FabSwingers.com forum: Just plain old kissing????

By *haunlewis OP Man
over a year ago

St helier

Hi all, I have been reading threads and seems to be a lack of talk about kissing? Don't get me wrong I am as open minded and adventurous as the rest of you but I love to kiss a lady as part of sex. A good kisser sets the tone of what's to come.

Anyone agree? Also, would love to see more pics of kissing (albeit I understand the discretion limitations of face pics). S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember if there's a tickbox for kissing in the 'interests' section, but if not, there should be. Huge part of foreplay - and one of the only parts you can get away with in the pub / park / car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss is very important and can be a good indication of how the rest might go. I've had a meet where the guy was nice enough, but the kiss was weak and sloppy, that was the end of that meet

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By *haunlewis OP Man
over a year ago

St helier

"Can't remember if there's a tickbox for kissing in the 'interests' section, but if not, there should be. Huge part of foreplay - and one of the only parts you can get away with in the pub / park / car!"

I agree it should be listed as an interest!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, it should be listed as an interest for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should DEFINITELY be listed as an interest. It is my favourite part of being intimate with someone. Being a fantastic kisser myself, I expect the same from a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing ohhhhhh it's delicious!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men don't kiss at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, it's important, I think kissing portrays true attraction. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't kiss at all"

So I believe? I'd struggle because its something I just do naturally, without thinking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is massive I think really passionate kissing then your hands just roam and you can get the feel of what going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing its a massive part of foreplay ,if a man can't or won't kiss then it would never go any where else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant beat a good snog...;o)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like kissing

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The kiss sets the scene for me... Without that I am not able to get in to it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"you cant beat a good snog...;o)"

I can tell by your profile

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By *haunlewis OP Man
over a year ago

St helier

"Some men don't kiss at all"

Really, is this true? Some guys on a meet don't kiss you???? Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had one meet where I did not kiss because of lip infection and it was just awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. I don't know whether I'm being harsh though, but if someone turns out not to be the best kisser, it sort of affects the rest of my evening and I just don't get into it any where near as much.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I love kissing, it's important, I think kissing portrays true attraction. x"

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss....and hubby loves to see me being kissed...as i like seeing him kiss other women.

Such a turn on....and can make me sooo wet.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

It is everything. Without it, you can't build that sexual fire and anticipation that starts off a good night. Without it, I don't really want to go further..

And that's why oral hygiene and nice teeth are very important..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss, starting with lips brushing lightly then building the intensity, love it when we lick tongues, love to kiss every inch of my lady's gorgeous body and love having my body kissed. I agree, it's one of the most important acts for me. Wouldn't be interested if someone didn't want kissing, like wanking with no hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A women on top of you snogging you like theres no tomorrow whilst you grope her soft sexy bum with both hands.

mmmmmmmmmm love it

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

love it....

love kissing a girl too

Ruby x

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Agreed

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Some men don't kiss at all"

Some don't like to kiss on a meet as they find it too personal.

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By *haunlewis OP Man
over a year ago

St helier

But sticking their cock in your ass isn't? I bet they wouldn't turn that down on a meet lol!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But sticking their cock in your ass isn't? I bet they wouldn't turn that down on a meet lol!!!!

Funnt that aint it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't kiss at all

So I believe? I'd struggle because its something I just do naturally, without thinking....

I've been seeing a man for 4 years who has never kissed me. He has attracted me in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Kissing is really important for me, that's why I mention it in my profile. A good kiss can be as memorable as anything which might follow. A really good kiss can even be enough on its own.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"But sticking their cock in your ass isn't? I bet they wouldn't turn that down on a meet lol!!!!

kissing is a more intimate act than penetration, a lot of swinging couples keep kissing between themselves as its the most intimate act, they are here for fun not intimacy, others however enjoy the intimacy, its each to there own, you shouldnt belittle others for there choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing ...... Mmmmmm

Before, during and after.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find it such a turn on.....starting slow, building up the sensation....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, there have been quite a few posts on the topic of kissing. Most people enjoy it. Some find it a personal thing that they like to keep for their partner. That's all. Just saying.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

To quote from The Meaning Of Life, "what's wrong with a kiss, boy?"

I concur.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

one bloke sucked my face off and my top lip swelled up for a couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet anyone who put 'no kissing' on their profile! Some do say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing. It's a huge part of sex for me. If a man told me he didn't want / like kissing then I wouldn't meet him. It's what turns me on in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely must kiss! I cannot go from 0 to 60 MPH in a heartbeat...I need to warm up, and kissing is the way to do it.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one bloke sucked my face off and my top lip swelled up for a couple of days "

Omg, did you get a tetanus jab, better to be safe than sorry

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

its a must for us too..builds the ambiance mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing, it's important, I think kissing portrays true attraction. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge turn-on

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I have a section in my overlong profile specifically relating to the snog test. Kissing is an essential for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh yes. Kissing is huge a huge turn on. it's like a game with lips. Taking it in turns to take the lead, pulling away... teasing... biting down and simultaneously gripping the head and running your hands through their hair..

Mind games with the mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh yes. Kissing is huge a huge turn on. it's like a game with lips. Taking it in turns to take the lead, pulling away... teasing... biting down and simultaneously gripping the head and running your hands through their hair..

Mind games with the mouth."

And don't get me started on the neck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't kiss at all"

They're more than happy to stick their dick in you, but won't kiss you! It's always confused me!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Some men don't kiss at all

They're more than happy to stick their dick in you, but won't kiss you! It's always confused me!"

Mine doesn't show any interest til l've had some liplock action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We couldn't imagine having sex without kissing it gets all the right juices flowing leading to wanting to rip each other's clothes off. There is nothing better than a sensual kiss and can't understand the people that say kissing is to intimate but fucking isn't but then each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love kissing. I don't know whether I'm being harsh though, but if someone turns out not to be the best kisser, it sort of affects the rest of my evening and I just don't get into it any where near as much."

This

Kissing tells of the passion to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if the kissing begins to trail down my neck and round the back under my hair.....OMG my knees literally buckle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if the kissing begins to trail down my neck and round the back under my hair.....OMG my knees literally buckle....

And if a hand had gripped the hair close to your scalp on the back of your head, to reveal that neck....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has got to be the biggest turn on for me and miss x you can't beat a long passionate kiss.i Mr x files would go as far as saying I can enjoy a kiss just as much as sex with a kisser that is as good as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't kiss at all"

Wonder if some people want things to turn out like the film Pretty Woman?

She didn't kiss and look how that turned out lol

Personally, though, I love a good kiss like others have said a good sensual kiss can kick things off and be an indicator of the fun to come

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

looooooooooooooooooooooooove kissing with the right woman! There's nothing better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my lovely long term friend kisses my shoulder I relish it for a second or two,then brace myself for the bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We couldn't imagine having sex without kissing it gets all the right juices flowing leading to wanting to rip each other's clothes off. There is nothing better than a sensual kiss and can't understand the people that say kissing is to intimate but fucking isn't but then each to their own. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if the kissing begins to trail down my neck and round the back under my hair.....OMG my knees literally buckle....

Yes indeed!!

Jlynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men don't kiss at all

Really, is this true? Some guys on a meet don't kiss you???? Wow. "

I had a fb who didnt like kissing, when I asked him why, he said its because kissing someone is to intimate for him!! We are no longer fb's as I like lots of kissing and it really turns me on and gets me nice and wet..

Kissing to me is all part of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always tell from a kiss, whether or not it is going to go further...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same goes 4 me...

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

its a huge turn on for me, but I'd say a good 95% of my meets don't involve it.

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

I agree it should be listed as an interest!"

I agree too.

It should be there to be ticked (or not)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing. A must for me.

I'm also into stroking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if the kissing begins to trail down my neck and round the back under my hair.....OMG my knees literally buckle....

And if a hand had gripped the hair close to your scalp on the back of your head, to reveal that neck....?"

I'm toast....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 'got away with' a hell of a lot more than kissing in a car park before now, I can assure you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 'got away with' a hell of a lot more than kissing in a car park before now, I can assure you! "

Hehehe me too.....and a lot more under the table of a pub/restaurant........it's all about looking innocent

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I adore kissing. It's a huge part of sex for me. If a man told me he didn't want / like kissing then I wouldn't meet him. It's what turns me on in the first place

sending lots of kisses xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the majority on here, no kissing is a deal breaker for me, I love kissing, it's the best bit, builds the chemistry, atmosphere and anticipation. Could have sex with someone that was a bad kisser, judge me if you must lol

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By *dam_derbysMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

I LOVE a good sensual snog... sets the tone and is usually a very accurate way of telling whether you're in for more fireworks

Mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is such a lovely part of sex and what's wrong with being affectionate and sensual.

I also find women kissing one another and caressing such a beautiful thing too.

There is much more to sex rather than humping one another's brains out. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if the kissing begins to trail down my neck and round the back under my hair.....OMG my knees literally buckle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A kiss is very important and can be a good indication of how the rest might go. I've had a meet where the guy was nice enough, but the kiss was weak and sloppy, that was the end of that meet "

same here! Doesn't matter how gorgeous, sexy or nice the guy is....If he can't kiss it's a real turn off!

So come on guys pucker up and kiss nicely!!

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Mind games with the mouth."

You can kiss me anytime

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind games with the mouth.

You can kiss me anytime

xxx"

Thanks for the mail, friend request sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol"

Indeed. Much as anything that happens I will never forget that kiss in London when the world stopped for both of us x

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol"

MissLiss sums it up there that's how us guy should do it. Kissing is a key part in the build up to the through out the foreplay, oral & sex!!

I been told that I am a very good kisser and I love it, so if any ladies want to come try my lips are ready lol

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By *urferniMan
over a year ago

Antrim

"Kissing. A must for me.

I'm also into stroking "

kissing and lots of sensual touch - a perfect combination!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

That's key to me - the chemistry has to be right, and there has to be 'kissing compatability' too!! I am surprised to hear so many people say 'Oh I love kissing meets' without a caveat - I love kissing a GOOD kisser, then I can fall into a shop doorway like a teenager!!

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol

Indeed. Much as anything that happens I will never forget that kiss in London when the world stopped for both of us x"

Was a damn good kiss!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Got to kiss. No kiss makes the whole sex thing just mechanical rather than a connection by two (or 3/4/5/6 lol) people. No kissing means no me. I have and will stop a meet if the guy doesn't kiss as part of foreplay and especially during the act itself. A good kiss turns me on as much as a guy who knows how to use his fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol

Indeed. Much as anything that happens I will never forget that kiss in London when the world stopped for both of us x

Was a damn good kiss! "

First time I made someone come from just a kiss! Probably the last

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

"Kissing is not just kissing for me... I could just kiss for hours. When the chemistry is right kissing can be orgasmic.

When he kisses you and pulls you in, holds you by your waist close to him, his hands running up your body to your neck and face....

Gotta stop there turning me on too much lol

Indeed. Much as anything that happens I will never forget that kiss in London when the world stopped for both of us x

Was a damn good kiss!

First time I made someone come from just a kiss! Probably the last

Well I'm sure plenty will want to try now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, there should be a checkbox included for kissing

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