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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is discretion to you in the swingers world?

Personally I think what happens on a meet stays on a meet and should not be discussed with other fab users. Or am I just being a bit old fashioned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is discretion to you in the swingers world?

Personally I think what happens on a meet stays on a meet and should not be discussed with other fab users. Or am I just being a bit old fashioned?"

I agree. Anything that happens on a meet should stay there.

Fancy meeting? Xx

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

not old fashioned its just plain courtesy not to discuss meets with people or what happened on the meet ( unless under safety matters )

as much as i keep who i meet up with my business as i dont see what it has got to do with anyone else who i meet up with

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree that what happens should remain private to an extent so no naming names and giving out explicit details. But sometimes a funny, terrible, odd experience is shared in the forums in general terms eg people being much older than they say or appear in photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

discretion is to me, what happens between the 2 parties (or 3, 4, etc) stays between the group.

also, if you see in public, don't bring up swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think that many people on here are that discrete.

When i meet someone i dont usualy talk too much about other men only if they talk about other women, i dont mention names or anything though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is discretion to you in the swingers world?

Personally I think what happens on a meet stays on a meet and should not be discussed with other fab users. Or am I just being a bit old fashioned?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is whatever those folks involved agree it to be, I don't believe in a hard and fast rule on this.

I would define discretion as a respectful attitude to the other parties. But those other parties may be exhibitionists...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Discretion means different things to different people. You only have to read some forum posts to notice that some people are happy to plaster their meets all over the place, whereas others won't say a word about any meet, and the rest are between. Best thing to do is agree with your meets how its going to go. I don't mind reasonable descriptive verifications but if they start posting my vital statistics online I might have a word or two.

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By *untimeanytimeMan
over a year ago

kings lynn


"What is discretion to you in the swingers world?

Personally I think what happens on a meet stays on a meet and should not be discussed with other fab users. Or am I just being a bit old fashioned?"

Absolutely what happens on a meet stays on a meet or at least between the people involved. If thats old fashioned then fine im old fashioned too

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By *untimeanytimeMan
over a year ago

kings lynn


"discretion is to me, what happens between the 2 parties (or 3, 4, etc) stays between the group.

also, if you see in public, don't bring up swinging. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is discretion to you in the swingers world?

Personally I think what happens on a meet stays on a meet and should not be discussed with other fab users. Or am I just being a bit old fashioned?

Absolutely what happens on a meet stays on a meet or at least between the people involved. If thats old fashioned then fine im old fashioned too "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm afraid the word always screams 'married' to me!

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