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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sex will always be the end game, the time it takes to get there is different with every person....

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

arnt you why not? oooops i thought thats how it worked on here no wonder i keep getting blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not found that to be the case really, yes the odd one but certainly in the minority. I find most single guys are lovely actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex will always be the end game, the time it takes to get there is different with every person...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put them on a promise until you meet.

Fair on both sides.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken the liberty to edit your post so it is accurate

"Why is it the single men I chat to automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have taken the liberty to edit your post so it is accurate

Why is it the single men I chat to automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here "
thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't put them on a promise until you meet.

Fair on both sides.

Her

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i never do i tell them upfront i like to chat first i gotta make sure they are not axe wielding psychos who are going to chop me up into little pieces

they will then continue to call me a slut whore and time waster

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block guys, do the searching and start the conversation with someone who takes your fancy by setting out your stall.

it is that easy, no point taking grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't put them on a promise until you meet.

Fair on both sides.

Her

i never do i tell them upfront i like to chat first i gotta make sure they are not axe wielding psychos who are going to chop me up into little pieces

they will then continue to call me a slut whore and time waster "
If they think your timewasting for doing it your way, and abusing you, just think next, get rid of those that can't go to your pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't put them on a promise until you meet.

Fair on both sides.

Her

i never do i tell them upfront i like to chat first i gotta make sure they are not axe wielding psychos who are going to chop me up into little pieces

they will then continue to call me a slut whore and time waster "

Then they have adequately demonstrated they are not the type of person you want to meet and done you a favour! Its not nice having abusive messages, I've had a few but it just shows how pathetic they are. I have pretty much applied every filter known to man on here and I message the guys I'm interested in. I've had way more success that way. No decent person should assume that as you're chatting to them, you're a guaranteed meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block guys, do the searching and start the conversation with someone who takes your fancy by setting out your stall.

it is that easy, no point taking grief.

It works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ain't all bad...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We ain't all bad..."
i know ye are not i have met some wonderful single men on here aswell

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"sex will always be the end game, the time it takes to get there is different with every person...."

..... but maybe the difference between those who are successful and those who arent is that so may people are fixated about the "destination" they forget about the enjoyment of the "journey".......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sex will always be the end game, the time it takes to get there is different with every person....

..... but maybe the difference between those who are successful and those who arent is that so may people are fixated about the "destination" they forget about the enjoyment of the "journey"......."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've really not found this, most of the single guys I actually chat too don't put pressure on to meet & are very polite, non pushy and generally pleasent.

There is the odd one that gets a little pushy, if they do this on here they have next to no chance of me meeting then anyway and I tell them as much.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I don't recall ever asking for a fuck, I pay compliments and chat. See where it goes. If someone says your not my type, I thank them for taking time to reply.

Slowly slowly catchy rabbit/monkey

More haste less speed. Good things are worth waiting for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't recall ever asking for a fuck, I pay compliments and chat. See where it goes. If someone says your not my type, I thank them for taking time to reply.

Slowly slowly catchy rabbit/monkey

More haste less speed. Good things are worth waiting for.

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some could take a leaf out of your book

or maybe it's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ain't all bad..."

Gta agree, I'm single and being new to the site I feel singled Out, almost unwelcome. For some reason I'm getting a worryingly large amount of 3sum requests from bi m/f couples and that's about it...

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

I chat to a few on here. Yes it would be nice to end up with a meet at the end of the day, but half the time they are too far away and my cock won't reach that far ha ha

(and they might not have any cake!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chat to a few on here. Yes it would be nice to end up with a meet at the end of the day, but half the time they are too far away and my cock won't reach that far ha ha

(and they might not have any cake!!)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We ain't all bad...

Gta agree, I'm single and being new to the site I feel singled Out, almost unwelcome. For some reason I'm getting a worryingly large amount of 3sum requests from bi m/f couples and that's about it... "
not into threesomes then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ain't all bad...

I am heee

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't message anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat to a few on here. Yes it would be nice to end up with a meet at the end of the day, but half the time they are too far away and my cock won't reach that far ha ha

(and they might not have any cake!!)"

Tell them -

No cake

No cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to put yes please, then I read it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just Single Men who do this.

What grinds though is if you comment on say a technique or certain practice you get bombarded by people either commenting in that thread about wanting to meet and undertake the subject matter with you or you get message after message on the subject. Even though your profile clearly states what you are looking for.

As said though it's not just the put upon Single men who do this.

Oh and people who go Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm what's that meant to convey or mean??? It certainly isn't sexy.

Think I better go for walk now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I am! I've been surprisingly turned on by women askin me to perform on them in front of their fella, a new sensation I didn't realise I'd enjoy. But when they go on to request me An her fella to pleasure each other, it's just not me unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

I see this as (mostly) a good thing for those men your statement applies to.

Such men show themselves up and thus make the good ones stand out even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet"

Spoilsport!!!! x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"sex will always be the end game, the time it takes to get there is different with every person....

..... but maybe the difference between those who are successful and those who aren't is that so may people are fixated about the "destination" they forget about the enjoyment of the "journey"......."

of course, but the journey can very easily be stopped...'the block button'.

one click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

but you'd fuck me right?

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"I chat to a few on here. Yes it would be nice to end up with a meet at the end of the day, but half the time they are too far away and my cock won't reach that far ha ha

(and they might not have any cake!!)

Tell them -

No cake

No cock

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

"I was going to put yes please, then I read it properly

You haven't any cake then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet

Spoilsport!!!! x "

How can you pressure someone who says yes straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet"

Likewise here too. I'm happy to chat with singles and couples, and IF a meet happens, then it's a big bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet

Spoilsport!!!! x

How can you pressure someone who says yes straight away

It took at least two messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Never have pressured anyone to meet

Never will pressure anyone to meet

Likewise here too. I'm happy to chat with singles and couples, and IF a meet happens, then it's a big bonus.

Which is how it should be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not found too many guys pressure x when I was " actively" meeting I would get hundred odd messages a day but only maybe one or two were straight in there - and if I started chatted and a guy got a bit intense - I'd just say no sorry and then block xx

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"Why is it when you chat to single men they automatically think i am going to meet them and put pressure on!!!!! I mean i am single but that doesn't mean am going to fuck everyone on here

Course you're going to hop on Aer Lingus and then grab a cab from the airport! Like all single men, I have that animal magnetism......oh and I come from the North side of the Shannon originally and not the south!

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By *omMLMan
over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

"I don't recall ever asking for a fuck, I pay compliments and chat. See where it goes. If someone says your not my type, I thank them for taking time to reply.

Slowly slowly catchy rabbit/monkey

More haste less speed. Good things are worth waiting for.

That's my approach as well, guys should always be polite. I want to chat and make a connection with someone before meeting.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"I've really not found this, most of the single guys I actually chat too don't put pressure on to meet & are very polite, non pushy and generally pleasent.

There is the odd one that gets a little pushy, if they do this on here they have next to no chance of me meeting then anyway and I tell them as much.

Same with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blah blah...fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to the conclusion that if I ever meet again, and I have no intention of applying pressure to any woman/couple.

I've found that just being myself and using the forums has given me more _iews of my profile, but as yet no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive not found that to be the case really, yes the odd one but certainly in the minority. I find most single guys are lovely actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ain't all bad... i know ye are not i have met some wonderful single men on here aswell

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xxx..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how close they are, if they are futher away than 2 miles I just chat to them, call me lazy but I wanna be home before eastenders lol

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