FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering. If I booked and paid for a suite at a nice hotel then posted a party on here what kind of reaction I would get..... Been thinking about it for a while but hope to gain some guidance from all you nice people

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Well, not sure, you're not exactly what I would class as a swinger, more of a cheat really, however, that's purely my own opinion. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing away from home a dont think you'll get much of a response really if your married not many will have anything to do with a cheat . Cheating on a partner isn't what swinging is all about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

opps looks like ive been caught by the moral police,,,, there are lots here who do what im doing, Im just up front about it.

Funny thing is, when ive played at swingers clubs with a fb the marital question never comes up,,, just an observation,,also commenting about my "cheat" status is judgemental when you dont know anything about my background,,, I thought swingers were openminded and non judgemental,,, youll be picking meets over what car they drive next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinks one shouldn't post if one doesn't like replys maybe. Alll swingers are open minded ppl we would say open minded not cheats there's a diffrence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

dont mind the replies, in fact sadly expected it,, was kind of hopping to get some feed back on my original question tho before the "police" busted me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with the OP,at least he is being honest about his marital status and people will know that they are meeting a married man.. And there are people on here that will meet married men(we dont)

He wasnt asking about what people thought about him cheating on here,he was simply asking about a hotel party.

To the OP,i wouldnt go booking a room as personally think it will be a waste of money,we wouldnt attend a party invite from a man who only has one verifactaion and no pics on profile and we wouldnt meet a married man playing away from home.

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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok lets not go down the whole picking on a persons profile just because it doesn't suit you.

The OP wasn't asking for his profile to be dissected or discussed, he just asked a question.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP......I would do the arranging before you book anything.

Put a post in the meet section and see if you get any interest first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok lets not go down the whole picking on a persons profile just because it doesn't suit you.

The OP wasn't asking for his profile to be dissected or discussed, he just asked a question."
.... & he got a reply to his Q so moving on

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"Just wondering. If I booked and paid for a suite at a nice hotel then posted a party on here what kind of reaction I would get..... Been thinking about it for a while but hope to gain some guidance from all you nice people"

I think most people would have to at least chat with you for a short while to see just how genuine they feel you are .

Firstly there is the thought of turning up at a room with possibility of it not being booked.

Secondly - personally would need to know names of other possible people going to be there - trust issues especially if I was expected to show as a single fem.

If you do go ahead with it I wish you luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinks one shouldn't post if one doesn't like replys maybe. Alll swingers are open minded ppl we would say open minded not cheats there's a diffrence.

not strictly true...as the saying goes "the world is full of married men". I've discovered a lot of 'single' (no, really I am....but would you ignore me if i wasn't?)men on here...the difference is, this one is open about it.

I agree with the op, we don't know his circumstances. I have a friend who has an fb, his wife has ms and he loves her dearly and wouldnt tell her for fear of hurting her, but he is human and has needs that sadly, she can no longer fulfill.

I'd never dream of judging him for that...nor anyone else. Being on a site like this I don't feel like I have a right to sit as judge.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Thinks one shouldn't post if one doesn't like replys maybe. Alll swingers are open minded ppl we would say open minded not cheats there's a diffrence.

I'd never dream of judging him for that...nor anyone else. Being on a site like this I don't feel like I have a right to sit as judge."

Well said that lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for all the advice, will ponder some more on it and let you know. I just think it will make a nice change from a club and may be a bit more intimate?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Cheers for all the advice, will ponder some more on it and let you know. I just think it will make a nice change from a club and may be a bit more intimate?"

I am sure it would, but it would be silly I think to book anything without finding people who want to play first.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Cheers for all the advice, will ponder some more on it and let you know. I just think it will make a nice change from a club and may be a bit more intimate?

I am sure it would, but it would be silly I think to book anything without finding people who want to play first."

book it on a flexbible rate so you can cancel if no one shows an interest lol

some nice hotels in MK

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

"Thinks one shouldn't post if one doesn't like replys maybe. Alll swingers are open minded ppl we would say open minded not cheats there's a diffrence.

I'd never dream of judging him for that...nor anyone else. Being on a site like this I don't feel like I have a right to sit as judge."

Because his wife has MS doesn't mean they can't have an active sex life. Ok he may not be able to have it on tap. I used to nurse MS sufferers before I became ill myself. Many had full sex lives, I know everyone is different but to me this sounds like an excuse. N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont really care if people are cheating or not but i do think people are right, i do think the fact that he is cheating will put a lot of women off going, and after all what would a swinging party be without women? As the OP said lots are doing what hes doing but i think you'll find about 99.9% of the married and cheating people on here are men, so no they wouldnt have a problem with your situation but do you really want a party full of guys? lol

Ruby gave you the best advice, put up a post and see what responce you get before you book anything x

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