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bit of advice please regarding " parties"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never been to a party and have read a little on here ,how do you get invites and what are the rules or are there different rules for each one? . I know some will take the Piss but I'd like some sensible answers please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been invited to 1 or 2 but always declined, guess I'd be 2 nervous to attend 1 but do wonder how it works..... Is it a free for all anything go's ? Is it protected sex ? To be honest will be interested to read replies myself and have all the facts xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been invited but then they don't have them round here and i can't travel and wouldn't go alone either. Did get offered to go to spa place once. Id like to know too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been to a party and have read a little on here ,how do you get invites and what are the rules or are there different rules for each one? . I know some will take the Piss but I'd like some sensible answers please. "

Unfortunately Kelly you will get pisstake but rise above it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been invited to quite a few and went to one recently. The rules are just go with the flow and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been to spa enjoyed that even though I'm shy and never thought I'd get naked in front of lots of others. I've thought about parties etc before but need more info .... Then I need an invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

universal rule: no thanks means no touch.

I've been to many parties and not played with people, we can surely all be friendly enough.

Having a laugh is way more important than getting a fuck..in my opinion.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

no still means no and condoms of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been to spa enjoyed that even though I'm shy and never thought I'd get naked in front of lots of others. I've thought about parties etc before but need more info .... Then I need an invite "

Your invites will pour in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are most of these parties made up off 2 or 3 women and random amounts of men invited to service them? Is that fact or fiction?

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We held a party at our home and have also been to a few.....rules are no different to a club really!

We've always really enjoyed them and have met some really great people

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Hun perhaps, add into your profile.. You welcome party invites, and believe me they will find you. One thing I will say do your homework. I do know of a couple who hold parties in lush surroundings, they omit to tell you until you arrive, they charge. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has been to and organised some - just ask the organiser what the rules are. Then remember each person/couple will have their own rules and that can be established in the social chat prior to any play. But always no means no and usually its always protected. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been invited to 1 or 2 but always declined, guess I'd be 2 nervous to attend 1 but do wonder how it works..... Is it a free for all anything go's ? Is it protected sex ? To be honest will be interested to read replies myself and have all the facts xx "

I'd say u gotta go!

Many people go to parties and dont even play..some play in private, or indeed might just end up meeting who they meet in the party at a later date.

this IS what swinging is about, regardless of gender or single/couple status.

the more people that use this site as a community, the better it will be.

Sometimes even a tolerance for people you do bnot wish to play with is needed(i.e I've met many TV's at pparties, had a good laugh and never needed to have any sexual contact with them),A no thanks doesnt have to be negative..if the humps taken, then perhaps its a need to grow up..

in my opinion.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone will look into this and who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We held a party at our home and have also been to a few.....rules are no different to a club really!

We've always really enjoyed them and have met some really great people

Mrs Dirty "
. Never tried a club either so unclear as to what the rules are to be honest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS - to get an invite just ask. Single fems almost invariably get a yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most of these parties made up off 2 or 3 women and random amounts of men invited to service them? Is that fact or fiction? "

I think u have read too much, best try an experience..there is no 'book'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We held a party at our home and have also been to a few.....rules are no different to a club really!

We've always really enjoyed them and have met some really great people

Mrs Dirty . Never tried a club either so unclear as to what the rules are to be honest lol "

Go to the club page on here, pick a club, click on their weblink, and read the rules page. Most clubs will have similar rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me "

I'd hold ur tits..I mean hand!!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

The same rules apply to parties as to swinging in general.

No means no, and in five years of regular partying I've never seen anyone do bareback.

Some parties are small intimate affairs, with half dozen folks, and others are huge, with 40 or more attending.

If you get an invite, I would say go, no-one can make you do anything you dont want, and at least you can say you tried.

The parties we have been to, the usual thing is that downstairs is for chatting, socialising and drinking, and the fun happens upstairs, (although in some of the smaller parties, things tend to get rather nawty downstairs too lol!).

We avoid any parties that ask for payment, the most we are willing to contribute is some food for the buffet, and a bottle for the host/ess, we are not interested in helping someone make a profit, although a couple of quid towards the cleaning bill for afterwards would be ok too if we were asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention."
. Would you say maybe trying a club 1st before a more intimate private party?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention.. Would you say maybe trying a club 1st before a more intimate private party? "

That's up to you. I attend clubs and parties and they tend to come out the same. A club might be a bit overwhelming but they are more 'anonymous' so you can lurk if you want to. A party is more intimate, but that can be a good thing as there are fewer people there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention.. Would you say maybe trying a club 1st before a more intimate private party? "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention.. Would you say maybe trying a club 1st before a more intimate private party? "

some private parties may give out a guest list..something a club wouldnt I think.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"some private parties may give out a guest list..something a club wouldnt I think."

Yeah, means I can avoid you...errrr...people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some private parties may give out a guest list..something a club wouldnt I think.

Yeah, means I can avoid you...errrr...people "

this made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had my first invite to a party, but i declined because I didn't want to go on my own!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself "

Socials are always a good way to dip your toe in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself "

Just go with the flow. I'm sure you'll enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have a look about in meets section and ask for an invite

You can put on your profile your interested in going to partys

Or like me get invites come to you anyway,i attended some smaller partys last year,through meeting someone who recommended a party and simply asked

I was invited to a Big organised party last october and met another organiser,went to theres,then another organiser,saw verification i did and poached me lol once you start going to them it opens alot of doors

Go with a fb if bit shy and unsure,no obbligation to play as like a club,its about being social too,and same rules as clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou definitely have a better idea an perspective on the whole club/party side of swinging. Read so much and its much different to what I initially thought I'm pleased to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me "

I'd love to go with you but impossible. I wouldn't let you be shy, soon get you talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some private parties may give out a guest list..something a club wouldnt I think.

Yeah, means I can avoid you...errrr...people "

oh u bitch..ur getting it next time..again lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself "

Your have a great time,i went to.a social last september there,it was brilliant,i did mingle but ran off mostly cant think why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me

I'd love to go with you but impossible. I wouldn't let you be shy, soon get you talking "
Awww thanks mandy....I just need to man up

Thanks for help everyone and those that have said about asking for invites etc .....I can't bring myself to do that as don't want to go on my own but will get to one one day again thank you everyone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"some private parties may give out a guest list..something a club wouldnt I think.

Yeah, means I can avoid you...errrr...people

oh u bitch..ur getting it next time..again lol xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me

I'd love to go with you but impossible. I wouldn't let you be shy, soon get you talking Awww thanks mandy....I just need to man up

Thanks for help everyone and those that have said about asking for invites etc .....I can't bring myself to do that as don't want to go on my own but will get to one one day again thank you everyone "

Welcome and you don't need to but some men do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been to two. party s one was. a b bbq. when i told them. i was. a chef i got a invit was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself "

You go to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest problem is I'm shy which won't help me

I'd love to go with you but impossible. I wouldn't let you be shy, soon get you talking Awww thanks mandy....I just need to man up

Thanks for help everyone and those that have said about asking for invites etc .....I can't bring myself to do that as don't want to go on my own but will get to one one day again thank you everyone "

You dont need to man up,just go with a fb or another woman,i have club buddys who wont go alone,but like to go with me,as shy but are fine once there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been invited but then they don't have them round here and i can't travel and wouldn't go alone either. Did get offered to go to spa place once. Id like to know too "
there is a huge party scene on the south coast especially from Bournemouth to Portsmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I host private parties at a club and play by club rules

Single girls are always welcome

Last party was for 45. Of which 13 was single guys. We restrict guys based on female numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are most of these parties made up off 2 or 3 women and random amounts of men invited to service them? Is that fact or fiction? "

I went to a house party, about 40 couples, quite a few fems and a select few single men. The men can only go if they've been verified by 2 couples x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going to the eureka ( or meant to be going ) social on the 17 th hoping to relax enough to enjoy myself "

It's my birthday on the 22nd so if I'm still going I'm hoping for a few early birthday pecks on the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been invited but then they don't have them round here and i can't travel and wouldn't go alone either. Did get offered to go to spa place once. Id like to know too "

Oh, they do have them around here. Just keep an eye on the Meets section. We are not really party people but we have met some lovely folk at meets which have turned into more intimate encounters at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every party is different. There might be a few women and hoards of men (they're usually call Greedy Girl parties), but the usual mix is mostly couples with a few single men and women thrown in to the mix.

I would say any group sex is going to be safe sex, but I am sure personal preferences are taken into account. People might just watch, or join in, or its a great big orgy. Sometimes nothing happens at all and you all just sit there chatting and sipping tea.

The best thing to do is discuss the set up with the organisers and when you turn up make sure you introduce yourself as new so the organisers know to show you around and maybe take you through any rules and regs. And no always means no, so unwanted contact should be brought to someones attention.. Would you say maybe trying a club 1st before a more intimate private party? "

A few of us ladies are going to a party at no3 in Chorley soon. PM me if you are interested in joining us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for the advice and help ,I'm hoping to still be going on the 17 th so will see how that goes if not will have to rethink my ideas

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with "
thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!."

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!."

Nothing wrong with wanting to fuck everything that moves.

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!"
keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all..."

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice."
blimey!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice."

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear

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By *he ProletariatMan
over a year ago

axminster


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear "

Ha ha - you know you don't mean that. Maybe that will be my party piece at the next social. Chell's knicker dance lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear

Ha ha - you know you don't mean that. Maybe that will be my party piece at the next social. Chell's knicker dance lol."

hussy!! why would this not surprise me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear

Ha ha - you know you don't mean that. Maybe that will be my party piece at the next social. Chell's knicker dance lol.

hussy!! why would this not surprise me!!! "

Join in when you know the moves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been to clubs but only played with the person I went with thats fine hun...not everyone wants to fuck everything that moves like sum people on here!.

What is wrong with fucking other people at clubs? Have I logged onto the Women's Institute forum by mistake ......again?!keep ya knickers on hun!.sum people like to shag everything whilst others are more selective,thats all...

All that comment was missing was an equally patronising 'calm down dear' said with the same amount of charm as Michael Winner. If people want to fuck others at clubs fine. Their choice and there is nothing wrong with that. If I want to take my knickers off and wave them around my head I will. If I want a gangbang with xxx number of men I will. My choice.

Pmsl at this... Yeah keep yer knickers on my dear

Ha ha - you know you don't mean that. Maybe that will be my party piece at the next social. Chell's knicker dance lol."

Calm down Dear SCP's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you ladies sling some of your confidence my way please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you ladies sling some of your confidence my way please "

On its way xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you ladies sling some of your confidence my way please "

Shame you are so far away. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"universal rule: no thanks means no touch.

I've been to many parties and not played with people, we can surely all be friendly enough.

Having a laugh is way more important than getting a fuck..in my opinion."

We've been to a few different ones and also hosted our own small parties. They are good fun. Even if we don't play with other people it's fun to watch.

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"universal rule: no thanks means no touch.

I've been to many parties and not played with people, we can surely all be friendly enough.

Having a laugh is way more important than getting a fuck..in my opinion.

We've been to a few different ones and also hosted our own small parties. They are good fun. Even if we don't play with other people it's fun to watch. "

That's all I did

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"universal rule: no thanks means no touch.

I've been to many parties and not played with people, we can surely all be friendly enough.

Having a laugh is way more important than getting a fuck..in my opinion.

We've been to a few different ones and also hosted our own small parties. They are good fun. Even if we don't play with other people it's fun to watch.

Paddy's all I did "

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over a year ago


"Could you ladies sling some of your confidence my way please

On its way xxxx"
thank you xx

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over a year ago


"Could you ladies sling some of your confidence my way please

Shame you are so far away. x"
thank you x

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over a year ago


"universal rule: no thanks means no touch.

I've been to many parties and not played with people, we can surely all be friendly enough.

Having a laugh is way more important than getting a fuck..in my opinion.

We've been to a few different ones and also hosted our own small parties. They are good fun. Even if we don't play with other people it's fun to watch.

Paddy's all I did "

Ha ha

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over a year ago

I love parties, I've attended large parties and more intimate gatherings. I have never once felt obliged to play with anyone I didn't want to, or any pressure.

I don't play with lots of men, its not my thing personally, Im more content with a threesome with my OH and another guy, but I like to be surrounded by other people having sex. I've never felt uneasy because I don't have sex with every man there. Parties are not just about sex, lots of chatting and laughing goes on, just like any other social gathering.

We have built up a network of friends who invite us to parties. Once you've attended a few then people get to know you a good guest and other invites follow.

But to get started on your first then look through the meets and message those that suit you

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