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By *ratty_Damsel OP   Woman
over a year ago

London.

Hey Peeps.

Is it just me being 'sensitive' but does anyone else find that veris left for females that talk about them as if they are a piece of meat offensive? Rather than actually leaving a veri that talks about the woman as a equal play partner regardless of the type of play that took place?

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I don't like any crude or graphic verifications, regardless of whether they're left for (or by) a single guy, single fem or a couple. I find them slightly distasteful and offputting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like any crude or graphic verifications, regardless of whether they're left for (or by) a single guy, single fem or a couple. I find them slightly distasteful and offputting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i do, thats why i always like to see the verifications that men have left for other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean, I've seen "a good little slut" etc. Not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like any crude or graphic verifications, regardless of whether they're left for (or by) a single guy, single fem or a couple. I find them slightly distasteful and offputting "

Omg I thought it was just me! I like respectful and discreet, not crude and graphic. All that needs to be said is both party's had fun, nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i do, thats why i always like to see the verifications that men have left for other women."

I completely agree mrs d x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I guess the women on the receiving end must like them to put them on display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes. "

Yep. Now bend over so I can inspect you more closely.

Honestly, if a woman didn't like the veri, she wouldn't show it. I don't show the ones that make me cringe.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I suppose if it is published then all is fine. For me not a great reader of veris yet as I'm too busy researching the profile pics. Might explain my meet success rate

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

[Removed by poster at 29/05/14 21:58:00]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the women on the receiving end must like them to put them on display. "

That's a good point , and if those who don't like them are that bothered , then don't read them !

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I guess the women on the receiving end must like them to put them on display. "

I'd agree. I've received some graphic ones on my joint profile and just don't display them.

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By *ratty_Damsel OP   Woman
over a year ago

London.

But its a general respect for the partner that you have played with surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some men on here who do think of women like that though, thinking of one man i met a while ago who i thought wasnt my type when i seen his face pic only after he had sent me a few messages i changed my mind and decided to meet him, when i met him he seemed like a nice guy.

then a few months later he sent me a rather crude and disrespectful message saying he wanted to see me again, i told him thanks but no thanks, only he still kept messaging me so i blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes.

Yep. Now bend over so I can inspect you more closely.

Honestly, if a woman didn't like the veri, she wouldn't show it. I don't show the ones that make me cringe."

I'd bend over backwards for you my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when you chat to a person for a little while, you get an idea of whether they see you as a piece of meat or not. Luckily I have yet to have a veri that calls me a good little slut or the such like. But the moment I do, it will not be displayed and I will not meet THEM again!!! Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"But its a general respect for the partner that you have played with surely? "

I have a 'shit shag' veri from a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes. "

Yes it is a meat market.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

some women like recieving those kind of verifications though, ive seen some that have made me go but each to there own

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"But its a general respect for the partner that you have played with surely?

I have a 'shit shag' veri from a lady "

But in fairness thats cause you are

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes.

Yep. Now bend over so I can inspect you more closely.

Honestly, if a woman didn't like the veri, she wouldn't show it. I don't show the ones that make me cringe.

I'd bend over backwards for you my love "

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Some of them make me cringe, I guess if that's what the meet thought and the verified is happy to show it it must have been what the both wanted. Bit of a meat market sometimes.

Yes it is a meat market."

More fun if friendship and giggles can be part of the experience. Might start saying "happy swinging" lol

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am actually put off by non subs who post veris that are so objectifying and negative (in my eyes).

As physical and matter of fact as sex can be on here at times .....I would never dream of saying some of the things that the veris contain (if I wver get any ).

Ironically, referring to a number of acts and salacious events is usually followed by the 'treat her wiv respeck innit' proviso that just excentuates the harm of the previous statements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just grateful to receive any sort of verification. .......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"But its a general respect for the partner that you have played with surely?

I have a 'shit shag' veri from a lady

But in fairness thats cause you are "

Only with you, my darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very off putting to see someone have that type of verification on show...in my opinion.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"But its a general respect for the partner that you have played with surely?

I have a 'shit shag' veri from a lady

But in fairness thats cause you are

Only with you, my darling "

touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for crude veris but then I'm not sure if people read them, even when new ones are displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am actually put off by non subs who post veris that are so objectifying and negative (in my eyes).

As physical and matter of fact as sex can be on here at times .....I would never dream of saying some of the things that the veris contain (if I wver get any ).

Ironically, referring to a number of acts and salacious events is usually followed by the 'treat her wiv respeck innit' proviso that just excentuates the harm of the previous statements."

Hahaha so true!! I do find it funny when I read someones filthy and jaw dropping veri that ends in " treat her with respect guys" hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am actually put off by non subs who post veris that are so objectifying and negative (in my eyes).

As physical and matter of fact as sex can be on here at times .....I would never dream of saying some of the things that the veris contain (if I wver get any ).

Ironically, referring to a number of acts and salacious events is usually followed by the 'treat her wiv respeck innit' proviso that just excentuates the harm of the previous statements.

Hahaha so true!! I do find it funny when I read someones filthy and jaw dropping veri that ends in " treat her with respect guys" hahaha "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

It's definitely not my taste , but as said each person will have their own feelings on graffic verifications.Those who show them clearly have no issue with its content. As it's their profile it's their choice as to what they do or don't show .

I must say though it's not only the guys who send very base and objectifying veries.I have seen the same from all categories on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always keep it vague, try and put in something about the social side of the encounter too. Plus include the male partner in the veris if only to show appreciation. That's fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing that put me off a bit is when i see pages of verifications it is nice to see a few to know a person is genuine but i dont want to know every time they go out some verifications have put me off meeting the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think when you chat to a person for a little while, you get an idea of whether they see you as a piece of meat or not. Luckily I have yet to have a veri that calls me a good little slut or the such like. But the moment I do, it will not be displayed and I will not meet THEM again!!! Lol "

It doesnt always make any difference how long you chat to a person for because they will say what they think you want to hear they are being nice because they want something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like any crude or graphic verifications, regardless of whether they're left for (or by) a single guy, single fem or a couple. I find them slightly distasteful and offputting "

absolutely puts me right off

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