FabSwingers.com forum: hubbies trying to get their wives to play

By *ubicinch OP Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

dont know if I am right or wrong here but this is happening a lot I guess?

I message male half of couple who interested in me and talk about meeting, but the more you message, it appears that she is not really too interested, and its him that's the driving force. They dont seem to have had much success so far, and I have politely declined any further communication and said that I dont think it is going anywhere if she is not really up for it as such.. I know not to expect to play with everyone immediately and some may find they dont get on with me, etc, but I just feel situations like this are only going to go one way, and that is going to be nowhere... time to block and move on.

Do you think I did right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on sure, blocking is up to you. Neither of us needs any encouraging to play lol. Just more time

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By *ubicinch OP Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

also might add a lot being done/said without her knowing which just doesn't sit right with me. Maybe it wouldn't bother some, but it just doesn't sit right with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had contact from several couples along same lines. Often feel the wife doesn't even know.... Dreamers and best left alone....easy to spot early tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this, the male half just going on, nothing from the female, all about him.

We had a meet with a couple, the conversation got to how they got into this.

She told me " oh its him" she was just going along with it.

Later after getting home, I was offered to play with someone, god knows who, as in alone.

No thanks, why men make out their partner is interested, and the female just going along with it is beyond me.

They will never get anywhere, just block and move on.

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have come across this in many forms sometimes the man is the driving force and sometimes the woman and sometimes the person who wants it tries to set up a meeting where you surprise them

We would never, ever want to take things further with someone who wasn't a willing participant we're not into coercion and who would want to have sex with someone who didn't really want to do it?

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By *ubicinch OP Man
over a year ago

Gwynedd

yep, quite agree, someone not willing, its a dodgy ground to walk, although I think some desperate males could very well not consider that.

Also talk about getting a few beers in her which in the right way is fine to help people loosen up a bit, lose inhibitions, but in this context, again, I am glad I did the right thing.

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