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How to confirm you're talking to a woman and not a man pretending?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can you tell that you're actually messaging a woman and not some sad guy pretending to be a woman?

Are their any questions that you could ask, something that only a woman would know the answer to?

Stupid question I know, but Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only talk to photo verified people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time (not all) if the person wants to talk dirty about all the things you'll do... it's a guy.

If they seem too good to be true (gorgeous 19 year old bi girl)... it's a guy.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Start a discussion on periods/stomach cramps. First one to leave the discussion is a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at the photos and the verifications as some will create another account. I seen one this morning who joined at 2 in the morning then got a verification 2 hours later by a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally seeing is believing!!!

Meet at a group social or club and cut out all the guess work.

Years ago we actually spoke to, what sounded like a woman....

Turned out to be a single male who either got a fem to speak on phone or was a very good impersonator!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I just look at the photos and the verifications as some will create another account. I seen one this morning who joined at 2 in the morning then got a verification 2 hours later by a meet!"

I have recommended the site to friends and verified them as soon as they have set up their profile. These are genuine verifications for people who I have met so the timing doesn't make them less accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New Women who join fab,

1 picture that looks like it was taken from another site and within a hour have 20 male friends,

Seen a few of them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I just look at the photos and the verifications as some will create another account. I seen one this morning who joined at 2 in the morning then got a verification 2 hours later by a meet!"

I got my first verification 5 minutes after I joined, because I'd met the guy via another site.

The obvious things aren't always the problem. People will say 'if they don't talk on the phone or go on cam', but I don't talk on the phone or go on cam, and I hope my veris show I am definitely a woman. I think the best thing is to trust your instinct, insist on a social meet, and eventually you'll get the knack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time (not all) if the person wants to talk dirty about all the things you'll do... it's a guy.

If they seem too good to be true (gorgeous 19 year old bi girl)... it's a guy."

this

You learn as you go.

For us we do most of our chatting in chatroom on other site.

We have cam on most of time so you can see it's us

We expect to see the people we talking to if they want to meet

I can tell within three words or so if it's a guy.

We're so predictable. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse when it's a woman you don't wanna meet anymore who's opened another profile just to get chatting again ,,,, simply sneaky and wrong

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Ask her what an indicator is.

If she knows, she's a bloke... simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her what an indicator is.

If she knows, she's a bloke... simples."

Or the offside rule ,,,,, !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On another site i used to chat in,

You would see a woman talking to a man and it is so obvious that it was the same person talking to themselves,

Used to make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time (not all) if the person wants to talk dirty about all the things you'll do... it's a guy.

If they seem too good to be true (gorgeous 19 year old bi girl)... it's a guy.

this

You learn as you go.

For us we do most of our chatting in chatroom on other site.

We have cam on most of time so you can see it's us

We expect to see the people we talking to if they want to meet

I can tell within three words or so if it's a guy.

We're so predictable. Lol"

Are the 3 words, "fancy a fuck" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you tell that you're actually messaging a woman and not some sad guy pretending to be a woman?

Are their any questions that you could ask, something that only a woman would know the answer to?

Stupid question I know, but Thank you."

Chat on cam, call them meet for a beer or a game of footie and check for hairy legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her to send you a picture of her cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you tell that you're actually messaging a woman and not some sad guy pretending to be a woman?

Are their any questions that you could ask, something that only a woman would know the answer to?

Stupid question I know, but Thank you."

Ask them to Skype cam with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a smidgen of intuitiveness about you, you can usually tell by there profile write up if they're a Wrong'un or not. But use the icons. Least you want to get in there first with the newbies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the fab chat rooms work ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cam or chat on the phone, but I can confirm that I am all woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't cam or chat on the phone, but I can confirm that I am all woman! "

Me too, I don't like to chat on the phone and I never cam. I'll also only give out my number if I've arranged a meet with someone and I don't rush into sharing my face pic, all if these things could be signs of a man posing as a woman or a mythical "timewaster" and I'm neither.

I think the more you use the site OP the more you'll get a feel for spotting non genuine profiles. If also highly recommend learning how to use google reverse image search it's a god send in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you really a man? Then ask them what temperature you should wash your delicates on. Or ask them what toxic shock syndrome is. If they don't know they are a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was accused by a guy on his fourth message that I was a guy having fun, when he kept on pestering me for my mobile number and I refused to give it to him. Not all women like to speak on the phone too early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really a man? Then ask them what temperature you should wash your delicates on. Or ask them what toxic shock syndrome is. If they don't know they are a bloke. "

My mum does my washing, I wouldn't have a clue what to wash my delicates on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really a man? Then ask them what temperature you should wash your delicates on. Or ask them what toxic shock syndrome is. If they don't know they are a bloke.

My mum does my washing, I wouldn't have a clue what to wash my delicates on "

I still think you're all woman

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