FabSwingers.com forum: longest time hotwife with bull

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. This question is for hotwives, cuckolds and bulls...

what is the longest relationship you have had in this scenario....

I see quite a few profiles seeking bulls, but only a few mention that they would like a full on, exclusive, maybe even poly relationship. With the wife loving the bull as well as hubby.

any experiences amongst fabbers ?

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I'm not a fan of labels and most of the terminology leaves an yucky taste in my mouth

But, for me there is a difference between a play partner and a lover. The latter doesn't happen often, but it can and does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate your views on labelling etc but I think that couples who enter the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle enjoy the terminology associated with it and all that goes with the lifestyle...pushing those little boundaries etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't , we fall into the latter I guess , but to your original question if they are in a poly/ exclusive relationship they are unlikely to be on here looking, so the answers will be skewed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to live in Northwest. Was bull for a cuckold couple for about a year....on another site.We met regularly but it wasn't a three way relationship per se. It was a lifestyle thing for us all as we had lives outside of swinging. Depends on the people involved I suppose....

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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

Generally most men won't meet anyone a second time, I don't mind but the second guy on here isn't often interested. Either way I'd say for swinging or casual sex in general maybe meet 3 or 4 times max over a long period. Part of swinging is the excitement of the new...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont see cuckolding as part of the swinging package..sorry likely to be shot down in flames here but long term cucking is a relationship not NSA shagganigins !

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

MrsH has a regular guy who she has been seeing for nearly 2 years now but it is not a Cuckold thing, she likes his company and as I work crazy hours they meet up and have fun, if I am not working we have MMF fun or I just watch. All depends on the mood we are in. A genuine long term bull would be good though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont see cuckolding as part of the swinging package..sorry likely to be shot down in flames here but long term cucking is a relationship not NSA shagganigins ! "

not shooting anyone down in flames...not my style...appreciate everyones opinions no matter what..

I actually think that you are right..fab is a swinging site not a cuckold site although there are quite a few on this site who are interested in that lifestyle....

thanks to everyone for responses so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to manage a China crockery shop. Made of the mistake of inviting a bull in once. OMG was like a bull in..........

ps.if a worse joke appears on the forums today I'll eat my hat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to manage a China crockery shop. Made of the mistake of inviting a bull in once. OMG was like a bull in..........

ps.if a worse joke appears on the forums today I'll eat my hat!"

Get your HP sauce out m8..... I'm just waiting for them to roll in....

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"I appreciate your views on labelling etc but I think that couples who enter the hotwife/cuckold lifestyle enjoy the terminology associated with it and all that goes with the lifestyle...pushing those little boundaries etc

I am part of a couple, I live the lifestyle. Not all couples though go with porn industry style of cuckolding that requires labels or conform to stereotyping

Personally, I've never had 'a bull' , simply because a don't require a dominant man to take me or push my Hubby's boundaries. For me, and many others that live a cuckold relationship, the purest form of a cuckold relationship is that its female led, not male.

A play partner is just that, someone I will play with. A lover will (and has ) have more of a connection and will be involved in the sexual parts of the marriage.

Hubby is also straight - so another stereotype myth removed

A poly relationship is something else, a lover that has more of an emotional connection and becomes part of the relationship, not just sexual

But I appreciate your views on the types of cuckold relationships you may have been involved with

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

By definition, of course, a cuckold is the “husband of an adulteress.” The phenomenon itself is nothing new (see the works of Shakespeare or Chaucer). It might even be considered universal, since dozens of languages have a term that refers to it. Today’s cuckolding fetish, however, takes the deception and betrayal out of cheating—both partners are in on the secret.

The act of cuckolding can often be filed under the female domination tab, There are three types of cuckolded men: the submissive, forced bisexual, and the voyeurs. “Submissives are into humiliation,” King says. “They fantasize about being degraded and humiliated by a beautiful woman. Second, you have guys who want to be pushed into exploring their darkest fantasies: forced bisexuality. They want to be pushed by their mistress into doing things they would never do, like worshipping another man. Then lastly, we have voyeurs, who just enjoy watching their lover get pleasured by another man.

The above is taken from a recent article with DVD producer and director Glenn King

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am part of a couple, I live the lifestyle. Not all couples though go with porn industry style of cuckolding that requires labels or conform to stereotyping

A play partner is just that, someone I will play with. A lover will (and has ) have more of a connection and will be involved in the sexual parts of the marriage.

Hubby is also straight - so another stereotype myth removed

A poly relationship is something else, a lover that has more of an emotional connection and becomes part of the relationship, not just sexual

But I appreciate your views on the types of cuckold relationships you may have been involved with

well it certainly sounds like you and hubby are in a really good place sexually and regardless of steriotypes and labels etc I think the main thing is that as long as all parties are enjoying the lifestyle then thats the main thing....a lovely response by the way so thank you for sharing

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Jess longest lasted 7 months they worked together met before during and after work everyday went for meals and nights away like cpls do definstley the best part of our cuckold/hotwife style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the wife loving the bull as well as hubby." Personally I am not at all comfortable with that concept.

Sex is sex and purely physical and great. Mix in emotions and it has to be destructive to a relationship.

I know cuckolding is a lifestyle choice but I cannot understand the concept of the wife "loving" the spare cock? Is this real? What does it do to a relationship and family?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a regular single guy who we were meeting for about 4 years and then 2 years ago I started seeing him ( and sometimes some friends he'd bring along ) on my own. There wasn't any emotion - it was just really hot sex and the fact that we'd known him so long meant both myself AND my husband were comfortable with me meeting him on my own. But none of us considered it a cuckold situation.

I still play soft with him when we meet (can't resist sucking his cock lol)

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"i dont see cuckolding as part of the swinging package..sorry likely to be shot down in flames here but long term cucking is a relationship not NSA shagganigins ! "

swinging isnt just about nsa, it includes nsa, but also includes fwbs, fbs, a circle of friends that meet up regularly for swinging fun, amongst all sorts of things, it isnt just meeting someone from a website for nsa sex, so you have shot your own terminology down there.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"i dont see cuckolding as part of the swinging package..sorry likely to be shot down in flames here but long term cucking is a relationship not NSA shagganigins !

not shooting anyone down in flames...not my style...appreciate everyones opinions no matter what..

I actually think that you are right..fab is a swinging site not a cuckold site although there are quite a few on this site who are interested in that lifestyle....

thanks to everyone for responses so far

cuckolding is something within the swinging lifestyle, it has many variations, the soft side of it alot of people indulge in, the extreme side is more rare, but certainly still within the swinging lifestyle.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Generally most men won't meet anyone a second time......"

No? Generally? Sorry, but in my humble opinion, that's a wrong generalisation!!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I used to manage a China crockery shop. Made of the mistake of inviting a bull in once. OMG was like a bull in..........

ps.if a worse joke appears on the forums today I'll eat my hat!"

Your hat's safe

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Polyamoury becomes something else. I guess the attraction for a cuck maybe the risk. The chance she may leave. That whole playing with fire.

Not unknown for cuck fantasies to get to various extremes.

But I imagine the number pushing the leave me fantasy is very small.

Long term does not always equal loving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I've got several birds to strike with one stone here...first...

I knew a cuckold once...he had beautiful feathers...cock a doodle doo! There...now Soton Guy can start eating his hat

I also wanted to agree with Adventurousus that swingers often end up making friendships along the way and, through that, form sexual circles....and no that's not some weird sti lol

Finally I find it odd, but obviously not out of the realm of possibility, that you would connect cuckolding with polygamy. It would seem to me that polygamy needs to be based on a level playing field for it to work. I can't really see how cuckolding would ever be a level playing field. I'm not saying it never happens...but I would imagine that if you're looking for a polygamous relationship you might want to approach it from less of a power games angle.

Perhaps I'm a little naive about this whole cuck thing but I would've imagined that a cuck who lets his wife fall in love with the bull is severely at risk of becoming single. Surely the cuck is the wimp?

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By *iilboyCouple
over a year ago

walsall

my wife had a bull for over 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the voyeur type of cuck. Im straight and simply watch Emily with whoever she plays with. We have never had anyone regular. We dont use bulls just people who wanna play with Emily. If we did have anyone regular Emily has always said if she felt ANY emotional bond was forming that would be game over for them. Love is for us, meets are just for sex

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By *istressdebssubCouple
over a year ago

cambridge

our first was 3 years only ending when he had to re locate to scotland with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years when we lived in Japan, only finished when we returned to the UK. He has come over for a couple of visits and she meets up with him when she goes over there.

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