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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?

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By *anebondWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

We have all been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?"

no need for that!

if you dont want to meeet is say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have all been there"

not me sorry,

if i arrange a meet im there x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's happened to us, we suggest a time and place and they stop messaging, this is often after they have suggested a meet themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

2 sides to every story, although from your side doesnt sound good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustrating I guess but just put it behind you and move on to chatting and meeting nicer people ?? x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I call them the wannabe's and the fantasists, I always know when they just like the chase

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

date nerves.

Or blagging.

We've all been there... rock out and carry on with your life and arranging the next meet

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Waste of everyone's time i think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?"

It happens I guess just put it behind you ignore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, some people like to play games. If you haven't heard from them for several days before the meet and they don't reply to a confirmation text on the day, assume the meet is off. Although sometimes life does get in the way...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Arrange a meet in a cafe then when they don't turn up, you can finish your coffee and go shopping. No big loss, really. It is frustrating but it happens.

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By *reasured heARTSCouple
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

they just noticed the scooter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange a meet in a cafe then when they don't turn up, you can finish your coffee and go shopping. No big loss, really. It is frustrating but it happens. "

Sorry but it is a big loss. When we have to make expensive child care arrangements for a rare weekend of adult fun & then it is spoilt by some timewasting wanker I can assure you it is not covered by a large cappuccino.

That is why we have virtually stopped meeting people from fab. We now prefer clubs & organised parties.

If many single guys struggle to get meets that is one of the causes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try actually turning up at their house at the arranged time for the met and then, after three hours of chatting (I'm a patient soul!) she says she doesn't feel well and backs out - now that's frustrating.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Think is easy to pay for sex lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I see. Yes, sorry. Wasn't thinking it through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange a meet in a cafe then when they don't turn up, you can finish your coffee and go shopping. No big loss, really. It is frustrating but it happens.

Sorry but it is a big loss. When we have to make expensive child care arrangements for a rare weekend of adult fun & then it is spoilt by some timewasting wanker I can assure you it is not covered by a large cappuccino.

That is why we have virtually stopped meeting people from fab. We now prefer clubs & organised parties.

If many single guys struggle to get meets that is one of the causes."

We can really appreciate that one. Child care ain't cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we've all been there at some point and for me personally I wouldn't give them another chance as been there too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try actually turning up at their house at the arranged time for the met and then, after three hours of chatting (I'm a patient soul!) she says she doesn't feel well and backs out - now that's frustrating. "

Better have her back out than go through with something she doesn't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see. Yes, sorry. Wasn't thinking it through. "

No probs. Having just had an evening of fun ruined we were a bit wound up when we posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be quite common, think a lot of people just enjoy the chase rather than the actual meet but don't be upfront about it. Frustrating as honesty costs nothing but travel etc does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?

no need for that!

if you dont want to meeet is say no thanks "
very true I actually went out of my way too to meet them tut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Frustrating I guess but just put it behind you and move on to chatting and meeting nicer people ?? x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"they just noticed the scooter"
lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better have her back out than go through with something she doesn't want to "

Agree 100% the lady should have the right to say no at any point.

Some want to try it and chicken out at the last minute not leaving enough time to inform the other person.

Not nice but personally I couldn't enjoy it knowing the lady wasn't 100% sure! then again I don't get the chance to show how much of a gentleman I am

jim

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