FabSwingers.com forum: Do you message people you have no interest in?

By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Probably not.

So why would anyone sending a message to someone suddenly expect people to do exactly this, just because they've sent a message?

Isn't thinking you have a right to dictate how someone else uses their time, which may be very limited, rude and entitled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thursday was yesterday.

Sorry, you'll have to wait until next week now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will talk to anyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I see what you've done here

I think it's annoying and the people who do it are chancers but not sure about rude and entitled.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes? "

Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?

Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet

Exactly this

I can chat to people making it clear that's all it will be then sometimes they'll ask about meeting. One guy got so stroppy when he kept asking to meet after I'd made it clear I wasn't interested in more than chatting that I had to block him so I don't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll sometimes message someone if they have posted an interesting status - it's not that I want to meet them, it's more like they've started a conversation with the FAB community and I'm adding to it.

I'm not being rude or trying to dictate anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we get messages reference a subject on the forum we chat about it for a bit then that's it. It is quite nice to have a chat sometimes and it's easy to spot those using it as an angle to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes? "

Yes, but sometimes people take that as a maybe they can persuade you to meet option!

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?

Yes, but sometimes people take that as a maybe they can persuade you to meet option! "

Nice legs when can I see you

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Thursday was yesterday.

Sorry, you'll have to wait until next week now."

Tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes we get messages reference a subject on the forum we chat about it for a bit then that's it. It is quite nice to have a chat sometimes and it's easy to spot those using it as an angle to meet. "

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?

Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet

I have neither the time or the inclination.

My chat time is spent on those I do want to meet and my friends.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?

Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet

Liking the car park shots - nice to hear from you

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