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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take them with me on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any respectful guy would be prepared regardless!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it is only responsible for both parties to have a supply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"

if he wants sex then he should supply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"

Each to there own but I'd personally bring my own I wouldn't expect the lady to x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always have them out here, not going to spoil a good meet arguing who should supply the condoms

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always provide my own, shows courtesy.

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By *ertngladCouple
over a year ago

thornton -cleveleys

Well he certainly wasn't in the boy scouts was he.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet. "

Its not as if they weigh lots. I carry a few with me all the time, just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet. "

spot on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"

I always use my own I get decent quality ones not cheap shit a quid spent saves 18 years of thousands of quids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!

if he wants sex then he should supply"

surely same applies to you as you wanting sex too. But i always take some as matter of course.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I always have condoms on me...there's half a dozen in my handbag as I speak, there's a shedload in my bedside cabinet and my shag bag has plenty. I'd never go on a meet without them. I occasionally meet a couple who prefer bareback and the male half usually "forgets" my insistence on safe so I make sure I have some to hand. I think all parties should have them but as I'm always prepared it's no big deal if the other party hasn't got any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better to have them and not need them Than To need them and not have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both I always had a good supply when meeting but the guys should know what best fits him x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!

if he wants sex then he should supply"

And the couple he is meeting don't want sex so shouldn't have to supply??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any respectful guy would be prepared regardless!"

Any respectful person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, it is both parties responsibility.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"who should supply them?

Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!

same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!

if he wants sex then he should supply

surely same applies to you as you wanting sex too. But i always take some as matter of course."

as we put, when we meet we take our own.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"as we put, when we meet we take our own. "

So what's the problem? You had some, so can play with impunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties should provide. Personally feel a bit safer using my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as we put, when we meet we take our own.

So what's the problem? You had some, so can play with impunity."

the fact is was trying to arrange ameet with a guy and was saying he hasnt got any and we should supply them. We think not.

as for past events,yes we have like everyone else

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"as we put, when we meet we take our own.

So what's the problem? You had some, so can play with impunity.

the fact is was trying to arrange ameet with a guy and was saying he hasnt got any and we should supply them. We think not.

as for past events,yes we have like everyone else"

If he was being an arse about then you are within your rights to tell him to sling his hook. But I would never use lack on condoms to prevent a meet that might be an awesome shag. The amount the GUM clinic throws at me for free I have enough to last me for several really good nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit."

This, unless he's a standard fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am responsible for myself so I always have condoms with me,plus I use specific ones that don't irritate me so prefer to use my own

I don't rely on anyone else to provide my protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties ... Why the hell would you not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own. On one occasion I was caught out as we had planned a social meet that quickly got heated, but after speaking to the couple they had some anyway, I think the onus is on both parties to have condoms. I know plenty of single girls prefer to use their own which is fine by me. They feel better knowing how they've been stored, but out of respect for any lady I'd always bring them.

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire


"I think it is only responsible for both parties to have a supply! "

I agree, we always take just incase..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a shagbag in the car and have condoms....plus popping candy

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just always have them, always.

Then it's never an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always meet supplied and if they are not to my meets liking, then I will use their's.

But I will always travel well prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib. "

Do not jest,I came across a man last week at a club who had done just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.


"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet. "

Totally agree with this. Behave like an adult if doing adult activities! !!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib.

Do not jest,I came across a man last week at a club who had done just that "

Don't forget my veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib.

Do not jest,I came across a man last week at a club who had done just that "

No way lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should be said before the meet that both partys will bring some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take a few different varieties of my own but find that most men like to supply their own as they have a fave type to use that works best for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're responsible for your own sexual health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both parties ... Why the hell would you not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my vintage sheeps bladder-doms always handy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have my vintage sheeps bladder-doms always handy"

Aren't bladders big and balloon like?

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

Both should be responsible enough to have them. Why the hell would you go on a meet without them geezo. Mrs K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my vintage sheeps bladder-doms always handy

Aren't bladders big and balloon like? "

well i like to have all of my head covered..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit.

This, unless he's a standard fit"

Not me, I'm afraid, mine bulges in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask fellas to bring something with them. After all they know the best size. If they "forget" I have back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my own

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Always take my own I'm particular about the ones I use x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

I would have thought with the amount of people who carry on about Safe Sex, this would be the case.

Maybe I'm wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib. "
XXXL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should provide cd's of course!!! [ pm me if you don't know what cd's are]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is only responsible for both parties to have a supply! "

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

At Monday's party we had a small bowl that the hosts had put some condoms in. The rest of us attending all put some of our own in so with all the different brands it looked like a pic-n-mix selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to bring condoms to the meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to bring condoms to the meet. "

agreed in triplicate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a supply of them free from the sexual health clinic so if a guy asks I always tell him I have them, if he doesn't ask then I'd expect him to bring some with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The owner of the cock should bring the wrappers, its just respect.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I think both should provide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always take a supply with us, Freshly washed and ironed.

No wrinkles on these babies

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring some along with me, but if I'm entertaining guests at my place, I usually leave a bowl or two around the house.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

a bloke . always should have his own with him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must check the dates on mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should have them. But if someone turned up without any, saying they though I should provide them, I wouldn't be very happy! That's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should carry them with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of a case man turns ur to meet couple slips condom on opps he cums in her turns out he had done it before he tampered with his so maybe both and make him wear 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must check the dates on mine lol "

2018 lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I know of a case man turns ur to meet couple slips condom on opps he cums in her turns out he had done it before he tampered with his so maybe both and make him wear 2 "

wearing 2 condoms increases the risk of them breaking due to the friction!

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By *etsgetjiggingMan
over a year ago

norwich


"Both should have them. But if someone turned up without any, saying they though I should provide them, I wouldn't be very happy! That's just rude. "

Please I don't have a condom can you get one before I arrive. Thank you

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