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By *k74 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Can you please suggest a way not to hurt someone while doing anal, or am I doing it wrong

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Lube lube and more lube....and when you think thats enough....more lube! And take it SLOWLY at first!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are not relaxed enough or maybe you need to use more lube

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Can you please suggest a way not to hurt someone while doing anal, or am I doing it wrong"

dont take a run up from the bottom of your garden?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to give the anal as much attention as the pussie, suggest licking and fingering it, that will losen it up for a hard anal fuck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to give the anal as much attention as the pussie, suggest licking and fingering it, that will losen it up for a hard anal fuck ."
More attention, its a delicate baby

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to give the anal as much attention as the pussie, suggest licking and fingering it, that will losen it up for a hard anal fuck .More attention, its a delicate baby

Her"
YOur right it needs alot of attention .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to give the anal as much attention as the pussie, suggest licking and fingering it, that will losen it up for a hard anal fuck .More attention, its a delicate baby

HerYOur right it needs alot of attention ."
Good lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you please suggest a way not to hurt someone while doing anal, or am I doing it wrong"

Your doing it wrong

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself a toy the same size as your cock and learn what it takes to take it up your own arse.

Only when you have experienced it yourself will you properly understand what you're asking of a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself a toy the same size as your cock and learn what it takes to take it up your own arse.

Only when you have experienced it yourself will you properly understand what you're asking of a partner. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself a toy the same size as your cock and learn what it takes to take it up your own arse.

Only when you have experienced it yourself will you properly understand what you're asking of a partner. "
Or a strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go in dry bud, she/he/shehe 'll be 'reet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your obviously doing it wrong. Any pain in my eyes is wrong. If he was doing me in the bitty and it hurt, no tea for a month!

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By *aul n PleasureCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Get yourself a toy the same size as your cock and learn what it takes to take it up your own arse.

Only when you have experienced it yourself will you properly understand what you're asking of a partner. "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Can you please suggest a way not to hurt someone while doing anal, or am I doing it wrong"

how are you doing it?

Personally i dont like to use lube as i find it makes t more difficult to control the speed etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your obviously doing it wrong. Any pain in my eyes is wrong. If he was doing me in the bitty and it hurt, no tea for a month! "

If you have pain in your eyes he must be hung like a horse PMSL

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Warm up with a plug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal can be a pain in the arse some times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sugest also the woman should do an enema before hand lol.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I sugest also the woman should do an enema before hand lol."

Ahhhh..so nice to see romance isn't dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sugest also the woman should do an enema before hand lol.

Ahhhh..so nice to see romance isn't dead "
YEs it is and its in blossom lol.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

if its causing pain, you're doing it wrong. Make sure the person receiving is very aroused and relaxed. Start with a lubed finger and go from there. Use plenty of lube, but not so much that you're swimming in it! Take your time, keep the person aroused, gentle stroking, whisper sweet nothings, caress intimate parts. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time, patience and plenty of lube.

Start with a little Rimming, then a pinky, then a bigger finger, maybe two. Buy a set of different sized plugs and advise your partner to exhale as you enter him/her. I'd also advise douching an hour or so beforehand.

With a little patience it can be very enjoyable.

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By *k74 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Thank you all for your replies , I shall try it with more and more lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they need to relax you more too

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By *k74 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Yes agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes time, patience and plenty of lube.

Start with a little Rimming, then a pinky, then a bigger finger, maybe two. Buy a set of different sized plugs and advise your partner to exhale as you enter him/her. I'd also advise douching an hour or so beforehand.

With a little patience it can be very enjoyable."

Starting to wonder if I was the only one here that knows of douching, definitely makes things more comfortable for them. But yes all the advice given so far works well but don't go dry until the receiver is experienced and well aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you please suggest a way not to hurt someone while doing anal, or am I doing it wrong

dont take a run up from the bottom of your garden? "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself a toy the same size as your cock and learn what it takes to take it up your own arse.

Only when you have experienced it yourself will you properly understand what you're asking of a partner. "

plus gentle, thorpugh preparation. Training with pinky size plug and over time, increasing. SHARES IN LUBE MANUFACTURING CO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had someone finger my bum hole dry without telling me

ooooooouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend of mine is very skillful with her strap on. Lots of lube and gets me very hot and horny be for she enters me.

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By *k74 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Thank you

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By *k74 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

Lol, must have hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, must have hurt"

No...Very skillfully done

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is both the person receiving it as well as the giver who can take control. More experience helps, so keep at it, if youre the receiver. Experiment with different positions, and find what works. If it hurts too much, stop, in case something is wrong. As others say, lube is most important. Work up to it, start at the right time and pace. Above all, practise and improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Warm up with a plug "

3 or 2 pin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enema by artsana. About £10 on amazon. Do it the night before so any excess water is reabsorbed by the rectum before he goes in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the licking and fingering but I find the best way is to get in position and play with her pussy, always seems to relax her ass and as it opens start to gently slip your cock in very slowly but keep playing with her pussy until she's completely relaxed and you're fully inside.

jim

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