FabSwingers.com forum: dating site

By *ETSHAVEFUN1 OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"

thats not what about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to the individual and where better to find a partner to share this lifestyle with?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol

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By *ETSHAVEFUN1 OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

its not about dating.

pof is a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am

But can't put a profile up like mine on pof

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

True, its not a dating site per se, but people can and do use it as one. I'm not seeing a problem though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

People can use the site however they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it is not meant to be, but if it works for them getting it on.

Good luck.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

so...the one guy I met on POF was after NSA sex, not a relationship and several others have told me it is a good place to meet women for sex. At least, as one poster said earlier, here on FAB it is more transparent

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

And plenty of men on here are on POF and lie about looking for a relationship in order to get laid!

It's all swings and roundabout so just use your common sense!

As someone else said, I'm not looking but no one knows what or who is round the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swinger site but only a few real swingers End of the day we are all looking for something and at least if the profile is honest does it matter

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"

thats not what about"

who says???..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they might want a partner for 1 night only

or just for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy if I were to meet someone off here, at least there wouldn't be any awkward discussions around sex!

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By *ETSHAVEFUN1 OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see why not, at least you know you've got something in common!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

And plenty of people use pof to get laid

Surely the simplest solution is not to meet people who use the site in a way that you feel in incompatible with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

and????????

people can use the site however they wish as long as it's within the site rules! if they don't want to meet people, that's fine, if they want to find a partner, that's fine and if they want to cheat, that's fine too, don't like how people use the site? move on!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts"

You don't have to read them. Move on to profiles more suited to what you are looking for.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its a "people make of it what they want to make of it" site....

thats what i like about it... its all encompassing

can't think of anything more condescending then than people thinking they know better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts"

well they aren't gonna shag just anyone that messages them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm on both and can say I've seen 4 fab ladies so far..

Although I'm looking for different things on both sites if that makes sense - sex on here but simply looking to meet new girls on there (but not to get laid with them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a swinger site but only a few real swingers End of the day we are all looking for something and at least if the profile is honest does it matter "

What are 'real swingers'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should say I've noticed 4 fab ladies on pof, not met them.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you will find something else to whine about before long

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'd be happy if I were to meet someone off here, at least there wouldn't be any awkward discussions around sex!

That is so true! lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site

And plenty of people use pof to get laid

Surely the simplest solution is not to meet people who use the site in a way that you feel in incompatible with you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"

thats not what about"

Well at least you'll know who to avoid if it's not what you are looking for. Although where are the rules that say people have to use the site in a certain way?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts

well they aren't gonna shag just anyone that messages them

I have ended up adding to my profile over the years because of the behaviour of some men on here! Just wanting to make it clear what I want and hopefully meet guys who want the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"

thats not what about

who says???.............."

Him & me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And ?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'd be happy if I were to meet someone off here, at least there wouldn't be any awkward discussions around sex!

And I think I've just fallen in love

Shame about the distance boohoo!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts

well they aren't gonna shag just anyone that messages them

I have a long list and I have no intention of changing that! Just coz I am on here doesn't mean I don't have standards....I won't shag anything, rather go without!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ?"

And what??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet a nice single lady on here for fun and friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And ?

And what??"

Exactly

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

the amount of men on pof that are also on here,at least on here they are being honest,on pof they are supposedly looking for a relationship or want to date,then when you actualy start talking to them all they want is nsa sex,its the same for a lot of the women on pof as well, because according to the men they have loads of sex on pof and no luck on here

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x."

Its not just for shagging....its for swinging! That's different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be happy if I were to meet someone off here, at least there wouldn't be any awkward discussions around sex!

And I think I've just fallen in love

Shame about the distance boohoo!"

Aye, Glenrothes is a wee bit far......god damn it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x.

Its not just for shagging....its for swinging! That's different!

Just call me Jungle VIP lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x.

Its not just for shagging....its for swinging! That's different!

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Yes it is.. I gues sex is involved in both acts unless, its about watching fotbal lol x.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts"

That's good though. It means one can make an informed decision about whether or not to make contact. A long profile still only takes seconds to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol "

My sentiments exactly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'd like to meet a nice single lady on here for fun and friendship."

I don't think you're allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people on here looking for many different things. Some want a quick shag, no questions asked, some want more of a connection to have NSA fun, some seek an FB, others a more in depth friend with benefits. I've dated 2 of my FB's over the last 5 years, if the other person feels the same then why not? I'm not looking for a date but wouldn't turn it down if I found someone on here. We all have choices and we can all use this site how we want provided its within the site rules. As with any profile that doesn't float your boat, move on.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

Tescos isn't a dating site but people meet in there.

Work isn't a dating site but people meet there

You use the site how you want to and others will do the same. Providing you set your stall out from the outset you should remain uncoupled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my last girlfriend courtesy of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't see a problem either way ? If people are upfront about what they are looking for ? What's the problem ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the amount of men on pof that are also on here,at least on here they are being honest,on pof they are supposedly looking for a relationship or want to date,then when you actualy start talking to them all they want is nsa sex,its the same for a lot of the women on pof as well, because according to the men they have loads of sex on pof and no luck on here "

Indeed, just as I have been told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"

thats not what about"

Facebook isn't a dating site either but I know a couple who met on there and recently got married...

I met my husband on here over 8 years ago, we weren't looking for a relationship just some NSA fun....

It happens, just because it's a swing site does not mean that people can't form a relationship.

Also in your OP you say it's the females who are on here looking for a partner....

How did you come to that conclusion?

Because from my experiance on here as a single and with my husband it's the single guys who are the needy ones, the ones who want to meet behind hubby's back without him knowing ect x

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well said

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I met a FB on here 2 years ago. Yes, we do meet for sex, which is more incredible every time, but we also text or speak every day and sometimes we just go out for lunch and a chat with no sex at all. He is a true 'friend with benefits' and I am so glad I met him. So, this site is surely what you want it to be and what you make of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site

Tescos isn't a dating site but people meet in there.

Work isn't a dating site but people meet there

You use the site how you want to and others will do the same. Providing you set your stall out from the outset you should remain uncoupled. "

Ditto...

Nothing more annoying than someone dictating how people should use the site, start a thread with random comments and don't even come back to defend their comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

Seriously deluded. Pof isn't about dating! It's more about getting fucked than on here!

I met the love of my life on here. What's your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if it's not a dating site? If you've had girlfriends / partners / wives, where did you first meet them? Only at a singles club presumably? Because God forbid you meet a potential partner in a SUPERMARKET (they're for shopping, dammit!) or at the BUS STOP (public transport pickup point, for fuck's sake, not for dating!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what if it's not a dating site? If you've had girlfriends / partners / wives, where did you first meet them? Only at a singles club presumably? Because God forbid you meet a potential partner in a SUPERMARKET (they're for shopping, dammit!) or at the BUS STOP (public transport pickup point, for fuck's sake, not for dating!)"

Your completely missing the point, of course people can date on here but it's not a dating site, there are many other better alternatives for that. For example, would you go to the butchers to buy bread?

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not "

You can, but it's not a dating site, if people do start to date on here good luck to them but it's not realy the best place to start looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not "

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!"

I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx

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By *ETSHAVEFUN1 OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!

I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx"

don't think that was classed as an invitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!"

I agree, but people often want more,

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site"

And loads of the guys on POF are in here too.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???"

haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???

haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens"

Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't have said it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!

I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx

don't think that was classed as an invitation"

Well it was worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???

haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens

Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on"

definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!"

And dating sites should be just dating but those ain't safe from the NSA brigade !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???

haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens

Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on

definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men!"

Dysentery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted

Where is my violin???

haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens

Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on

definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men!

Dysentery "

pmsl

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!"

You'd have thought so wouldn't you. But nope.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.

Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!

Its not fair on you as you're the equivalent of a vegetarian at an all-meat BBQ, and its not fair on the prospect who wants to be as promiscuous if all you have to offer is monogamy... and hell's scorn if that "rule" is broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate monogamy,its boring,I always end up bankrupt and I never get to be the top hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got lucky to meet someone I'd not pass the chance by just because I generally prefer No Strings. on POF my time was wasted a lot, only one actual proper BF from it. And besides, most of the pussies, sorry 'men' on POF when i said what I wanted and really liked in bed looked like they wanted to run away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship, but if I stumble across 'the one' on here then so be it. If I were to be looking though, then here would probably be one of the better places to start as I don't want to leave this lifestyle. I may change how I play, but I'd still like to keep exploring with new people and if I was with someone then I'd want to share it with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.

Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!

Fair point! If people are looking for monogamy surely they are (at best) deluded.

If they are looking for a swinging partner then fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not about dating.

pof is a dating site

And loads of the guys on POF are in here too......."

So are a lot of women!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!"

Where is that written in the site rules?

Why does it even matter to you what other people want. Look for what suits you and let others concern themselves with what they want.

The site isn't here to cater solely for what you want.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.

Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!

True, but the prospect doesn't have to go along with it.

It takes two and either can say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it should be just sex on here.

its that easy.!!!!"

Why?

My opinion is that people can use the site however they like. If you read a profile and it's not for you....don't message that person and move on to one of the thousands of other profiles.

I'm not looking for a relationship, but if much more consider one with someone from a site like this then pof as I'd want to continue in this life style with my partner.

Each to their own when it comes to using this site.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Well op you are correct in stating its a swingers site, but it gets used by all sorts including people looking to date, cheat among other things, the best option is to use it for what you are looking for and ignore everything else that doesnt interest you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor OP

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By *ETSHAVEFUN1 OP Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

yes i agree if thay post what thay are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not

You can, but it's not a dating site, if people do start to date on here good luck to them but it's not realy the best place to start looking "

That's YOUR opinion and a lot of people will totally disagree with it. Myself included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate monogamy,its boring,I always end up bankrupt and I never get to be the top hat

I'll let you be the Top Hat as long as I am doggie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the single guys mostly sign up for a shag

the couples sign up to add a lil spice to their sex lives

the single fems sign up to try and bag a bloke

standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no harm in keeping an open mind.

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By *ewlySingleMaleMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I joined up just for the sex but met my girlfriend on here and we are very happy together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be honest I came on here to try my bi side out, with success.

It's now grown into a social life for us both, and enjoy it very much.

But looking for a husband on here erm no

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

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Joined for sex, met other half on here, able to still meet others. Couldn't be happier. Don't think a partner on match.com would be open to me shagging other men somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fancy a fuck message on pof and I had no profile pic either so it's not one as has been said

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