FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys

Seem to spend hours just messaging and being able to find play mates..im new to this so any advice on my profile etc would be good..might be because im just pig ugly

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you'll meet tv/ts but say ur straight? Might confuse some people maybe?

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have a verification from a couple and your profile says you have had meets from other couples and singles, so if you can do all that in 5 weeks, I don't think you have a problem.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suddenly realised the other day that with these threads it's useful to know what the ops expectations are. It seems that these are normally at odds with the reality experienced by many of us who have been here a while.

So! Op, what did you expect when you joined and how has your experience thus far differed from that? If we know that we might be able to offer better advice

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest - too many negatives. I don't care that your 50, divorced with a few love handles I we all have our hang ups but I can find that out over time. My advice, imagine you are a shop window (shallow concept I know) but sell yourself. I want to know how you can rock my world. I want to read your best bits, funny, smart, loving, honest, exciting - use positive words - confidence attracts interest. This is 'Fab' and for many our fantasy world away from the mundane!!!