FabSwingers.com forum: Unread messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you understand the number of messages some people get. If you look in the faqs no reply simply means they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no? "

How many first messages have you had from other people today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it be rude? Sometimes it's hard to read EVERY one if the 60 messages women get every day.

Besides think logically. If they don't read your message, it doesn't mean they aren't interested, how could they possibly know whether or not if they would be if they don't read the message and view your profile any way.

They will get around to reading it. Stop being so impatient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think you understand the number of messages some people get. If you look in the faqs no reply simply means they are not interested. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get uptight about it x not worth it

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Some messages are that short, you dont need to open them to read them.

Plus we click on the profile before opening the message, if we find that that its obvious they haven't read our profile before sending a message, then we dont open it!

simple answer just move on!

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By *uv2danceWoman
over a year ago

yate

I've had to filter out single guys for a bit because I couldn't cope with answering every single message, and guys getting larey when they didn't get my attention

This was supposed to be fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ejaytee how sensible a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no? "

How do you know if people haven't read your message and just been deleted?

Answer to your question, no we don't think it's rude and no we don't get upset if we don't get a reply...

We just assume that we are not what they are looking for and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no?

How many first messages have you had from other people today?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just counted - we have had 5 new messages, despite our profile telling new people not to bother messaging unless we have a meet today post up.

So if we answer all messages, and end up chatting constantly to hundreds of guys - confused, I would be!

Then when we actually do want to meet, guess how many of the many guys message us are free? I'd reckon 1 or 2 if we are lucky.

So now tell me why we should perform an admin task for guys who can't be arsed to read our profile in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no?

How many first messages have you had from other people today?

17"

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no?

How many first messages have you had from other people today?

17"

Then if 17 people are messaging you, I suggest as a single guy, you have no problem on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the ladies I met with showed me how many message she had, like if I had that many I'd be deleting loads too without reading, could be a full time job for some. If only us guys were that lucky or is it just me lol. There's a lot of competition out there, I expect nothing and if I get replies then its a bonus, has it ups and downs, all down at the mo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would it be rude? Sometimes it's hard to read EVERY one if the 60 messages women get every day.

They will get around to reading it. Stop being so impatient"

I appreciate how long things can take and how many may have over run mailboxes

I don't have such a busy mailbox but if I ever did il always get an answer to someone it's just common courtesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to reply to all messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?"

It's true. No one has ever lied on the internet, ever!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How rude people don't even read your message. I always read them if I'm not interested I reply with a polite no.

Who else thinks this is rude and would appreciate just a simple no?

How many first messages have you had from other people today?

Really?"

Why not? Whats unbelievable about that?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Some people reply, some don't.

Accepting this will make your time on the site more enjoyable.

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