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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " Ha!! Most I've ever had on here was 4!! Beat that!!!! Actually | |||
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"Its quite often, when I'd be lucky to get even one in a week. The joy of living in nowhere land..." I feel your pain! | |||
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"Its quite often, when I'd be lucky to get even one in a week. The joy of living in nowhere land... I feel your pain! " I receive hundreds...from myself | |||
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"Since I put the new picture up then the message count has gone up also " Eye catching And I'm one who saw the pic and suddenly just HAD to message | |||
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"Since I put the new picture up then the message count has gone up also Eye catching And I'm one who saw the pic and suddenly just HAD to message " And you got a reply | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " About the same here. Unless it's a Friday night or long weekend! | |||
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"At the moment our filters are quite strict so barely any unsolicited ones. From experience relaxing the filters ups the numbers considerably." i may just reduce the filters on.my profile to see if that changes anything | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds About the same here. Unless it's a Friday night or long weekend!" another bank hol on its way we may be bombarded lol | |||
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"1-10 a day. I often get lovely messages complimenting my 'great rack' or 'awesome tits' ! At least I think they're aimed at me? Filters do help! must admit i get some really nice complimentary messages bout my tittie n bottie and the otherss are thanking me for replying to them even though ive said they were not my type A" | |||
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"We get less than 5per week. " I get less than 5 a month maybe less than 5 every 6 months lol | |||
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"Noone here had three hundred in a day yet? i often read in profiles that they cant reply to all messages as theres just not enough time to as they get far too many. just curious who gets that.amount as id like to copy their profile lol x" When I first joined there were about a hundred within an hour. That's without having pics up or anything! Then I learnt how to use filters and that the block button was my new best friend lol | |||
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"Yeah I think at best probably 3 maybe 4? Its incredible the amount some get on here. I met with a woman from another site and she showed me some messages it was beyond ridiculous the sheer volume. " Was that in one day or had she not opened them for a while? | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " About the same for me and at least half are from my friends list | |||
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near." same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !! fozzie | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " Same here. It's closer to 0 though most days. | |||
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"I have never looked at my winks and been on here two or three weeks now. Have nearly six hundred, that's a lot of winks, bless! Xxxx" When you first join the numbers are silly. Until you learn about filters. They are a god send | |||
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"Before I applied pretty much every message filter known to man, I used to get upwards of 50 a day, now I get a far more managable 10 to 20!" Haha! Ditto. | |||
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near. same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !! fozzie " i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip) | |||
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"(m) We've had 1 message in the last 9 months. Don't know why. Sometimes I wonder why we even bother, but she is still hopefull. " You can send messages yourselves,its allowed if you like the look of someone | |||
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near. same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !! fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip)" every girls dream is a royal marine | |||
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" every girls dream is a royal marine " Nope, been there, done that.....nothing special & wouldn't partake again. Give me a good old Matelot any day | |||
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near. same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !! fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip) every girls dream is a royal marine " Nah every royal marines fantasy is man in a tutu | |||
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations. On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did) Average is about 30 a day during the week." What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read | |||
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations. On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did) Average is about 30 a day during the week. What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read " It's not on Fab. Soz. | |||
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations. On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did) Average is about 30 a day during the week. What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read It's not on Fab. Soz." Scoots off to creativeknitting.com for a peruse | |||
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations. On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did) Average is about 30 a day during the week. What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read It's not on Fab. Soz. Scoots off to creativeknitting.com for a peruse " Woollen crotchless knickers, all the rage. | |||
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near. same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !! fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip) every girls dream is a royal marine Nah every royal marines fantasy is man in a tutu" I'm not going to explain myself again , I was quite d*unk and it wasn't a tutu ,you would never catch me wearing one of those. it was in fact a womens court jesters dress !! | |||
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"(m) We've had 1 message in the last 9 months. Don't know why. Sometimes I wonder why we even bother, but she is still hopefull. You can send messages yourselves,its allowed if you like the look of someone " We've sent quite a few messages since we joined but have had no replies to any of them, not 1. Our 1st contact messages usually go along the lines of saying hello, read their profile & would be interested in chatting to them. We also like to mention something from their profile text because that should prove to them that we did read it & not just saying we did. The 1 message we did get said she was interested, we sent a reply & never heard from her again either. What are we doing wrong? Is our profile that bad? | |||
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations. On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did) Average is about 30 a day during the week. What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read It's not on Fab. Soz." awww poor ryan is gonna miss out now on his afternoon read. oooops i mean perve x | |||
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"why are some people on this site rude" | |||
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"If I have a pop at someones status 1 If I dont 0 " haha | |||
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"We generally don't get a lot of mail out of nowhere, it's usually responses to forum posts or if we've winked/fabbed someone. " this is the same as us - we would mail you but too old | |||
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"Its quite often, when I'd be lucky to get even one in a week. The joy of living in nowhere land... I feel your pain! " Ah, you will understand the plight of the NE then.. I want to move South!! x | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " Compared to others fems I know that sure sounds low however have you thought it may be relative to your profile....no verifications and been on here over a year. A previous thread said most couples etc reading such would dismiss on that basis, harsh but appears true. | |||
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"Noone here had three hundred in a day yet? i often read in profiles that they cant reply to all messages as theres just not enough time to as they get far too many. just curious who gets that.amount as id like to copy their profile lol x" We have 300 unread in our box at the moment but we didn't get them all today lol. We do get lots everyday though and some people get very arsey when we don't reply x | |||
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds " be careful what you wish for ;o) | |||
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"Ok you don't need to show them that's your choice hence the veri summary is for but hey was offering a potential explanation based on another thread whereby if a single fem in that position people are very sceptical until proven otherwise I guess...." fair point, thanks | |||
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