FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A forum post or an avatar attracts me to the profile I always read but I know a lot that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always "read" the pictures first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

I'm very visual so pictures firstly! Good body or creative flare! After than anything too high maintenance or arrogant and put me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sexy avatar, then photos ...but always read the profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sexy avatar, then photos ...but always read the profile text "

Same here, Avatar but also personality on Forums. Then pics and profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us humour attracts first, one of the biggest turn off's is a too direct profile, and as for reading, it's whoever gets to it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the time it's forum posts that peak our attention and the associated avatars that draw us in. We'll both check out what's written and see if we like and if they might like us.

Hopefully it snowballs from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the verifications first. It's a good gauge on what your dealing with lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

I'm very visual so pictures firstly! Good body or creative flare! After than anything too high maintenance or arrogant and put me right off."

Same. Also badly written profiles put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics. "

same here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics. "

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

I do like reading what some people have put others I do find a bit taxing. To be fair it would Be rude not to look at the pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't know. But, if i can sense that they are a bit cheeky then i think i'm on to a winner. But, it's rare for it to be mutual lol.

...need to sort my profile out i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good message attracts me along with the face pic provided. then I go from there if I'm lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

Lol. I know I would be put off by a message like that. Unless I was already shagging them on a regular basis. Then I would take it as horny tongue in cheek. I guess some love messages like that though. We all like different approaches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avatar, then pics, then text is the order I check out a womans profile, but I have to find her pics AND what she's written appealing in order for me to send her a message - well, assuming she hasn't blocked single guys from contacting her, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

I wink first then count to ten then send a fancy a fuck message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

I wink first then count to ten then send a fancy a fuck message "
you had us at the wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

I wink first then count to ten then send a fancy a fuck message "

Lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Avatar, pics and then I see if they sound fun from the blurb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

At what point do you send a 'wanna shag?' message?

I wink first then count to ten then send a fancy a fuck message you had us at the wink

Total sluts lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read profiles but am put off by folk who have the sydney university crap on it how gullible folk are to believe it means owt or does owt baffles me.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Forum post/avatar attracts me first.

I then look at the pics and their preferences.

If I like the pics and the preferences match - age range etc. then I will read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar, pics and then I see if they sound fun from the blurb

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Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avatar first or status update

Then I read profile and look at remaining pics.

same here

Me three

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

for me I always message couples who are going to the same club function that we are going to and see if they want to meet up for a drink before hand ,,,,,has been a very successfull as they are usually staying in the same hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Pics first then profile text, always read, looking for fun, not to waste their or my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

I can understand men copying and pasting. But I don't personally reply to them. I much prefer the personal touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

I can understand men copying and pasting. But I don't personally reply to them. I much prefer the personal touch

Please note I am very sarcastic and of course all mails sent are of a personal nature when sent to a person...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

I can understand men copying and pasting. But I don't personally reply to them. I much prefer the personal touch

Please note I am very sarcastic and of course all mails sent are of a personal nature when sent to a person...

Lol..... Great save!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

Men like you should be made an example of..such charm and know how to make a wench feel really special

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Coming from a man this may surprise some people lol. I always read the profile. Attraction can come from what is written about the person as well as from photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Photos and fun info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

Men like you should be made an example of..such charm and know how to make a wench feel really special

haha Get your coat DarkEdges you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Coming from a man this may surprise some people lol. I always read the profile. Attraction can come from what is written about the person as well as from photos"

Great answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

Men like you should be made an example of..such charm and know how to make a wench feel really special

haha Get your coat DarkEdges you've pulled

Hooray

think I'm in for a good time! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Coming from a man this may surprise some people lol. I always read the profile. Attraction can come from what is written about the person as well as from photos"

Very true an attraction / connection can come from anywhere but you need to look closely to find it just speed reading and not paying full attention could mean you missing out on the meet of a life time. I also think finding a little humor in a profile will spark a reaction out of me as I would want to know we could talk and laugh in any down time with whom ever you have the pleasure of meeting.

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over a year ago

"Pics 1st then more pics..then I might read the profile

I have heard this mentioned before what is this reading profile stuff seems a bit kinky for me

Its something you do when you're really really bored..but then ignore it anyway and just send some random message

I find copy and paste message works really well especially if you don;t amend the name to make it relevant for the new person your messaging

Men like you should be made an example of..such charm and know how to make a wench feel really special

haha Get your coat DarkEdges you've pulled

Hooray

think I'm in for a good time! Xxx"

Need to read the small print good times are not guaranteed

honest xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

I've handled Swansea. I'm sure i can handle your part of town. You can hold my hand for extra support and motivation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

I've handled Swansea. I'm sure i can handle your part of town. You can hold my hand for extra support and motivation.

As long as it's only your hand you expect me to hold, soldier!

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over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

I've handled Swansea. I'm sure i can handle your part of town. You can hold my hand for extra support and motivation.

As long as it's only your hand you expect me to hold, soldier!

Well, you're more than welcome to fondle my beard and hold on to that if the hills get bumpy in Wales.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Good pic and humour does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at pictures,, age range,, but then I do read the profile,, sad I know lol,,,, great eyes and someone who makes me laugh is good,,, inked men really push my interest too lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a forum post.

Or a message from someone.

We are not particularly pro-active in seeking playmates, but if someone says summat in the forums that intrigues ir interests us we will check em out.

We will always look at who messages us too.

Other than that nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can look at their pics and profile and see something I want to talk to them about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

I've handled Swansea. I'm sure i can handle your part of town. You can hold my hand for extra support and motivation.

As long as it's only your hand you expect me to hold, soldier!

Well, you're more than welcome to fondle my beard and hold on to that if the hills get bumpy in Wales.

Haha hold on to your beard? Nothing like the sound of a man screaming in pain to get the adrenaline going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...the Welsh accent gets me weak at the knees. Just saying.

I'm welsh........ Just saying

Well, i haven't gone to Wales for a while. Is it time for a regular trip up Wales?

...satnav at the ready.

Just remember to drive slowly..... Apparently we have a lot of sheep! Lol

Is this where i try chatting you up by saying i'd drive through a field of sheep just to see you?

Haha we welsh believe in freedom. They roam free like the cows in India. Hope you can handle the treacherous journey!

I've handled Swansea. I'm sure i can handle your part of town. You can hold my hand for extra support and motivation.

As long as it's only your hand you expect me to hold, soldier!

Well, you're more than welcome to fondle my beard and hold on to that if the hills get bumpy in Wales.

Haha hold on to your beard? Nothing like the sound of a man screaming in pain to get the adrenaline going!

Pain, pleasure. It's all the same. As long as it's not the sheep going all dom on me and making me their sub on the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now it's photos, then veries too show they actually play...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Forum post/avatar attracts me first.

I then look at the pics and their preferences.

If I like the pics and the preferences match - age range etc. then I will read the profile. "

Yes that's about it for me. I sometimes talk to people because of forum posts but will rarely meet anyone that way - I don't like the lack of discretion that sometimes occurs at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First the pic but its not necessary then how the profile is.. like the short profiles lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find all these answers great.... Men that actually read profiles, but in all honesty I do think its rare. I've had many profile, detailing the many facets of my personality depending on what I want and I just get the same men over and over again with the copy and pasted message. Mostly I don't have a picture up and on bad days I rewrite my profile in a rant yet still I get about 200 messages every day! It baffles me.... I'd think crabby fecker and no pic, she can feck off, if I read my profile lmao. Even when its nice people either don't read or message me saying I fit none of your criteria but give me a try! Pmsl I just can't win!

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"What attracts you to a profile? And who reads the profile text?

Coming from a man this may surprise some people lol. I always read the profile. Attraction can come from what is written about the person as well as from photos

Great answer!

Just wish I was closer to wales lol

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