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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong

Please please someone give me advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an observation without reading your profile but I'd change your username, the one you have seems busy and lacks imagination..........constructive criticism my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opening line of your profile asking for verifications and pics of meets would put me off straight away

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could soft peddle the soldier angle. Most of your pics are of you in uniform or some sandy place. I also suspect your username is your army number as it's not a million miles different to mine.

Some people are attracted to soldiers, but many more, including myself, go for the person, rather than their job.

Try more variety in your pics, add some wit to the blurb, go to some socials and partake more in the lounge, rather than the anyone fancy a meet threads.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

First pic looks like youre wearing a wedding ring? You don't mention being married so might be off putting to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First pic looks like youre wearing a wedding ring? You don't mention being married so might be off putting to some."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What am I doing wrong

Please please someone give me advice "

Your first picture clearly shows.a wedding ring, if you're married it's better to say so.

Apart from that your profile is ok but I agree that you should lose the upper case bit about verifications.

Take the advice that we've given you before and get there to some socials

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"What am I doing wrong

Please please someone give me advice

Your first picture clearly shows.a wedding ring, if you're married it's better to say so.

Apart from that your profile is ok but I agree that you should lose the upper case bit about verifications.

Take the advice that we've given you before and get there to some socials

Won't be going to socials. ..too difficult to explain to the Mrs!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What am I doing wrong

Please please someone give me advice

Your first picture clearly shows.a wedding ring, if you're married it's better to say so.

Apart from that your profile is ok but I agree that you should lose the upper case bit about verifications.

Take the advice that we've given you before and get there to some socials

Won't be going to socials. ..too difficult to explain to the Mrs!!

If he's married his wife might be aware.

The picture might be old

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou all for the comments I shall review all comments and apply them I don't know how to change my username otherwise I would it's just default

And the wedding ring it's on my right hand it's just the pic reflection in a mirror and I wear my dads old wedding ring in memory of him. But that's abit morbid to state on my profile

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"What am I doing wrong

Please please someone give me advice

Your first picture clearly shows.a wedding ring, if you're married it's better to say so.

Apart from that your profile is ok but I agree that you should lose the upper case bit about verifications.

Take the advice that we've given you before and get there to some socials

Won't be going to socials. ..too difficult to explain to the Mrs!!

If he's married his wife might be aware.

The picture might be old

Maybe yes, was only joking, but he really ought to make it clear in his profile to stop speculation....just like we are doing

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Thankyou all for the comments I shall review all comments and apply them I don't know how to change my username otherwise I would it's just default

And the wedding ring it's on my right hand it's just the pic reflection in a mirror and I wear my dads old wedding ring in memory of him. But that's abit morbid to state on my profile

Xx"

I would just get rid of that pic then to save complications....

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Thankyou all for the comments I shall review all comments and apply them I don't know how to change my username otherwise I would it's just default

And the wedding ring it's on my right hand it's just the pic reflection in a mirror and I wear my dads old wedding ring in memory of him. But that's abit morbid to state on my profile

Xx"

I think you have to be a site supporter to change your user name

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thankyou all for the comments I shall review all comments and apply them I don't know how to change my username otherwise I would it's just default

And the wedding ring it's on my right hand it's just the pic reflection in a mirror and I wear my dads old wedding ring in memory of him. But that's abit morbid to state on my profile

Xx"

I see. Yes its a bit morbid to state in your profile. Clever picture though to not show the mirror at all

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