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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so we are going to brave it and go to our first club not 100% yet if it's going to be Conections or Infusion in Blackpool so question is which so you think and any tips for us club virgins xx

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Go with no expectations, be open, talk to people. Don't expect to be jumped, just enjoy the eroticism of the ocasion, enjoy each other, enjoy looking great (which you do!) and if you want to let loose, then go for it. We find clubs way less intimidating than vanilla ones - lovely people, lots of room to open up & be yourself!

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow so pleased you posted this thread, we too are considering our first trip to a club, we are based near Milton Keynes,

What is the best place to go and why?

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By *kda 07Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Went to infusions with my gf for our first time and had a nice night. We just stuck with playing with each other but it was very exiting being watched and being around others. Nice and relaxed down stairs and play rooms upstairs. Can't speak for the other one though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same been talking about it loads but haven't had chance to do it. Its party down to nerves and partly down to free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we went to infusions on friday and i would say try connections as we found infusions quite poor .good social area and nice pool but play areas were to be frank pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first club with bf on fri to infusions .. very relaxing and welcoming so much so we are hoing back this sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about what sort of club you would like to go to first. I think that was the first mistake I made. I chose Infusion as my first club, I don't like swimming and find spa's boring, so wet clubs aren't really for me (prefer night club type ones). Are you happy dressing down straight away? Check out the club reviews section and do your research. Above all else relax, be social and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go with no expectations, be open, talk to people. Don't expect to be jumped, just enjoy the eroticism of the ocasion, enjoy each other, enjoy looking great (which you do!) and if you want to let loose, then go for it. We find clubs way less intimidating than vanilla ones - lovely people, lots of room to open up & be yourself!

Enjoy x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all ya great advice , I'm fine dressing down as worked for adult works so used to being seen in nothing lol just like most things think ya nervouse about the whole what to expect bit but I will let ya all know . Just nice to have some time to go really as hard with kids and even if we only get to play together it's nice for us time

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

The great thing about clubs is that you can go just for the social aspect. If you aren't quite sure if you want to play, and you're a bit nervous, just check out the different nights they cater for on their website and pick one that you find interesting. A lot of clubs just have couples nights and many have different themed nights. All of which they advertise on their website. I have found that clubs are pretty welcoming to club newbies and are happy to show you around and explain the dos and don'ts - clubs would generally do this anyway if you haven't been there before. ALternatively you could always check out the socials forum where they regularly advertise socials that happen in clubs where a group os us get together for a good night out. I have been to many of these where I haven't done anything and strictly gone for the social aspect. It is entirely up to you what you do and don't do in clubs anyway. You don't have to play if you don't want to - just go along for a drink and and to meet some other people for youf first time if that make you feel more comfortable.

Good luck and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing we ever did and never looked back

Yep we were nervous and didn't really know what to expect but that was half of the thrill of going, still get it now when we go and hope in a way it doesn't go

Just remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to. At no point have we ever needed to say anything g other than a polite no thank you to peeps that were either going to fast for us or just not our type and that because generally everyone in there is coming from the same place you are. So give it a go , the worst that could happen is you realise it's not for you but oh the amazing world it does open if it is, is really worth the risk xxx

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