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Jealously and Insecurity.....

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By *erotic_adventure OP   Man
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

It exists and in different forms, as part of a couple in the past some people were jealous of new friends on here or male half didn't want his Mrs chatting or on cam without partners knowledge etc, what have you experienced?

Ps everyone has differing _iews which require to be respected and acknowledged

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

My hubby is okay with chat, and I may never get the webcam out. But we're a couple and as long as I tell him about the chats he's tolerant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be happy as a part of a couple swinging, there has to be little jealousy and insecurity or it could tear you apart.

Think the best advice we got was from one of the very first couples we met, who said if people swing to try to solve a problem it will never work and only cause more and it's so true. Trust in this game is a must.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the second it appears, do something about it....

much like a chipped windscreen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noticed it on here on a couple of occasions where women have got a little funny for me pointing out i'm leaving my options open.

Can only please some of the people some of the time...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never had a problem with being jealous, my partner loves me playing, he himself is not into meeting other women (even though I've tried to get him to)....though if he ever did have an issue then we would stop, nothing is worth ruining our relationship over

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"the second it appears, do something about it....

much like a chipped windscreen"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"It exists and in different forms, as part of a couple in the past some people were jealous of new friends on here or male half didn't want his Mrs chatting or on cam without partners knowledge etc, what have you experienced?

Ps everyone has differing _iews which require to be respected and acknowledged "
think every couple will swing to how it's best for them , communication at every level being very important, as is total trust and respect. Some people dont get how couples can be tight together and swing! And that we tell each other everything... Does make us chuckle at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the second it appears, do something about it....

much like a chipped windscreen"

This is the best advise

And as a single male also, I would never do anything to come between a man and his wife. If say she wanted to meet alone after regular meets with both of them, I'd be apprehensive unless I knew for sure he was ok with that. Otherwise it would be a no out of respect for their relationship/marriage

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Through my swinging parties,club nights and sexy shoots over the years I have met loads of couples on the scene,many of whome are friends still,years later and I can tell you this ...

If you DONT have a proper relationship,where you are open with each other,can discuss anything freely and with absolute honesty,then swinging will make any insecurities and cracks even bigger ...

If you have a great relationship,jealousy is a twinge thats easily enough controled to add terrific spice to your love life

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Through my swinging parties,club nights and sexy shoots over the years I have met loads of couples on the scene,many of whome are friends still,years later and I can tell you this ...

If you DONT have a proper relationship,where you are open with each other,can discuss anything freely and with absolute honesty,then swinging will make any insecurities and cracks even bigger ...

If you have a great relationship,jealousy is a twinge thats easily enough controled to add terrific spice to your love life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a problem with being jealous, my partner loves me playing, he himself is not into meeting other women (even though I've tried to get him to)....though if he ever did have an issue then we would stop, nothing is worth ruining our relationship over "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"To be happy as a part of a couple swinging, there has to be little jealousy and insecurity or it could tear you apart.

Think the best advice we got was from one of the very first couples we met, who said if people swing to try to solve a problem it will never work and only cause more and it's so true. Trust in this game is a must."

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By *0 Shades of RedCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"To be happy as a part of a couple swinging, there has to be little jealousy and insecurity or it could tear you apart.

Think the best advice we got was from one of the very first couples we met, who said if people swing to try to solve a problem it will never work and only cause more and it's so true. Trust in this game is a must."

Did you meet the same couple as us ....totally agree and it is our experience as well]

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