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to bi or not to bi, that is the question...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have had a couple of messages this week asking how I can state straight on my profile when I meet TS/TG girls, as surely that makes me bi. Well I don't consider myself bi as my preference is for TG/TS rather than TV - a guy in women's undies, make up and wig who looks exactly that is no turn on for me and neither do regular guys. I only find myself wanting to have fun with truly convincing TS/TG as I still view them as gorgeous women, just with something extra! Be interested to see what the general thoughts on this matter were?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defnitely not straight.....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

In my opinion, male to female TS/TG are women (assuming they're post op)...if a man were having sex with a pre op TS/TG that would make them bi (again my opinion only). I'm with those that think there should be a separate category for TS/TG. A few years ago, I was lucky enough to meet and play with a pre op TS and I felt I got the best of both worlds for a bisexual, a lovely pair of boobs and a lush cock (as well as a fab personality)...I'd still love to play with a female to male TS, but have only ever seen that on Sexcetera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did they still have a cock if they did then you are bi. we have had loads of messages from so called straight guys who say they are bi but say straight on their profile . wish they would be honest with their selfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if you like a bit of cock every so often your not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be whatever you want to be.

After all, kidding yourself is not a crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one said you cant,the OP asked for peoples thoughts.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U ain't straight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree if you like a bit of cock every so often your not straight."

Its not that I "like a bit of cock" thats the thing, I only find TS/TG's who really look like women appealing, and even then I do all the fucking, I have no interest in manly looking men or those who dress in women's clothes and look horrendous! I àm fully comfortable with who I am and what I like, just wanted views on how I should portray that on my profile so as not to mislead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"did they still have a cock if they did then you are bi. we have had loads of messages from so called straight guys who say they are bi but say straight on their profile . wish they would be honest with their selfs"

The thing is if I put bi and came to meet you guys for example, I would have no interest in doing anything to your man, or him doing anything with me, if he looks and acts like a bloke, that does nothing for me!? Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a niche bisexual.

See !

Compromise

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've recently changed my views on this particular topic.

If a t-girl identifies herself as a woman (cock or not), and a man finds her attractive as a woman and has sex with her on that basis, I'd say that was straight sex. (Even if mutual cock-sucking was involved.)

Probably a controversial opinion, but having seen some ftm ts porn lately, I'd say the reverse holds true as well.

I'm definitely not trying to kid myself, I'm gay with bi tendencies (that's why I identify as bi, there's no straight-curious option).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes sense to me, I'd say bi though and maybe explain it fully if you need to

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Pre op TG/TS ladies will probably search for bi men rather than straight so maybe better to set your profile to bi, but then explain in your profile text that your only interested in TG/TS. Also block single men from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the bit extra you like that means not straight but what the heck - we all like what we like end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree if you like a bit of cock every so often your not straight.

Its not that I "like a bit of cock" thats the thing, I only find TS/TG's who really look like women appealing, and even then I do all the fucking, I have no interest in manly looking men or those who dress in women's clothes and look horrendous! I àm fully comfortable with who I am and what I like, just wanted views on how I should portray that on my profile so as not to mislead?"

There are some very convincing TVs on here they look good not like a bloke in a wig etc, would you fuck them or are all your meets with "chicks with dicks" ? Sorry could not resist it no offence to chicks with dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did they still have a cock if they did then you are bi. we have had loads of messages from so called straight guys who say they are bi but say straight on their profile . wish they would be honest with their selfs

The thing is if I put bi and came to meet you guys for example, I would have no interest in doing anything to your man, or him doing anything with me, if he looks and acts like a bloke, that does nothing for me!? Does that make sense?"

Yes it makes sense however you need to say that on your profile. I know gay men who will only meet very feminine men I myself will only meet men who act and look like men all very confusing but each to there own. You like TRANS SEXUALS very feminine however your BI.

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By *1111Man
over a year ago

neath port talbot

you are bi full stop

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never met a cd or tv or ts or anyone who didn't look like a man or a woman. There are a few men with womans clothes on who I've seen in Brighton perfectly normally shopping etc and I don't think anyone thought it unusual. I think Brighton is quite accepting in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've recently changed my views on this particular topic.

If a t-girl identifies herself as a woman (cock or not), and a man finds her attractive as a woman and has sex with her on that basis, I'd say that was straight sex. (Even if mutual cock-sucking was involved.)

Probably a controversial opinion, but having seen some ftm ts porn lately, I'd say the reverse holds true as well.

I'm definitely not trying to kid myself, I'm gay with bi tendencies (that's why I identify as bi, there's no straight-curious option)."

Bi curious......Cock on cock is gay woman get involved its bi never tried before is bi curious

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah put bi and explain no men etc. I'm bi but hardly ever meet men. I think I'm getting straighter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does there have to be labels? Just enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've recently changed my views on this particular topic.

If a t-girl identifies herself as a woman (cock or not), and a man finds her attractive as a woman and has sex with her on that basis, I'd say that was straight sex. (Even if mutual cock-sucking was involved.)

Probably a controversial opinion, but having seen some ftm ts porn lately, I'd say the reverse holds true as well.

I'm definitely not trying to kid myself, I'm gay with bi tendencies (that's why I identify as bi, there's no straight-curious option)."
"she" will still have a cock which would make it the SAME sex which can't possibly be straight......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does there have to be labels? Just enjoy yourselves "
so people can choose who they do & don't meet.....believe it or not not everyones the same

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By *LCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

This is the problem when you try to label sexuality. For some people it can be a fluid thing completely dependant on the situation. Stating yourself as Bi could lead to expectations from the other party that you may just not be feeling at the time. That's why I've gone for the Bi-Curious option. It leaves some wiggle room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy being bi, for me it makes sx much more interesting but I don't fancy guys or tv's as I fancy women. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have had a couple of messages this week asking how I can state straight on my profile when I meet TS/TG girls, as surely that makes me bi. Well I don't consider myself bi as my preference is for TG/TS rather than TV - a guy in women's undies, make up and wig who looks exactly that is no turn on for me and neither do regular guys. I only find myself wanting to have fun with truly convincing TS/TG as I still view them as gorgeous women, just with something extra! Be interested to see what the general thoughts on this matter were? "

I understand where you're coming from but being turned on by a cock even on a person looking like a woman still doesn't make you really straight, though I feel the same really, I don't find men attractive at all but a very convincing she male / ladyboy type is simple gorgeous, stunning, but I still class myself as bi.

I think bi could be split up into a few categories on here though which would help like orally bi etc

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