FabSwingers.com forum: someone from work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So got chatting to guy and he seemed nice, we became friends so added him. Turns out he works with hubby what do we do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the issue ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You can either go ahead with it or do what we did and block him.

For us the possible implications were too great and we didn't want to risk work relationships etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want to do? Does he know who you are?

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hubby and I had this, A friend of hubby messaged us, I've fantasised about him to hubby before so we wanted to meet but held back, eventually told him we knew him, he said he'd like to meet and it was very nice when we did!!!

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

Are you sure hubby hasn't set this up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Problem is the pics he has seen. I guess ultimate fear would be word being spread. No pretty sure hubby was as shocked as I am about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet him if you both like the idea. Just make ground rules very clear!

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it!

We met a workmate of mine (Ric) years ago with his wife.

He and his wife split up some time later (not swinging related) and we both now have different jobs but we're still great friends with him and his new partner who knows all about our past exploits.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Problem is the pics he has seen. I guess ultimate fear would be word being spread. No pretty sure hubby was as shocked as I am about it."

Has he seen face pictures and knows it's you?

It can work out well as people have said but it can go the other way. You are concerned already what pleasure would you get if you were worried about possible consequences? It's a decision only you can make but when we received a face picture of my colleague we blocked him straight away the old saying never mix business and pleasure might be a cliche but that doesn't mean there's no truth in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least you know hes not a fake

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"at least you know hes not a fake "

every cloud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at least you know hes not a fake

every cloud lol"

oh yes - im on a be positive kinda day xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"at least you know hes not a fake

every cloud lol

oh yes - im on a be positive kinda day xx

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why the nastiness of blocking him when he did nothing wrong? why just not explain that you wont meet work-mates and carry on.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Have you tried putting this story to the Eastenders scriptwriters? Surely a winner!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"why the nastiness of blocking him when he did nothing wrong? why just not explain that you wont meet work-mates and carry on.

blocking isn't nasty, it's a tool that can be used to protect your privacy. We automatically block anyone from our home area and we're not nasty.

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