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"Monogamy sucks  "I like to suck | |||
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"Monogamy sucks
I like to suck "Mmmmmmmm..... | |||
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"Monogamy sucks
I like to suck "Me too, variety is the spice of life  | |||
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"Monogamy sucks
I like to suck
Mmmmmmmm....."mmm mmm mmmmmmmnnnnnnnnn | |||
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"Monogamy sucks
I like to suck
Me too, variety is the spice of life "Isn't it just....soooooooo many loverly people...soooooooooo little time...but I'm a working on it | |||
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"Monogamy sucks
I like to suck
Me too, variety is the spice of life
Isn't it just....soooooooo many loverly people...soooooooooo little time...but I'm a working on it "Way too little time... | |||
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"I agree with what you are saying, i get no end of guys i meet saying they are looking for someone within the swinging scene to settle down with yet still swing with, i guess thats not quite what your getting but it comes down to the same, peoples lack of understanding that I DONT WANT A PARTNER lol and lots of guys just dont get that, i think its worse for women because you get poeple saying you should settle down and i get people just assuming thats what im on here looking for, and its not, i've been married, ive swung as a couple, i've split up. i swing as a single (tho to be honest i dont class myself as a swinger lol) im happy as i am, im not looking for a man in my life and a hell of a lot of people just dont get that, some people just cant understand that not everyone has that need to be with someone" im with you ...did the monogamy thing for 32 yrs and was TOTALLY faithful never again ...i love not being monogamous!!! | |||
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"Correct me if I'm wrong. Isn't swinging all about variety. If you want to settle down and be monogomous then go to Match.com or some other form of dating agency and not an adult swinging site. We are all here for variety. We enjoy the thrill that the Swinging community brings, no hang ups etc. Monogomy is not worth a fuck" basically what he said!! monogamy bores me, i cant commit to a full relationship iv not got the time or inclination or the emotional capability! and anyway where is it written you NEED to have a partner to be complete! xx | |||
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" Monogomy is not worth a fuck" I agree! Did it for far too long and cant imagine having just one guy in my life any more. I get pity from my friends and the usual "ahhh, you'll find someone" and even when I say I'm happier single, they think I'm just saving face...so I don't even try any more. I cant think of one of my friends that's in a happy or stable monogomous relationship...I can think of a few where their partners have been wholly innapropriate towards me and i think "so, this is the alternative to single huh?" btw...match.com???...guess you wont be surprised to hear that there are a few that use it to find vulnerable singles, fuck them then move on...I know this as my friend is a member and I've lost count on how many times it's happened to her! | |||
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"Having a partner doesn’t make you become monogamous though, if that was the case there would be no couples here, and from a couples point of view, sharing all the variety, and having a soul mate who I connect with, is way more fun than when I was single. As for manogamy not being worth a fuck, I could honestly give up meeting people tomorrow and not look back, its an extension to our sex life not a must have, I honestly believe that if a person cant be manogamous if they wanted to be, then they are just with the wrong partner, and sorry if this offends some people, it wasnt mean to, as i do understand some people take swinging far to seriously and let it dictate there lives, just pointing out we as well as many others see it as a hobby and a little addition and variety to our sex life." personaly i dont look at swinging as not beeing manogamy, let me explain, we only ever play as a couple and are uterly into each other, we use swinging to spice up an already great sex life , not sure ive made my point very well but in sure you get the jist | |||
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"personaly i dont look at swinging as not beeing manogamy, let me explain, we only ever play as a couple and are uterly into each other, we use swinging to spice up an already great sex life , not sure ive made my point very well but in sure you get the jist" monogamy means only having one partner pologamy means having more than one. it's not about being faithful or unfaithful | |||
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"Over the years, every now and then I come across a lady (a different one, not the same lady) that either: 1) isn't looking to "swing" but rather wants just one playmate as she "can't stand the incestuousness of shagging different people" and hence "couldn't shag me as I shag around" or 2) thinks I should "settle down with a girlfriend instead of shagging around as I'm not getting any younger" So I guess my question(s) are: 1) What is it with people looking for "the one to complete them" on the swing scene whilst actively judging those that 2do what it says on the tin"? No offence but would a dating site not be better? 2) Why do people assume I'm looking for a girlfriend? I did it for 6 years straight out of university, got the t-shirt and now want my fun that I didn't have back then
Oh yeah... Morning All ! "Maybe she just wants you all to herself? There are people who just like to control and have things just as they like. They think they have the right idea and what you want isn't good for you. | |||
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"Over the years, every now and then I come across a lady (a different one, not the same lady) that either: 1) isn't looking to "swing" but rather wants just one playmate as she "can't stand the incestuousness of shagging different people" and hence "couldn't shag me as I shag around" or 2) thinks I should "settle down with a girlfriend instead of shagging around as I'm not getting any younger" So I guess my question(s) are: 1) What is it with people looking for "the one to complete them" on the swing scene whilst actively judging those that 2do what it says on the tin"? No offence but would a dating site not be better? 2) Why do people assume I'm looking for a girlfriend? I did it for 6 years straight out of university, got the t-shirt and now want my fun that I didn't have back then
Oh yeah... Morning All !
Maybe she just wants you all to herself? There are people who just like to control and have things just as they like. They think they have the right idea and what you want isn't good for you."Lol, if only - she's not into black guys ... hahahaha | |||
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I was married for 24 years, faithfull. If I stayed married the likelihood is my husband would have been the only man I slept with.
Now I play with a small group of people, we don't meet often as we all have demanding jobs, so our playtime is still fun and each one brings something new and exciting to my party.
My friends don't know I swing but know I meet men via the internet and assume I'm looking for "the one"! When I say I'm just out for fun I know they feel sorry for me and think I'm "fronting".
All we can do is continue playing with like minded people and leave others to visit heartandflowers.com!  | |||
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"I think some people have a strange idea about swinging. One guy said to me he could see I was "busy", too busy for him!! He wanted me to stop seeing other people, yet we're both on a swinging site!
I was married for 24 years, faithfull. If I stayed married the likelihood is my husband would have been the only man I slept with.
Now I play with a small group of people, we don't meet often as we all have demanding jobs, so our playtime is still fun and each one brings something new and exciting to my party.
My friends don't know I swing but know I meet men via the internet and assume I'm looking for "the one"! When I say I'm just out for fun I know they feel sorry for me and think I'm "fronting".
All we can do is continue playing with like minded people and leave others to visit heartandflowers.com! "I know what you mean by people saying you're "busy" - there's a lady that's told me the same thing (if only she knew its been almost 3 weeks for me... geez!) The whole concept of "lockdown" (one party wanting another party to be exclusive to them, even though they neither guarantee being there 24/7 nor do they offer or promise being likewise exclusive in return) disgusts me. | |||
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"I think some people have a strange idea about swinging. One guy said to me he could see I was "busy", too busy for him!! He wanted me to stop seeing other people, yet we're both on a swinging site!
I was married for 24 years, faithfull. If I stayed married the likelihood is my husband would have been the only man I slept with.
Now I play with a small group of people, we don't meet often as we all have demanding jobs, so our playtime is still fun and each one brings something new and exciting to my party.
My friends don't know I swing but know I meet men via the internet and assume I'm looking for "the one"! When I say I'm just out for fun I know they feel sorry for me and think I'm "fronting".
All we can do is continue playing with like minded people and leave others to visit heartandflowers.com!
I know what you mean by people saying you're "busy" - there's a lady that's told me the same thing (if only she knew its been almost 3 weeks for me... geez!)
The whole concept of "lockdown" (one party wanting another party to be exclusive to them, even though they neither guarantee being there 24/7 nor do they offer or promise being likewise exclusive in return) disgusts me."Three weeks?!! You shouldn't be on here you timewaster lol!
Makes you wonder about some people. They're also the type that want to know details of your previous meets too!  | |||
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"I think some people have a strange idea about swinging. One guy said to me he could see I was "busy", too busy for him!! He wanted me to stop seeing other people, yet we're both on a swinging site!
I was married for 24 years, faithfull. If I stayed married the likelihood is my husband would have been the only man I slept with.
Now I play with a small group of people, we don't meet often as we all have demanding jobs, so our playtime is still fun and each one brings something new and exciting to my party.
My friends don't know I swing but know I meet men via the internet and assume I'm looking for "the one"! When I say I'm just out for fun I know they feel sorry for me and think I'm "fronting".
All we can do is continue playing with like minded people and leave others to visit heartandflowers.com!
I know what you mean by people saying you're "busy" - there's a lady that's told me the same thing (if only she knew its been almost 3 weeks for me... geez!)
The whole concept of "lockdown" (one party wanting another party to be exclusive to them, even though they neither guarantee being there 24/7 nor do they offer or promise being likewise exclusive in return) disgusts me.
Three weeks?!!
You shouldn't be on here you timewaster lol!
Makes you wonder about some people. They're also the type that want to know details of your previous meets too! "Lol, not for lack of trying (the body is VERY willing! )
Don't scare me - one "lady" actually wanted a list of everyone I had played with. I asked her "Alphabetically or chronologically?"... then blocked her. | |||
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but totally respect the couples who have got the soul mate with the ability to add am accesory to great sex lifes and not get all jealous about it thats a difficult thing to do x | |||
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"we think we ARE monogamous, as we only love each other, sleep only with each other every night, and, if we never shagged anyone else again, would be happy. However, we swing to have sex with other people, for nsa fun, but dont see it as a barrier or complication to remaining faithful to each other. We agree that to try and source a life partner from singles on a swinging site seems plain daft though! "As monogomay is having only one sexual partner - I don't understand how you can be on a swinging site shagging other people and remain monogamous...!! | |||
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" As monogomay is having only one sexual partner - I don't understand how you can be on a swinging site shagging other people and remain monogamous...!! "In a literal, dictionary sense you are right, but in an emotive sense, we choose to interpret the word as being faithful and committed to one person. | |||
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"I think some people have a strange idea about swinging. One guy said to me he could see I was "busy", too busy for him!! He wanted me to stop seeing other people, yet we're both on a swinging site!
I was married for 24 years, faithfull. If I stayed married the likelihood is my husband would have been the only man I slept with.
Now I play with a small group of people, we don't meet often as we all have demanding jobs, so our playtime is still fun and each one brings something new and exciting to my party.
My friends don't know I swing but know I meet men via the internet and assume I'm looking for "the one"! When I say I'm just out for fun I know they feel sorry for me and think I'm "fronting".
All we can do is continue playing with like minded people and leave others to visit heartandflowers.com!
I know what you mean by people saying you're "busy" - there's a lady that's told me the same thing (if only she knew its been almost 3 weeks for me... geez!)
The whole concept of "lockdown" (one party wanting another party to be exclusive to them, even though they neither guarantee being there 24/7 nor do they offer or promise being likewise exclusive in return) disgusts me.
Three weeks?!!
You shouldn't be on here you timewaster lol!
Makes you wonder about some people. They're also the type that want to know details of your previous meets too!
Lol, not for lack of trying (the body is VERY willing! )
Don't scare me - one "lady" actually wanted a list of everyone I had played with. I asked her "Alphabetically or chronologically?"... then blocked her."C..stands for Cheekycurves...hehe... | |||
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" As monogomay is having only one sexual partner - I don't understand how you can be on a swinging site shagging other people and remain monogamous...!!
In a literal, dictionary sense you are right, but in an emotive sense, we choose to interpret the word as being faithful and committed to one person. "Aaaah, poetic license...gotcha!! | |||
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