but to be fair, I've winked a few times by mistake whilst on my phone! I had one guy wink about a dozen times, delete his profile then reappear weeks later and message me. We got on well, offered to meet him then nothing, he must of had something in his eye lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not? I've had a couple of good meets start from one."

same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I rarely look at them or my friends requests

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

I / we send a wink, if we like someone’s profile or photo’s, if they wink back, then we know they like what they see too. Of course if we really like them we wink, message and beg. Lol.

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By *gents 3 and 4Couple
over a year ago

truro

"Winks is there any point in doing them x"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd use this analogy. To wink is akin to smiling at someone in a club, or wherever, prior to starting a conversation. If the smile is reciprocated, it's easier to make conversation than if it isn't. Or you may decide not to, if the smile isn't returned.

Either way, I think it's harmless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a good mutual wink

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"We love a good mutual wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gonee winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd use this analogy. To wink is akin to smiling at someone in a club, or wherever, prior to starting a conversation. If the smile is reciprocated, it's easier to make conversation than if it isn't. Or you may decide not to, if the smile isn't returned.

Either way, I think it's harmless. "

I use winks a lot but get very few responses, I view it as above, like a smile and eye contact from cross the room, a wink ( smile ) back breaks the ice and let the conversation begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink to show interest and say hi

like getting a wee wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting winks off the same profile. I've had about 5 in the last few weeks from her. But her profile is hidden?

She's probably waiting for me to message her but I BLOODY CAN'T BECAUSE YOUR PROFILE IS HIDDEN FOR CHRIST SAKE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always a pleasure to get a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

busy winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always a pleasure to get a wink"
id wink all night long at u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so rare a woman winks here, its rare like the afrikan tiger lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are great sometimes you can spend far too long writing a message for it to be deleted so a cheeky wink to show interest with the hope of a mail xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its so rare a woman winks here, its rare like the afrikan tiger lol x."

Grrrrrr,

There you go sweet cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wink at the one on top of ya lol new thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like them and send the odd one myself

yes i send the odd one to a sexy lady xe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its so rare a woman winks here, its rare like the afrikan tiger lol x.

Grrrrrr,

There you go sweet cheeks

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Aww thanks here is one for you

sweet x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok send me your winks ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wink at the one on top of ya lol new thread

Kiss fuck pass buy a pint and now wink,

Only thing left is meet the person above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wink at the one on top of ya lol new thread

Kiss fuck pass buy a pint and now wink,

Only thing left is meet the person above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see there's any harm in them! Sometimes I'll send a wink as the first step to seeing if they might be interested. If they wink back then it gives you extra confidence to approach a woman. If they don't, then I'll message when I know they're online. Don't want a long, hopefully well thought out message getting buried and never looked at. So sometimes I'll wink if the woman is offline or simply if I'm struggling to know exactly what to say to them at that moment. So where's the harm? Just wish women would send them more readily themselves! Lol

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

mansfield

can't beat a good wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, had some fun off a wink before. And send them to my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting winks off the same profile. I've had about 5 in the last few weeks from her. But her profile is hidden?

She's probably waiting for me to message her but I BLOODY CAN'T BECAUSE YOUR PROFILE IS HIDDEN FOR CHRIST SAKE

You can still send a message to a hidden profile!

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By *ot Stud StuMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Love a good wink..

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire

we like winks. Some of our friends wink us as a quick and easy way to say hello we looked you up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep getting winks off the same profile. I've had about 5 in the last few weeks from her. But her profile is hidden?

She's probably waiting for me to message her but I BLOODY CAN'T BECAUSE YOUR PROFILE IS HIDDEN FOR CHRIST SAKE

You can still send a message to a hidden profile!"

Really? Damn! Shame on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of fun, we see it as a compliment and maybe the start of conversation to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks and often send them...think my last few meets were initially from a wink I sent. It's a way of bringing your profile to someone's attention...if they like they'll ink back/message if they don't then you've not lost anything.

I don't delete my winks though cos it stops a new one being sent for 30 days as there are a few who seem to want to wink daily when there is just no interest in return unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sign of laziness, send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sign of laziness, send a message.

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink-specific if I may....

Do winks appear in chronological order in yer wink page?

Ie is the one on the top of the list the latest?

There is a feature to click on the 'Winkers' profile to see when it was sent but I don't like doing that coz then they see you have looked at their profile and may get the impression you are interested lol....

I know...strange eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be just a bit of fun or a way of making first contact,

If they respond to it at least you know they might have some interest in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that single women and couples would prefer a wink to receiving 100s of messages from single guys. As a lot of the people above have said it shows that you are interested. If they are then a wink back or a message saying hi shows that they are interested as well.

That's my thoughts anyway... But it may be why I've only had 2 meets... Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink me up.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Winks are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my current lady because she sent me a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way, I think it's harmless. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a fairly uncomplicated person, I dont need someone yo send me a clever message to say that they are interested when a wink is a perfect way of breaking the ice - hint, hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a winker

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By *alldarkhandsomedaveMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I'm a bit of a winker

You could wink me with that strap on any time....!!

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By *r_Mcr1978Man
over a year ago

north west

"I keep getting winks off the same profile. I've had about 5 in the last few weeks from her. But her profile is hidden?

She's probably waiting for me to message her but I BLOODY CAN'T BECAUSE YOUR PROFILE IS HIDDEN FOR CHRIST SAKE

Don't you just hate that!! Or they wink and then never reply to a message! What's the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a winker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink to me is just too say . I have looked at your profile and I liked what o saw . Whether that be your pics or your profile text . Does not mean they want to meet or even chat . Just showing there appreciation for something they liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with winks! It's just a quick and simple way of saying "I've had a look at your profile, like what I have read and appreciate your piccys, could you do the same with mine and if you like wink me back"

There is no harm in a wink and they are certainly not an insult in any way.

If you get lots of them and can't respond to them all, oh well, no harm done.

We can't understand the negative reaction some people on here have to such a simple, yet sometimes very effective thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is absolutely nothing wrong with winks! It's just a quick and simple way of saying "I've had a look at your profile, like what I have read and appreciate your piccys, could you do the same with mine and if you like wink me back"

There is no harm in a wink and they are certainly not an insult in any way.

If you get lots of them and can't respond to them all, oh well, no harm done.

We can't understand the negative reaction some people on here have to such a simple, yet sometimes very effective thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no harm in a wink and they are certainly not an insult in any way.

If you get lots of them and can't respond to them all, oh well, no harm done.

We can't understand the negative reaction some people on here have to such a simple, yet sometimes very effective thing!

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Totally agree . Why would anyone want to complaint about a wink . Its a way of saying hi . Don't like the person do not respond . Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll drop a wink to a lad sometimes if I like their profile, just to see if it's reciprocated. No reply = no interest. I find couples often wink for the same reason. It's fine, it's just another tool to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't mind winks, take them as a sign of interest in what our profile says and an icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see there's any harm in them! Sometimes I'll send a wink as the first step to seeing if they might be interested. If they wink back then it gives you extra confidence to approach a woman. If they don't, then I'll message when I know they're online. Don't want a long, hopefully well thought out message getting buried and never looked at. So sometimes I'll wink if the woman is offline or simply if I'm struggling to know exactly what to say to them at that moment. So where's the harm? Just wish women would send them more readily themselves! Lol"

Oh women do send them all the time.....just not to you. Just joking hahahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't

see there's any harm in them! Sometimes I'll send a wink as the first

step to seeing if they might be interested. If they wink back then it

gives you extra confidence to approach a woman. If they don't, then I'll

message when I know they're online. Don't want a long, hopefully well

thought out message getting buried and never looked at. So sometimes

I'll wink if the woman is offline or simply if I'm struggling to know

exactly what to say to them at that moment. So where's the harm? Just

wish women would send them more readily themselves! Lol

Oh women do send them all the time.....just not to you. Just joking

hahahahaha."
You're a funny man! Has your ban from forums finished then? Ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We respond to winks & send winks it's just a good easy way to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a wink or two

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Works for me fella...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't

see there's any harm in them! Sometimes I'll send a wink as the first

step to seeing if they might be interested. If they wink back then it

gives you extra confidence to approach a woman. If they don't, then I'll

message when I know they're online. Don't want a long, hopefully well

thought out message getting buried and never looked at. So sometimes

I'll wink if the woman is offline or simply if I'm struggling to know

exactly what to say to them at that moment. So where's the harm? Just

wish women would send them more readily themselves! Lol

Oh women do send them all the time.....just not to you. Just joking

hahahahaha. You're a funny man! Has your ban from forums finished then? Ha ha ha! "

Errrrrr you work it out brains lol. Keep crayoning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be the bigger man, Soton guy. Not sure why you get on at me but I'll leave it. Have fun with all your helpful comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be the bigger man, Soton guy. Not sure why you get on at me but I'll leave it. Have fun with all your helpful comments "

Please stop using forum to contact me. Considering you have me blocked it's a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(m) We've started winking instead of bothering to write a message. Why spend the TIME & EFFORT writing a message when no one bothers to reply. We've got totally fucked off with writing messages to people. Is everyone on here ignorant or is it just the people we have written to so far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink at people. I can't be bothered to think of a delightfully witty open message so I wink and let them message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys should never wink. Make the effort.

Single fems and couples have more of an advantage. So are allowed to wink. My observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a surprising amount of winks from people that say on their profile 'no winks' or 'winks will be ignored'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few after I've fabbed some pics which I prefer to a message as I often fab pics because I like them, not necessarily because I want to meet. They mean so many different things to different users but I like them on the whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to send and recieve a good wink

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