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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in this swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pedant.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

how exactly have you established that people determine themselves as swingers ??

is it brcause they are on this website ??

do we consider ourselves as swingers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

define REAL swinger please

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

A single guy staying "not swinging at the moment" ... Same as not meeting at the moment?

I don't get what your problem is... Are you saying they should delete their profile?

We ourselves are not swinging / meeting at the moment... You have a problem with that?

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

And I have to be honest, from a guy with just 2 verifications... But from the same person so you really only have the 1.... I'm not sure you can class yourself as the real hardened swinger you make yourself out to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By reading their profiles, they called themselves swingers, I know "pendant" and I agree.

Not because of being here otherwise I wouldn't be here.

and I'm not saying it's everybody here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow you didn't get my point, What is Swinging? same as meeting? of course not. So how can a single guy say not swinging at the moment? How can he even swing? he can't. Swing is between couples.

I don't have a problem with that, just saying people are using swing to describe everything they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But who said I call myself a swinger? I'm not a swinger.. I can't be. I'm single.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

....... scratches head and wonders if someone's put something in the water again

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know, still you seem to be the only one who understanded what I meant. Cheers

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

We aren't meeting at the moment but we are definitely swingers. Just because circumstances dictate we can't at the moment doesn't mean we aren't.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

so just to clarify ....what was your issue ??

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

to drink the waffle water or not!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes but you do meet couples.. so swingers. I'm not saying if you meet a single you are not, just saying there's people calling themselves swingers when all they do is meet singles em they don't even want to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People have the wrong impression about what swinging is.. I know is a tiny issue but like I said, I'm a bit sapiosexual, so it bothers me a bit. I dind't meant to offend anyone, just wanted to read your opinion about it. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we dont want to meet couples ..should we delete our profile then as we dont fit the bill ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we dont want to meet couples ..should we delete our profile then as we dont fit the bill ? "

ironic, Of course not but do you call yourselves swingers?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

yes ..if a label had to be applied then that would be it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if you are not meeting other couples how can you swing, and be called swingers?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we meet guys rather than a man a a woman ...i dont see the huge difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But there is, swing is swap of partners.. if a single guys joins you, how can it be swing, your husband is swapping with the guy but how are you swapping with?. Again, not saying is a bad thing, not against it. But for me there is a difference. What you do is threesomes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

or 4 somes or 5 somes ......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lool naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe we should be called - fabnostringsattachers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have the wrong impression about what swinging is.. I know is a tiny issue but like I said, I'm a bit sapiosexual, so it bothers me a bit. I dind't meant to offend anyone, just wanted to read your opinion about it. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway."

I would say its because you are a bit anal retentive as I dont think its a trait of a sapiosexual. I think everyone know what the word swinging means in the classical sense but it seems to be more of a catch all term for what others would say is sexually deviant. Words take on different meaning over time. If you were really that passionate about the issue you wouldn't have joined a swinging site since you have no partner to "swing" with. Would fab alternative lifestyle be a more accurate name for the site? I don't think it's as catchy really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have the wrong impression about what swinging is.. I know is a tiny issue but like I said, I'm a bit sapiosexual, so it bothers me a bit. I dind't meant to offend anyone, just wanted to read your opinion about it. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway.

I would say its because you are a bit anal retentive as I dont think its a trait of a sapiosexual. I think everyone know what the word swinging means in the classical sense but it seems to be more of a catch all term for what others would say is sexually deviant. Words take on different meaning over time. If you were really that passionate about the issue you wouldn't have joined a swinging site since you have no partner to "swing" with. Would fab alternative lifestyle be a more accurate name for the site? I don't think it's as catchy really"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have the wrong impression about what swinging is.. I know is a tiny issue but like I said, I'm a bit sapiosexual, so it bothers me a bit. I dind't meant to offend anyone, just wanted to read your opinion about it. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway.

I would say its because you are a bit anal retentive as I dont think its a trait of a sapiosexual. I think everyone know what the word swinging means in the classical sense but it seems to be more of a catch all term for what others would say is sexually deviant. Words take on different meaning over time. If you were really that passionate about the issue you wouldn't have joined a swinging site since you have no partner to "swing" with. Would fab alternative lifestyle be a more accurate name for the site? I don't think it's as catchy really"

You've saved me typing

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Of course single people can be swingers, it's all down to attitude.

And I don't think the op realises what sapiosexual means. You can be as thick as two short planks and still be sexually attracted to intelligent people. Pedantry is another thing entirely

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd rather meet a thick person with some social skills and a non judgemental attitude rather than a self proposed intelligent person trying to foist their point of view at me and appearing to be obsessed by labels into the bargain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in those swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!"
Yep I'm thick cause ain't got a clue what yer on about

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

I'm not here to lay any laws down or make offence, but to share my interpretation.

I feel the term 'Swinging' refers to the actual sexual lifestyle not the sole practice of partner swapping as known in the past few centuries. It's a very subjective matter but one that isn't important as long as everybody is safe doing what they enjoy. - Mr. B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think this dark side would be lost without me

So I am staying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before and I will say it again. Singles can be part of the swinging community. It is a lifestyle. An attitude. Dividing up the community into sub groups serves no purpose whatsoever. Swingers have threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. So if two couples meet with a single guy or lady that is not swinging?? Looks and feels like it for me! I've been part of the community for over 20 years (when the OP was in nappies), as a single and with partners. I am no less a part of the community without a partner.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Who cares what label we have, we all just want to see willies and bookies lol

Also, definitions change over time. Is it not possible that the definition of swinger has evolved go include single people?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Boobies..... My phone is a prude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey By the time I go to the end of this thread I'm not even sure who I am, what I'm doing here and I've even forgotten my name.

Who cares what people call themselves, I don't actually call myself a swinger but I enjoy meeting sexy single men for fun

Just a thought but has anyone called Tina for the Forum insurance yet?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Bloody hell, think the OP needs to chill a bit and just ENJOY! Who gives a toss about labels?? Life's too short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey By the time I go to the end of this thread I'm not even sure who I am, what I'm doing here and I've even forgotten my name.

Who cares what people call themselves, I don't actually call myself a swinger but I enjoy meeting sexy single men for fun

Just a thought but has anyone called Tina for the Forum insurance yet? "

I think she's just sorting the paper work out hun. Don't want an pedantic people catching us out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be turned on by intellect doesn't mean you have to be clever yourself

I don't consider myself swinging when I see single men as a single, its serial "dating" . When I go to clubs with my male friend we have sex with singles, other couples etc, usually in a group. That's swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell."

Thanks so much for your kind permission...

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell.

Thanks so much for your kind permission... "

oohh how lucky are you? Official permission to do whatever you want to from the Swinging Enforcement Officer! Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell.

Thanks so much for your kind permission...

oohh how lucky are you? Official permission to do whatever you want to from the Swinging Enforcement Officer! Lol "

Ahh but he didn't tell you you could call it swinging!! He'll be around later to tell you what you can call it and what sub section of the Swingers for couples only handbook you can refer too for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow you didn't get my point, What is Swinging? same as meeting? of course not. So how can a single guy say not swinging at the moment? How can he even swing? he can't. Swing is between couples.

I don't have a problem with that, just saying people are using swing to describe everything they do."

No it's not just between couples, it's about sharing sexual partners

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell.

Thanks so much for your kind permission...

oohh how lucky are you? Official permission to do whatever you want to from the Swinging Enforcement Officer! Lol

Ahh but he didn't tell you you could call it swinging!! He'll be around later to tell you what you can call it and what sub section of the Swingers for couples only handbook you can refer too for future reference "

Ohhh noooo....I will await the knock on my door from the authorities.....after all, I am single and on a swinging site so my crimes need to be punished!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I know there is a debate going on about who is entitled to use the term 'swinger' to describe themselves. Firstly, as someone above stated, words change, meanings change, and plugging 'swinger' into any online dictionary does state that its an alternative phrase for wife-swapping, which denotes couples only, but its secondary definition describes swingers as 'people' who engage in NSA fun. People, not couples. Could it be that the term 'swinger' is changing to include people not in couples?

Secondly,, people who care too much about this sort of thing should seriously get a life. If your main criteria for meeting involves making sure they agree with you as to what a word means then you're going to come across as a bit odd. I use the word 'swinging' to describe what I do as other ways to describe it sound weird. And for anyone who says 'oh, but you are a woman', whats the difference between me and a single man (apart from the obvious of course!)

Chill people. Make love not war.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I don't judge people by their level of literacy.

2. Quote ' pain is what the person says it is'

So 'swinging' is what the person wants it to be for them.

3. Don't the mods always say the forums are for fun

Or is it that YOU have no other way to inflict your opinions.

Lighten up and make fun and frolics your goal. And leave every one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And leave the rest of us alone

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

I'm a little confused by this thread may be I'm a bit thick lol

We went to a sexy party Saturday and ended upstairs with another couple sex toys cunilingus etc hours later and smiley faces. Are we swingers or not. Who cares. It's was great fun all round that's all we care about not labels

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Simple solution.we're al just recreational fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples that meet other couples, can occasionally meet singles aswell.

Thanks so much for your kind permission...

oohh how lucky are you? Official permission to do whatever you want to from the Swinging Enforcement Officer! Lol "

Do you think he gets a uniform with that and a dinky little ticket machine? He could go round and stamp the arses of people at parties...swinger and not swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just happens to be the OP's personal interpretation of the term. Look it up in the online Cambridge dictionary.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in this swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!"

I haven't read this thread but why on earth write all that then put "peace"? I think peace was the least of your intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the original idea when this site was created was for it to be a swinging site. I certainly don't get that impression now. There are swingers, but also people just looking for a shag. There's nothing wrong with that!!

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By *andC2013Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Real swingers as it were , appear to have this hidden set of rules that they don't really know what they are and are un happy to share them.

Surely swinging is a personal choice and you do what your personal choice desires

Eg if you like to watch - then watch

If you like 3 somes - then have a 3 some

If you want a break then have a break.

Surely this is the only rule to swinging or have we got it totally wrong?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Real swingers as it were , appear to have this hidden set of rules that they don't really know what they are and are un happy to share them.

Surely swinging is a personal choice and you do what your personal choice desires

Eg if you like to watch - then watch

If you like 3 somes - then have a 3 some

If you want a break then have a break.

Surely this is the only rule to swinging or have we got it totally wrong?"

I think you have it totally right.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"yes but you do meet couples.. so swingers. I'm not saying if you meet a single you are not, just saying there's people calling themselves swingers when all they do is meet singles em they don't even want to meet couples. "
pissing in the wind springs to mind

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By *andC2013Couple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Thanks - we are not going crazy then lol

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in this swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!

I haven't read this thread but why on earth write all that then put "peace"? I think peace was the least of your intentions."

Yes that's why it's at the end! Dur. ... keep up lol.

To the OP.

I'll decided what I am thank you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ill just continue to have lots of uninhibited sexual fun without the worry of labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have the wrong impression about what swinging is.. I know is a tiny issue but like I said, I'm a bit sapiosexual, so it bothers me a bit. I dind't meant to offend anyone, just wanted to read your opinion about it. I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway.

I would say its because you are a bit anal retentive as I dont think its a trait of a sapiosexual. I think everyone know what the word swinging means in the classical sense but it seems to be more of a catch all term for what others would say is sexually deviant. Words take on different meaning over time. If you were really that passionate about the issue you wouldn't have joined a swinging site since you have no partner to "swing" with. Would fab alternative lifestyle be a more accurate name for the site? I don't think it's as catchy really"

Fab deviant would be a catchy one

Anyway, I don't know if I'm a swinger or not, and I don't even think I care: I'm just having loads of fun and (hopefully) so are the people I meet: that's what matters... So, to the OP: just chill

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the kind words and making fun of me. I was just expressing my opinion, and clearly many of you decided to make fun of it. That's ok.. krjc thank you, that's a good point of view and probably the most accurate.I apreciate that and I can agree with you. I'm very open-minded and I can listen to all your opinion, maybe if some of you instead of making fun, and tried to explain to me your opinion it would me more healthy. Not here to label anyone, not here to be an officer or judge anyone or else I wouldn't be here. blue ruby, thank you. But of course it's not wrong. If it was and I was wrong abot being here. Cloe2013 of course you can do whatever you what, whatever it pleases you, well it all comes to the meaning of the word nowadays it seems. Nicecouple561, my intention was to create a debate(this is a forum) not to offend anyone, I apologise if I did. Lusty12, If you read my profile you will see that English isn't my first language, so I may express myself in the wrong way, I'm not here to judge. Wyrdwoman, nice one thanks! playing with fire, thank you, I agree with you. LeKoople, thank you, I agree.

Once again I apologise if I offended anyone, it was not my intention, I was only giving my opinion and my point of view and debate about it.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in this swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!"

Thank you so much for informing us all about what real swinging is all about - consider us duly enlightened by your pearls of wisdom.

Have you updated Wikipedia yet?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Can't work out why the op has posted this. Is it because he thinks we're all stupid and he knows best, or because he is the leading authority on swinging, and we have to fall into line with him?

Otherwise, it's just another moaning thread, yawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well not sure where you learnt english but it certainly comes across as superior.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well not sure where you learnt english but it certainly comes across as superior."

thank you, but it seems it's not enought. o-

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you all for the kind words and making fun of me. I was just expressing my opinion, and clearly many of you decided to make fun of it. That's ok.. krjc thank you, that's a good point of view and probably the most accurate.I apreciate that and I can agree with you. I'm very open-minded and I can listen to all your opinion, maybe if some of you instead of making fun, and tried to explain to me your opinion it would me more healthy. Not here to label anyone, not here to be an officer or judge anyone or else I wouldn't be here. blue ruby, thank you. But of course it's not wrong. If it was and I was wrong abot being here. Cloe2013 of course you can do whatever you what, whatever it pleases you, well it all comes to the meaning of the word nowadays it seems. Nicecouple561, my intention was to create a debate(this is a forum) not to offend anyone, I apologise if I did. Lusty12, If you read my profile you will see that English isn't my first language, so I may express myself in the wrong way, I'm not here to judge. Wyrdwoman, nice one thanks! playing with fire, thank you, I agree with you. LeKoople, thank you, I agree.

Once again I apologise if I offended anyone, it was not my intention, I was only giving my opinion and my point of view and debate about it. "

The tone of a debate usually follows the tone of the initial post and that's what's happened here. You say you're a sapiophile which is great it's your preference but the same applies to everyone who uses the site they use it in their preferred way

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually I dont know if your opening post was meant to create discussion or is just merely a "firebomb" post where you throw in statements and see what damage you leave behind for your own amusement....

take a look... all statements and no actual questions!!

I know which I am more likely to believe... I wont call it "trolling" I'll give you the benefit of the doubt

But i will tell you what it is...

it is rude,

it is certainly condescending,

its actually Pish... and that is me being kind!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you all for the kind words and making fun of me. I was just expressing my opinion, and clearly many of you decided to make fun of it. That's ok.. krjc thank you, that's a good point of view and probably the most accurate.I apreciate that and I can agree with you. I'm very open-minded and I can listen to all your opinion, maybe if some of you instead of making fun, and tried to explain to me your opinion it would me more healthy. Not here to label anyone, not here to be an officer or judge anyone or else I wouldn't be here. blue ruby, thank you. But of course it's not wrong. If it was and I was wrong abot being here. Cloe2013 of course you can do whatever you what, whatever it pleases you, well it all comes to the meaning of the word nowadays it seems. Nicecouple561, my intention was to create a debate(this is a forum) not to offend anyone, I apologise if I did. Lusty12, If you read my profile you will see that English isn't my first language, so I may express myself in the wrong way, I'm not here to judge. Wyrdwoman, nice one thanks! playing with fire, thank you, I agree with you. LeKoople, thank you, I agree.

Once again I apologise if I offended anyone, it was not my intention, I was only giving my opinion and my point of view and debate about it.

The tone of a debate usually follows the tone of the initial post and that's what's happened here. You say you're a sapiophile which is great it's your preference but the same applies to everyone who uses the site they use it in their preferred way "

I agree and it's tottally understandable. thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually I dont know if your opening post was meant to create discussion or is just merely a "firebomb" post where you throw in statements and see what damage you leave behind for your own amusement....

take a look... all statements and no actual questions!!

I know which I am more likely to believe... I wont call it "trolling" I'll give you the benefit of the doubt

But i will tell you what it is...

it is rude,

it is certainly condescending,

its actually Pish... and that is me being kind!!!"

I don't need to ask a question to start a debate, a presented a subdject and my opinion to people comment about it and share theirs.

And I'm sorry for sounding it rude and condescending, that was not my intention . Thanks for your opinion

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Labels are to help you wash your pants. People are here for fun call it swinging or not does it matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Once again I apologise if I offended anyone, it was not my intention, I was only giving my opinion and my point of view and debate about it. "

Fair enough. Your opinion was expressed quite factually but the whole premise was based on an incorrect interpretation of the word "swinging." Had you expressed it better, then you might have found more sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Once again I apologise if I offended anyone, it was not my intention, I was only giving my opinion and my point of view and debate about it.

Fair enough. Your opinion was expressed quite factually but the whole premise was based on an incorrect interpretation of the word "swinging." Had you expressed it better, then you might have found more sympathy."

Thank you, English is not my first language, my bad. but glad you understand. thanks

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Swinging is a lifestyle not an act, what you say happens between couples when they swap is just that, wife swapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It came to my attention that a lot of people on this website(singles and couples)don't even know what swinging is. For example, I saw a single guy's profile saying "Not swinging at the moment" WTF? seriously? Do yourself a favour and google a bit. Same for couples that say: "new in this swinging business" and then they're not looking to meet other couples. People, you are looking for a menage, not swinging! Those who call swingers party aswell and when you go there there's a lot os singles.. there's a name for that...Orgy!I'm not saying I'm against it, I do enjoy menages and Orgies but let's call things by the right names people. Educate yourselves. I'm being a little picky I now but I'm sapiosexual and I think it's a bit disrespectful for the REAL swingers. Peace!"

Couldn't make any sense of that whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm sapiosexual"

I suspect this is one of those times that you've confused knowledge with wisdom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swinging is a lifestyle not an act, what you say happens between couples when they swap is just that, wife swapping."

Thanks you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'm sapiosexual

I suspect this is one of those times that you've confused knowledge with wisdom. "

or perhaps you confused intelligence with knowledge. but details.. no problem with that. Different views.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I like how the op is "sapiosexual" and then says, " I now I am being picky"

People can pigeon hole however they want, we just want to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is the OP no longer on site, where's he gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is the OP no longer on site, where's he gone?"

He'll be back

Probably stuck on the loo trying to poo out the dictionary he swallowed for breakfast x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or perhaps he was pushed...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is the OP no longer on site, where's he gone?"

Because he realises he's fucked himself over and now wants to change his name/account

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is the OP no longer on site, where's he gone?

Because he realises he's fucked himself over and now wants to change his name/account"

Fair play, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is the OP no longer on site, where's he gone?

Because he realises he's fucked himself over and now wants to change his name/account"

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol "not swinging at the moment"

looks like the op dont swing either as he is not longer on the site lol.

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