FabSwingers.com forum: Single men take note

By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

she could be telling us in the Lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx"

Single women take note, calling men a twat is unacceptable

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X"

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X"

Couldn't agree more.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it , "

no we are on a swingers site, theres a difference, to the op, I find it easier just to ignore these than get worked up about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an initial message then any of those names would be unacceptable,even if I knew someone I wouldn't accept being called a whore or a slag ever.....possibly slut and definately strumpet as it rolls off the tongue so deliciously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx"

I like being called all those things, with conviction.

I do know a lot of women hate being called girls (im not one but I prefer slut)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub slut please. But only from the right person and of course when being told to do something 'subby' and 'slutty'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol obvious troll msg

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it , "

We are on a swingers site, not a sex site, and swinging ladies deserve respect too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?"

I'd say so, but we're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx

Single women take note, calling men a twat is unacceptable "
that is only in the north. Twat means fuggall down here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?"

In a first message...Most definitely...sometimes the moment lends itself to a little bit of that if things have developed along those lines..

I always say that I don't mind being called a slut by somebody who doesn't actually think I am one...if that makes sense so I'd need to know them relatively well and the context for it to be acceptable to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?"

I don't mind the words slut and tart, I can tolerate whore too but not as keen (and all when said by someone I know and not as an introduction!) but for some reason I hate the word Slag. Can't explain why it seems different, maybe it's the tone of it or maybe I associate it with being called a fat slag, dunno, but I just don't like it at all...it's one of the few words that make me cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all those words sound so much different in spoken language :D i guess if it's written it is kind of loosing it's appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notes taken. Thanks OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I was going wrong somewhere, is an opening message of "hi slag, slut, tart, whore, lets fuck" not ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx

Single women take note, calling men a twat is unacceptable "

I called a man I only met last night a twat but I was a little d*unk and it was said jokingly. He was fine with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use any of these words in a first message,

But after getting to know someone and if they like it then slut whore tart even bitch but i don't like slag,

But that's just my opinion

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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I knew I was going wrong somewhere, is an opening message of "hi slag, slut, tart, whore, lets fuck" not ok?

Take the slag off n the rest is fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew I was going wrong somewhere, is an opening message of "hi slag, slut, tart, whore, lets fuck" not ok?

Take the slag off n the rest is fine x"

I'm a total slag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it , "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew I was going wrong somewhere, is an opening message of "hi slag, slut, tart, whore, lets fuck" not ok?

Take the slag off n the rest is fine x"

Got it, now i'm sure to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me what you like

Just dont call me too fuckin early

Twatty Bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an initial message then any of those names would be unacceptable,even if I knew someone I wouldn't accept being called a whore or a slag ever.....possibly slut and definately strumpet as it rolls off the tongue so deliciously

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Yes a strumpet sounds better or even a roly poly...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?

In a first message...Most definitely...sometimes the moment lends itself to a little bit of that if things have developed along those lines..

love it when you're slutty hunny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?"

This ^^^^^^

Any first message that is wholly derogatory is a no for me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx"

Okay, just be clear

acceptable: slut, tart and whore?

Unacceptable: Slag

Please explain why is this?

an as well what if I used the words:

Bitch, hoe, slapper, where do they categorise in your

accept an un-accept book?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx"

I would not even class slut. Tart whore acceptable tbh. Anyone who does gets short shrifted..... Friends or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you say slut, tart and whore are acceptable? Are they not just as bad?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol pretty fun msg they used, I use the lines of..... Hi nice tits, fancy a 10min cum dump quicky tonnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

We are on a swingers site, not a sex site, and swinging ladies deserve respect too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of these words are acceptable on an opening line x once you're familiar with each other that's a different ball game. ..name play can be fun but it's rude and arrogant as an opener. ..thoughts?

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Ooooh not heard strumpet in quite a while... Gonna use that in my next story!

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

I know I have a bit of a sense of humour, I like to try and be happy go lucky in my communication, but I had a lady call me a total buffoon the other week! That's a first. I'll try and be more serious next time!

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it , "

You my friend are the issue with single men and this site! This isn't a sex site this is a community of people with a kink, nobody no matter what site be it a knitting site or a swinging site should be rude or offensive to strangers! There is no need for it and quite frankly I don't see why you should think it's a acceptable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of these words are acceptable on an opening line x once you're familiar with each other that's a different ball game. ..name play can be fun but it's rude and arrogant as an opener. ..thoughts? "

Agreed.... Only time its acceptable to me is during sex. And its being whispered in my ear.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

sits down with pen and paper to make notes on what not to say as an opening line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sits down with pen and paper to make notes on what not to say as an opening line

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I know that you know ....how to write a decent message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls love it...I often start my message with cheery

'word up slaaaaaaag!'

Then i really turn the charm up..

How's about I slam my third leg up your shitbox you randy little tart and then whip it out and splatter my man milk all over your greedy mosh...

You can't tell me that's not got your legs trembling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls love it...I often start my message with cheery

'word up slaaaaaaag!'

Then i really turn the charm up..

How's about I slam my third leg up your shitbox you randy little tart and then whip it out and splatter my man milk all over your greedy mosh...

You can't tell me that's not got your legs trembling...

x"
What about...

"take me up the back passage and then stick your poker in my gob and give me a chocolate milkshake"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opps that wasn't very ladylike was it

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"sits down with pen and paper to make notes on what not to say as an opening line

I know that you know ....how to write a decent message

awww you say the sweetest things kind lady xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I call all the floozies I message "sugartits"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm assuming that most men would be happy to be called the following in a message: wanker, slimeball, pimp, bumboy, fag, tosser?? Because they seem to be the male equivalent to calling women the slang words for prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm assuming that most men would be happy to be called the following in a message: wanker, slimeball, pimp, bumboy, fag, tosser?? Because they seem to be the male equivalent to calling women the slang words for prostitute

You know my ex-wife then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew I was going wrong somewhere, is an opening message of "hi slag, slut, tart, whore, lets fuck" not ok?

That would work a whole lot better if you insert obliques, it's more like a multiple choice then.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx"

You're not speaking for this "girl"! I find all of the above offensive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx

You're not speaking for this "girl"! I find all of the above offensive.

As a woman I find the term girl used to describe me offensive along with all those mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with polite introductions and kind comments. Some single guys struggle to get a reply.

Just because we have been here a while and not had any physical contact or verification recently does not mean we are not genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know my ex-wife then!

slag is an accepted word in the dictionary

" slagslag/"noun"****

* 1.stony waste matter separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ore."the burning liquid iron was forming a scum of slag"

* "verb"**********

* 1.produce deposits of slag."the furnace burns at a minimum temperature to reduce slagging"

* 2.BRITISHinformalcriticize (someone) in an abusive and insulting manner."my girlfriend was always *slagging* him*off*""

So unless your talking about metal or wanting to insult some1 don't use the term!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

no we are on a swingers site, theres a difference"

that's right,swingers don't have sex,they have swings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

no we are on a swingers site, theres a difference

that's right,swingers don't have sex,they have swings

weeeeeeeeeee "higher please"

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

no we are on a swingers site, theres a difference

that's right,swingers don't have sex,they have swings

very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone called me any of the above they would be blocked and deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys struggle to get meets so I hear?

Here's a tip, sending a message saying "how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" is not the way to go about it,

For the twat who messaged this to my single friend there's something you should know about women:

Slut

Tart

Whore even is acceptable

Slag is totally unacceptable!

Girls am I right?

Julie (aka tart. Slut n even whore on occasion) xxx

I like being called all those things, with conviction.

I do know a lot of women hate being called girls (im not one but I prefer slut)

I (H) find 'girl' incredibly patronising and disrespectful, particularly from people I don't know. The one and only time it is ok is when C and I are having a bit of role play fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about cunt? Can we use cunt? I like that word. Especially from a woman

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I really do think people take swinging & fabswingers far too seriously.

Someone you've never met or are ever likely to meet & someone who means absolutely nothing to you calls you names in an email. Other than block & delete, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

First & foremost, this is a swinging site for sex. There is no single formula guaranteed to get you a meet.

And I think far too much is being made about being nice, polite, courteous, rude, impolite, etc, etc

You can be as polite as Mother Theresa & as civil as the queen, if you like. If you've got nothing anyone wants or can't find someone who fancies the little you have, you'll never get a meet.

Likewise, if you're drop dead gorgeous and have something in high demand, you can be as rude as you like and you'll still have people falling over themselves to meet.

If I got a penny for every female or couples profile I came across that sounded self centered, obnoxious, agressive and downright rude, I'll have a tidy sum in the bank.

I'm sure there are women who like being called slags, even in a first email. It may sound crude and unusual but I've never heard of anyone getting a meet just because they're very polite.

Rudeness or politeness have got little to do with it ultimately.

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

All those terms are disrespectful.

They only become sexy and acceptable if said by the right ppl on the right context and situation.

The OP was referring to initial contact - therefore we agree it is rude to use them terms with someone you have never met or spoken too but same terms maybe ok after a meeting or few messages exchanged.

We have had a few ppl message us saying

"Would love to fuck your paki whore wife"

Now! Really is that going to get them scum guys a meeting? Erm no don't think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls love it...I often start my message with cheery

'word up slaaaaaaag!'

Then i really turn the charm up..

How's about I slam my third leg up your shitbox you randy little tart and then whip it out and splatter my man milk all over your greedy mosh...

You can't tell me that's not got your legs trembling...

Im trembling!.......with laughter

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

""how do you fancy a big fat cock in you ya dirty slag" "

He sent you that, seriously? That is awful! 'How' should have a capital H and there should be a comma after 'you'. Delete and block him. You deserve better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men really start of with things like that. My concern would be, it's obviously worked before or they are really that rude.

Totally. If you've met & played a few times & that kind of talk is agreed by both then fair play

Otherwise, how very rude!!! X

Dear god your on a sex site, get over it ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about cunt? Can we use cunt? I like that word. Especially from a woman

I enjoy cunt, hearing it and saying it.

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