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What I'm I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new to the site and I am really struggling to arrange a date or even have a chat with the ladies on the site. My messages gets deleted without even a response. Only a few polite ladies have even bothered to reply. I do not use vulgar words or pretend to be what I'm not. what exactly am I doing wrong guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new to the site and I am really struggling to arrange a date or even have a chat with the ladies on the site. My messages gets deleted without even a response. Only a few polite ladies have even bothered to reply. I do not use vulgar words or pretend to be what I'm not. what exactly am I doing wrong guys? "

you're not new, you've been on over a year

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Add an avatar and get rid of that disclaimer, seriously, quoting the Human Right's act?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, I joined over a year ago but had to leave the country for work. Only just returned last month when I became active on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like a lottery if u gonna get a shag from here lol .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was of the impression there is something not right in the way I write my messages hence, no response lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 different disclaimers both longer tgan the text of your actual profile - lose tgem both as tgey are a waste of time.

Set an avatar so people you message don't just see a silhouette. And expand your text.

You have a clear face pic, you can accommodate, you have a recent verification - this all works in your favour but you need to stand out more as there are 100s of other guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the way the site works mate been on here for three months and had hardly any reply from people I've messaged and put effort into my messages simply the girls get hundreds of messages and delete in bulk. Best getting picky yourself and don't expect much interest. Good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most look at profile first, which is not selling yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was of the impression there is something not right in the way I write my messages hence, no response lol"

Before we open a message we look at the profile , and your profile text is terrible !

Human rights ? Wtf ?

This is supposed to be fun isnt it ?

If you got a message from someone and read a similar profile text would you go any further ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add an avatar and get rid of that disclaimer, seriously, quoting the Human Right's act? "

Sorry I shouldn't laugh but...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Crystal, guess I have to rewrite my profile and get rid of the disclaimers. I guess it's just like writing a CV. Got to sell myself lol

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Sorry, but awful profile! Two thirds of it is totally meaningless. Lighten up a bit!!! I would look at your profile and delete your message I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I mention the ratio is 200 men to 1 woman lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Get the gist. I need to up my game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75% of your profile is nothing more than a silly, meaningless, unenforceable disclaimer. Get rid of it and use the profile space to do something worthwhile, for example telling people about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sydney University?

Pah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bit difficult writing about one self but I'll give it a go. I don't want to sound like some pumped up idiot saying stuff like "I have a very suckable cock" or crap like that hence, I try to keep it real.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"A bit difficult writing about one self but I'll give it a go. I don't want to sound like some pumped up idiot saying stuff like "I have a very suckable cock" or crap like that hence, I try to keep it real."

You think that Sydney university is real???

pah!

No offence Sydney lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A bit difficult writing about one self but I'll give it a go. I don't want to sound like some pumped up idiot saying stuff like "I have a very suckable cock" or crap like that hence, I try to keep it real."

Have you got a very suckable cock or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll leave whether I have a suckable cock or not for the ladies to decide

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'll leave whether I have a suckable cock or not for the ladies to decide"

ah....but how? Cos no one is responding to you, are they? So why not say you have got a suckable cock and if the ladies don't believe you, they can check it out for themselves....see?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol. that's a nice one

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