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Accused of being a time waster

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster"

Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.

No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster

Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you arranged a meet ? But sometimes attention seeking springs to mind. Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster

Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up "

Err I don't think he will be fucking them somehow....

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.

No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster."

Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide

But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?

Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????

What a stupid thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just wasted my time reading this!!!!! I'm a very busy man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"

Just tell them to bog off and go and sit in the garden with a beer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster

Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up

Err I don't think he will be fucking them somehow...."

I think your right lol

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?

Just tell them to bog off and go and sit in the garden with a beer! "

I prefer cider and its absolutely pissing down in my neck of the woods but that's a great plan lol

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Pusssy rulzzzzzz

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"You just wasted my time reading this!!!!! I'm a very busy man!!!"
lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"

If that is the case I must be one of the biggest timewasters on here, as it is very rare I meet the men that message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Err I don't think he will be fucking them somehow....

I think your right lol"

Always nice to get it in writing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a time waster for saying 'sorry you're not my type' so it's not just the men who have it tough on here

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

In all fairness there was no pic on the profile and very little description so I'm thinking a lucky escape

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

And this is the reason why Fab doesn't allow us to name and shame so called time wasters. The definition can be so broad, but I would class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet me and then just doesn't turn up, without a word of explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like this one

Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past

Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have

Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster"

Ignore it sounds like someone with an axe to grind people who can't make their own mind up are probably best avoided anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called a time waster for saying 'sorry you're not my type' so it's not just the men who have it tough on here "

It seems that men are allowed to have a type, but don't like it when we woman actually have to fancy the guy before we will do the deed.

As my friend says... In most cases there isnt a bottle of vodka big enough !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are clearly unhinged on here.....It can be a good source of amusement

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"And this is the reason why Fab doesn't allow us to name and shame so called time wasters. The definition can be so broad, but I would class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet me and then just doesn't turn up, without a word of explanation. "

Thank you

That is exactly my point of view

I have met everyone I have agreed to meet, doesn't always end in sex but fuck it at least I've had a chat and a drink

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.

No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.

Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide

But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?

Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????

What a stupid thing to say"

Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!''

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.

No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.

Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide

But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?

Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????

What a stupid thing to say

Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!''"

Point taken and I do apologise for being rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.

No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.

Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide

But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?

Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????

What a stupid thing to say

Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!''"

I've exchanged messages with a few like that but you can soon realise that they are never going to meet.

In my opinion timewasters are the people that arrange a meet then don't turn up or let you down at the very last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of game players on here. As a single man you have to accept that you are always going to be the one to get the worst end of it.

Block and move on is my motto.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"ignore and block

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no stress. fuck 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here seems to have a different definitions of a timewaster: from some who messages which doesn't lead to anywhere or disappears off the face of the earth, to arranging a meet and doesn't turn up with no valid explanation. For us it's the latter, as it takes time to get ready and attend the meet, and costs money for travelling, arranging a hotel, etc. We've been lucky not to have any timewasters, except one on my single profile.

P

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By *orvidMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I was asked if I was free on a certain day and replied that I was sorry but wouldn't be back in that city till the next week.

Instantly accused of being a time wasted and blocked.

What confused me is I'd already said before hand I was away for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"

This happens to us, as if you're going to meet absolutely everyone you bloody chat to!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ignore and block

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By *inkyrikMan
over a year ago

chorleywood

blimey join the que the amount of arranged meets with women or so called couples that ive had ive turned up at the arranged meeting point and none has ever turned up messaged them politely asking if id got my day/time mixed up BLOCKED.

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