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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just like to ask any ladys what would you say that attracts you more to a mans profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "

yes it does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will have to get some on my profile then

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like this? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by majority of profiles you need:

No face pic

A cock pick from a flattering angle

A cock pick with a sky remote/ can/ deodorant

A list of what you want rather than what you can offer

A brief description of how hard you can pound pussy/ass

Aw hinge about why you get no meets

Seems to be what so many single guys think will work for them!

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By *ornyguy414uMan
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

I have my torso pic on profile but doesn't seem to catch the eye !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

id say a lot of the time its if the woman finds you attracted

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

A nice torso/ back/ bum pic is good - but what I like to see are words -enough of them to show a sense of humour and an idea of personality. No 'fill this in later', 'just ask' or going on about their oral prowess or ability to make any woman squirt And no useless disclaimers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice torso lovely smile and gorgeous eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice torso/ back/ bum pic is good - but what I like to see are words -enough of them to show a sense of humour and an idea of personality. No 'fill this in later', 'just ask' or going on about their oral prowess or ability to make any woman squirt And no useless disclaimers!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight talk,no silly jokes. Pics don't matter on actual profile but like to see a face pic if we are talking. I like a laid back character who doesn't flatter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight talk,no silly jokes. Pics don't matter on actual profile but like to see a face pic if we are talking. I like a laid back character who doesn't flatter "

i think charm n attention r the key

n if that fails use ice cream

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

banans cake I agree , I read lots of profiles an people are bragging , or just got no face pics up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be original, if you're going to message someone take time to read their profile and not just go straight into "hi you want to come round for a shag?"! Face pic and a nice torso pic is a good thing and don't brag!

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By *imon3369Man
over a year ago

york

try no bullshit it seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X

Hmmmm"
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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Torso pictures are the key then.

I'll have to look into that.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X

Hmmmm (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like this? lol "

yes like this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree you must read the persons profile , well the ones that dnt musnt be that fussy who they are meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good pics of either face, body, or bum...no cock pics

A good sense of humour...but not a sense of entitlement

A well worded, easy to read text in plain old English...no text speak or glaringly obvious grammatical errors/spelling faux pas

These are my key ingredients to a good profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ill have to get some more pics done an get them up

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Quickly changes profile picture,

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


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A well worded, easy to read text in plain old English...no text speak or glaringly obvious grammatical errors/spelling faux pas

"

Oh yes - definitely this! :D

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


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A well worded, easy to read text in plain old English...no text speak or glaringly obvious grammatical errors/spelling faux pas

Oh yes - definitely this! :D "

With an inky torso pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes. I better sort out my photos then!!

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

A sense of humour... A face pic you can send if you can't display one on your public pics and prefably one with a happy face and not one that looks like its going to appear on crimewatch soon!!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol I look like im gna be on crime watch what ever way I look ha haa

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"lol I look like im gna be on crime watch what ever way I look ha haa "

Lmfao.. I didn't mean u!

Did I!?!? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"banans cake I agree , I read lots of profiles an people are bragging , or just got no face pics up"

no face pics is fine. Not everyone here is discrete. One in private is enough

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd


"A nice torso/ back/ bum pic is good - but what I like to see are words -enough of them to show a sense of humour and an idea of personality. No 'fill this in later', 'just ask' or going on about their oral prowess or ability to make any woman squirt And no useless disclaimers!"
i have this in abundance and have been told one of the best profiles ever read, but it still doesn't work that well. Some people don't have much sense of humour or imagination, hence their blank profiles and one line messages.. I get it all the time. It's hard enough to keep a conversation flowing as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just like to ask any ladys what would you say that attracts you more to a mans profile ? "

Has to be what lynx can he uses against his cock or if he's tight and only has a sky box remote and not sky +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talking to people in a nice way helps

I don't get why some guys seem to abuse folk that turn them down!

I think a lot of guys sign up here think that there are a million dripping wet horny bitches waiting to ride their cocks like porn bitches.

Of course there are none, well maybe one or two, but most are just really normal girls and wish to be treated in the same way you would if you were trying to catch a girls eye in any normal situation.

PEACE, LOVE, UNITY

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "
thanks just put some more pics up ha haa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol I look like im gna be on crime watch what ever way I look ha haa

Lmfao.. I didn't mean u!

Did I!?!? lol x"
lol no I know you didn't but I have been told it quite a few times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"banans cake I agree , I read lots of profiles an people are bragging , or just got no face pics up

no face pics is fine. Not everyone here is discrete. One in private is enough "
just a face pic helps I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just like to ask any ladys what would you say that attracts you more to a mans profile ? "

Photocopies of bank statements

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just like to ask any ladys what would you say that attracts you more to a mans profile ?

Photocopies of bank statements "
lmao ye you got the right idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice friendly smiley face pic, if not in public gallery then attached to message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol I look like im gna be on crime watch what ever way I look ha haa

Lmfao.. I didn't mean u!

Did I!?!? lol x"
lol do I then ha haa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A nice friendly smiley face pic, if not in public gallery then attached to message"
yes a nice smile goes a long way

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just talking to people in a nice way helps

I don't get why some guys seem to abuse folk that turn them down!

I think a lot of guys sign up here think that there are a million dripping wet horny bitches waiting to ride their cocks like porn bitches.

Of course there are none, well maybe one or two, but most are just really normal girls and wish to be treated in the same way you would if you were trying to catch a girls eye in any normal situation.

PEACE, LOVE, UNITY

"

Exactly, and yes, that's exactly what a lot of men believe when they come here it seems - you can tell from their attitude - 'Here it is, nice and hard, jump on ladies!' And then they are incredulous when we don't oblige!

I often wonder what the 'word on the street' is about fabs, it is obviously gaining some notoriety like POF did I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just talking to people in a nice way helps

I don't get why some guys seem to abuse folk that turn them down!

I think a lot of guys sign up here think that there are a million dripping wet horny bitches waiting to ride their cocks like porn bitches.

Of course there are none, well maybe one or two, but most are just really normal girls and wish to be treated in the same way you would if you were trying to catch a girls eye in any normal situation.

PEACE, LOVE, UNITY

Exactly, and yes, that's exactly what a lot of men believe when they come here it seems - you can tell from their attitude - 'Here it is, nice and hard, jump on ladies!' And then they are incredulous when we don't oblige!

I often wonder what the 'word on the street' is about fabs, it is obviously gaining some notoriety like POF did I think."

Smiles and tries to catch Frisky Mare's eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what attracts a man to a womans profile eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lots of cock pics "
carnt be to nice I agree

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Nice pics, varied and imaginative, not cheating, decent write up that catches attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice pics, varied and imaginative, not cheating, decent write up that catches attention."
yes I agree , an not many people go into much detail about there selfs realy which is a bit of a put off I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what attracts a man to a womans profile eh?

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well id say a good profile write up about them selfs , the way they look , an the things that they are into

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just talking to people in a nice way helps

I don't get why some guys seem to abuse folk that turn them down!

I think a lot of guys sign up here think that there are a million dripping wet horny bitches waiting to ride their cocks like porn bitches.

Of course there are none, well maybe one or two, but most are just really normal girls and wish to be treated in the same way you would if you were trying to catch a girls eye in any normal situation.

PEACE, LOVE, UNITY

Exactly, and yes, that's exactly what a lot of men believe when they come here it seems - you can tell from their attitude - 'Here it is, nice and hard, jump on ladies!' And then they are incredulous when we don't oblige!

I often wonder what the 'word on the street' is about fabs, it is obviously gaining some notoriety like POF did I think.

Smiles and tries to catch Frisky Mare's eye "

Haha, you'll have a job from 180 miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a 6 pack like mine lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like profile text that is funny. My kind of funny.

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By *laction manMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I disagree, I have all these things in my profile and don't really get much joy on here. I have most of my meets from clubs as opposed to online meets

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I think it's worth noting women have differing preferences and will prefer different profile styles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bloody large cock! Deny it all u want women it does I bet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked why i have a pic of my bot bot as avitar, isnt it obvious ? You women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be original, if you're going to message someone take time to read their profile and not just go straight into "hi you want to come round for a shag?"! Face pic and a nice torso pic is a good thing and don't brag! "

I quite agree....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's worth noting women have differing preferences and will prefer different profile styles x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be original, if you're going to message someone take time to read their profile and not just go straight into "hi you want to come round for a shag?"! Face pic and a nice torso pic is a good thing and don't brag!

I quite agree.... "
I agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that blue thing speedos lol - loose it??

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over a year ago

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "

I need to get myself one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that blue thing speedos lol - loose it??"
never owned a pair of speeedoes an never will lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, no bs, face pics available to send and being a genuine nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Torso, bum and face pic, check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "
I got one lol x

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"A nice torso/ back/ bum pic is good - but what I like to see are words -enough of them to show a sense of humour and an idea of personality. No 'fill this in later', 'just ask' or going on about their oral prowess or ability to make any woman squirt And no useless disclaimers!"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big friendly smile!

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By *rinterestingMan
over a year ago

London

Hmm Torso pics? face pic?

Yay I have those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a torso pic and face pic for friends or in messages. Think you just need to be yourself and honest in your messages and profile.

So does my profile pic work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of arty filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight talk,no silly jokes. Pics don't matter on actual profile but like to see a face pic if we are talking. I like a laid back character who doesn't flatter "

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide it, keeps the air of mystery going...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice torso pic usually gets my attention X "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

You need the H factor fella,

Honesty

Humour

Hung like a horse*

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*not very important ,,, its for the fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know how you hang a horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just like to ask any ladys what would you say that attracts you more to a mans profile ? "

Nice pictures of chest, bum, partly clothed, bum, boxers, dim I mention bum? and a nicely written profile that says a bit about you and what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've not tried all of the above

I'm guessing as I've just gone into a different age bracket it's not helping my cause now lol

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Can't say I've not tried all of the above

I'm guessing as I've just gone into a different age bracket it's not helping my cause now lol "

Wait til you drop into the next one... Then you'll hear the silence.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

i cant remember having gone for a trawl through guys profiles (tho I'm sure I must have done once or twice)

so I can only recommend that if you message, pick out and connect with something in their profile or status. (do they play xbox... ps... watching a sport game... going for a night out... meal..)

thats what usually has worked for me. a guy has messaged me after ive posted something like that, then i've been more tempted to look at their profile. then between their witty message / more than 20 word profile, they usually get a message back :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i cant remember having gone for a trawl through guys profiles (tho I'm sure I must have done once or twice)

so I can only recommend that if you message, pick out and connect with something in their profile or status. (do they play xbox... ps... watching a sport game... going for a night out... meal..) I totally agree with you there

thats what usually has worked for me. a guy has messaged me after ive posted something like that, then i've been more tempted to look at their profile. then between their witty message / more than 20 word profile, they usually get a message back :D

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"A nice torso/ back/ bum pic is good - but what I like to see are words -enough of them to show a sense of humour and an idea of personality. No 'fill this in later', 'just ask' or going on about their oral prowess or ability to make any woman squirt And no useless disclaimers!"

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