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"I wouldn't need permission from the OH if I wanted to do something, but we have discussed preferences and anything that will turn the other off....so everything is normally a joint decision. For me, the only mans cum I want in my mouth is the OH." Hmm, runs off to change username to 'the OH' | |||
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"not for me but some have done it before ive known yuk" were would you like it? | |||
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"I like to watch my OH sucking another penis, but - at present - I don't want another man coming in her mouth. She let's me do it on occasion, but I suspect she does it more as a 'treat' for me than because she enjoys it. So, I wouldn't be happy about another man spunking in her mouth. I'd be more than happy for anyone to spunk over her though! " Can I ask if you would mind if she actually wanted the guy to come in her mouth. | |||
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"To be honest, this isn't an issue because I know she's not a great lover of a mouthful of cum, but if she wanted a guy to come in her mouth I'd tell her I wasn't comfortable with that. Do you think this shows a darker side of my character that I am unaware of? Serious question. " No, I think it shows you dont want another man to cum in your wifes mouth. But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! I think if she did like a mouthful of come you would just have to be comfortable with it. | |||
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" But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! " Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour? I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me). And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'? There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them. | |||
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" But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour? I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me). And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'? There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them." You only quoted part of what I said, and I did say IF. I dont set limits on my husbands behaviour, nor does he set limits on my behaviour. I didnt suggest you were a control freak , only you have used that term. Heres what I said, please read it again. But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! I ask again, wouldnt it be awful IF your wife didnt let another guy come in her mouth because YOU didnt want him to and just maybe she did. You talk of compromise, if your wife ever does say she would like to experience a guy coming in her mouth I hope you remember that, and compromise Maybe she could spit, and not swallow, | |||
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" Maybe she could spit, and not swallow, " Mrs H would respect my feelings and this will not be an issue. But, if she wanted to do it, and I was happy to let her, she's Welsh so she'd probably gargle with it. I've enjoyed the conversation! Can I ask what you and your OH feelings are on this subject? | |||
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" Maybe she could spit, and not swallow, Mrs H would respect my feelings and this will not be an issue. But, if she wanted to do it, and I was happy to let her, she's Welsh so she'd probably gargle with it. I've enjoyed the conversation! Can I ask what you and your OH feelings are on this subject?" Oh he is sort of bi so we both swallow!! | |||
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"Horny beasts! G'night! It's waaaaaay past my bedtime." Goodnight, xxx yvonne | |||
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"did it with my x and it was the horniest id ever been, i think id let it happen again if i had a missis, saying that though, if i meet "the one" then it could be different" if u met "the one" ?????????????????????????????????? | |||
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" if u met "the one" ?????????????????????????????????? " Gets popcorn out and settles down to watch the fireworks. | |||
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"we were just wondering how many swingers who are involving another guy in their play let the "other guy" cum in the wifes mouth, as you can see on our verifications my wife is no stranger to letting another man spunk in her mouth and often swallows, but is it this same for other people, and secondly does the "other man" consider it a special treat if it happens considering a lot of wives dont even let their own husbands do that in everyday relationships?" how about letting another bloke cum in your husbands/partners mouth? | |||
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" But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour? I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me). And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'? There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them." maybe you could contact me??? | |||
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"Its got noothing to do with letting another man cum. Karen is woman enough to make up her own mind, I don't own her! She has in the past let others cum in her mouth if she is feeling that horny/dirty, likes it on her face also. But she much prefers to give a handjob to finish, she gets a kick out of seeing how far a bloke can spurt, if it lands on her she isn't bothered." I prefer to finish off with a handjob I love to watch a man spurt too | |||
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"To be honest, this isn't an issue because I know she's not a great lover of a mouthful of cum, but if she wanted a guy to come in her mouth I'd tell her I wasn't comfortable with that. Do you think this shows a darker side of my character that I am unaware of? Serious question. No, I think it shows you dont want another man to cum in your wifes mouth. But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!! I think if she did like a mouthful of come you would just have to be comfortable with it." Let's reverse this, so he would have to accept it because it's not fair for the lady to accept it? complete nonsense. We all have our boundaries, as a couple swinging together then those boundaries must be decided together, if one partner says no to any risky experience then both should agree or not play, with risky I'm aiming at bareback and taking a mouthful of cum, both can be a risk to ones health, so a couple needs to agree whatever they do. Swinging as a couple is about sharing exciting adult experiences together, not one person having to be comfortable with it. | |||
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"for some reason we think once a guys cumming he couldnt give a fuck where it goes" Not me, I like to leave without having my clothes thrown out of the window and with my testicles still attached, so I ALWAYS make sure I'm clear on what's allowed and what's not. Once the eruption starts though......I cannot be held responsible for any shrapnel, friendly fire, whatever, it's pretty much impossible to direct it accurately. Oh, and ladies, if you are warned that a gentleman is about to tip his filthy concrete, if he asks if it is OK to cum in your mouth, the answer is not "HmmmNNNyyymmmhhhNomNom". Remove the member momentarily from your gob and say "Yes" or "No", nice and clearly, then there can be no question. Thank you. | |||
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"wish i lived in or near wrexham!!!!" Damn, you guys are easily pleased! | |||
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"wish i lived in or near wrexham!!!! Damn, you guys are easily pleased! " If you think being pleased by a very sexy intellegent, complicated, together couple who clearly know what the're looking for (which Unfortunately doesn't include 50 yr old single male in surrey) is EASY then yes I'm easily pleased... all the same it's a pleasure to be able to talk openly in a forum with you and all the others. enough fawning..... lol | |||
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"when we started swinging i had never thought of P even being with another guy before. We began swinging as she is bi, but she does still seem to favour guys over girls, which wasnt what we set on this journey for lol But i dont mind, anal sex is always our thing, so if she wanted a guy to CIM it really wouldnt be an issue, we have played with guys before and we just let the fun go with the flow x mabye if these things were an issue between couples, it could mean there are underlying issues within the relationship? Gx" Paul would never say to me a man isnt allowed to cum in my mouth and i love guys cumming in my mouth,in fact he has never said to me you can only do this or that x | |||
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"wish i lived in or near wrexham!!!! Damn, you guys are easily pleased! If you think being pleased by a very sexy intellegent, complicated, together couple who clearly know what the're looking for (which Unfortunately doesn't include 50 yr old single male in surrey) is EASY then yes I'm easily pleased... all the same it's a pleasure to be able to talk openly in a forum with you and all the others. enough fawning..... lol" That at us? Aw bless ya! | |||
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"when we started swinging i had never thought of P even being with another guy before. We began swinging as she is bi, but she does still seem to favour guys over girls, which wasnt what we set on this journey for lol But i dont mind, anal sex is always our thing, so if she wanted a guy to CIM it really wouldnt be an issue, we have played with guys before and we just let the fun go with the flow x mabye if these things were an issue between couples, it could mean there are underlying issues within the relationship? Gx" Agreed, but things are never that simple. I think sometimes people set boundaries for things they THINK they may not like as a precaution? Better than it going tits up on the night I guess, but I would hope that through discussion it wouldn't get that far. I would never dictate what the other half could or could not do and would expect the same in return, unless of course it was something that we didn't actually do ourselves. Fair enough? | |||
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"I wouldn't need permission from the OH if I wanted to do something, but we have discussed preferences and anything that will turn the other off....so everything is normally a joint decision. For me, the only mans cum I want in my mouth is the OH." Yes, the same for me | |||
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"I’ve got into this recently love the taste of another man’s cum then kissing hubby after " Oooh. (thinks....) | |||
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"Love different guys cum in my mouth. I don’t swallow at home but sometimes swallow my playmates just to tease Badger " Mmmm love a teaser | |||
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"Why do so many ask the man what he likes his wife to do? Why not ask the wife?" THIS. When I'm in sub mode, cum in my mouth is what I expect and love and I don't care what my bf thinks of that really. Lx | |||
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""Letting"? It's up to me and nobody else whether I let a guy cum in my mouth. " My thoughts exactly! | |||
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"Not sure about the possessive terminology of "letting" someone cum in a gf's mouth, me? I would certainly encourage her to!!! " Agree with this. However no encouragement needed for Mrs BB. | |||
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"Zoe takes it in her mouth and swallows, her choice and she says its heightens the moment." Same here. L decides each time where it will go. I enjoy watching whatever the choice. | |||
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"Zoe takes it in her mouth and swallows, her choice and she says its heightens the moment. Same here. L decides each time where it will go. I enjoy watching whatever the choice. " She swallows mine afterwards so its all good | |||
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