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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So in the past month, I've had three bi-curious ladies cancel at the last moment saying their nerves had got the better of them. We did the whole social/coffee meet first and all of them seemed really keen. I try to be as understanding as possible, but of course, it a little more than frustrating.

So, if you're a bi-curious lady, insomuch as you like the idea but have never tried it, what would help clam your nerves?

If you're a bi woman then what helped you get over those first time nerves.

I can't remember being nervous myself, I just knew I wanted to try it and dived straight in (so to speak!)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had thoughts about it but nerves do play a big part in taking things to the next level....to be honest I don't know what would calm them..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe reassure them that you will go at their pace and if they cant go through with it when you meet to play that it doesnt matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was super nervous first time, though Cant put my finger on why. Thankfully she was just lush and really at ease with it all. Haven't looked back since! Let us know if you're interested in a play date anytime ... Newcastle is my home despite being down south! H Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in the past month, I've had three bi-curious ladies cancel at the last moment saying their nerves had got the better of them. We did the whole social/coffee meet first and all of them seemed really keen. I try to be as understanding as possible, but of course, it a little more than frustrating.

So, if you're a bi-curious lady, insomuch as you like the idea but have never tried it, what would help clam your nerves?

If you're a bi woman then what helped you get over those first time nerves.

I can't remember being nervous myself, I just knew I wanted to try it and dived straight in (so to speak!)

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I am past the curious stage but I have only had a couple of one on one girly meets the rest of the fun has been at a party or with a couples. I would be more nervous meeting a women on her own than going to a party and playing with a couple. I think a glass of wine and a girly chat would put me at ease though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really"

You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I am past the curious stage but I have only had a couple of one on one girly meets the rest of the fun has been at a party or with a couples. I would be more nervous meeting a women on her own than going to a party and playing with a couple. I think a glass of wine and a girly chat would put me at ease though"

I always suggest meeting for a few drinks and then seeing how the evening goes - no pressure and I'm happy with a good night out if that's all it comes to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not bi-curious but if I was, I'd need alcohol. Actually, I'd need alcohol for anything out of my comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really

You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it."

Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really

You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it.

Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage. "

I think my curious stage lasted all of 3 seconds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really

You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it."

I know what I want,when I find it I don't waste time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really

You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it.

Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage.

I think my curious stage lasted all of 3 seconds lol"

I didn't stop to be invited lol

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