FabSwingers.com forum: What makes a woman "good in bed"?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?

I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)

But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)

???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?

I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)

But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)

???"

*differ (not fifer FFS phone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want good in bed,I want very very naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will watch this thread for tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Hitachi wand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

her ability to take it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why in bed why not on the floor,up against a tree etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

doggy so I don't miss my favourite programmes...

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

vocal, good kisser, lots of spit on the bj and generally dirty minded

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If she has never uttered the words "I'm not doing that it's disgusting" it's a definite plus

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"her ability to take it up the arse

I know several men who would agree with you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol"

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"

Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)

So next question - what makes a woman dirty in bed? Surely that's even more subjective, what constitutes dirty ? Anal, oral, role play etc can be considered standard lol (or am I now so dirty that the filthy stuff feels vanilla? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No inhibitions.

Movement

No giving and taking like a sack of spuds.

Giving the Blowjob like its your last meal.

Her

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

what makes a woman good in bed is the same as what makes a man ... rapport... boucing ideas off each other ... finding each others likes .. listening .. and teasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol"

Maybe not being so serious? It was a joke??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis

Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)

Why doesn't it qualify? Surely part of being good in bed is being adventurous and inventive. Changing things up, using toys, food,household items to increase the Sexual experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

Open-mindedness

Versatility

No inhibitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry..,..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis

Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)

Why doesn't it qualify? Surely part of being good in bed is being adventurous and inventive. Changing things up, using toys, food,household items to increase the Sexual experience? "

Hmm to a point I suppose but whipping out a power tool doesn't make a 'person' a good fuck. It might enhance the experience.

I'm being a purist I suppose (are you a good baker if you make a packet mix cake - might taste amazing but whose skill was it lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence

Open-mindedness

Versatility

No inhibitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't want her being good, want her to be bad, very bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a dirty bitch usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why in bed why not on the floor,up against a tree etc

They always seem to prefer the bed but then I am a bit shy of the outdoors

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

A pulse.........

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

Confident,vocal,adventurous,not taking it to seriously,affectionate,good kisser,swallows.They all help make a lady good in bed IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes a woman good in bed is simple

You love her

You fancy her

She is beautiful on the inside

Anything else is superficial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to orgasm fairly quickly from penetration alone!

XXXX

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"What makes a woman good in bed is simple

You love her

You fancy her

She is beautiful on the inside

Anything else is superficial "
pffft thats a novel not a dirty lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a woman good in bed is simple

You love her

You fancy her

She is beautiful on the inside

Anything else is superficial "
I don't think being good in bed is superficial if a woman isn't loved, its about giving your best and enjoying it and giving pleasure..love doesn't come into being good in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Ability to keep bloody quiet when im trying to sleep

Gimp

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

From a males point of _iew the most important thing for me is to know the women wants to be there with you. It is the biggest compliment you can have. Next we have to find out what you want as women are so varried compared to men. It is easy for a woman to bring off a man but for a women to climax there are so many different ways. Nice finding out though.

Shagging someone who for whatever reasons does not really enjoy you doing it ,is a real turn off and am sure lots of blokes have sensed this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..that its not always in bed lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Someone that doesn't do spread eagle and pinch the covers in winter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..that its not always in bed lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is not possible here unless you are a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that's entirely subjective and all down to the man and woman in bed and whether they're compatible.

I love to dirty talk, to someone who hates it that would not make me good in bed, it would make me annoying or maybe embarrassing. To someone who loves it that might stick out as truly memorable.

Enthusiasm is pretty useful though in both genders. You can do a lot if someone shows willing!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Talkative

Chemistry

Great kisser

Spending time to explore what's good for both of you

Lots of foreplay

Try new things

Not being in a rush

Trust each other and completely let go

Good hands or feet that caress and explore

Mutual satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely that's entirely subjective and all down to the man and woman in bed and whether they're compatible.

I love to dirty talk, to someone who hates it that would not make me good in bed, it would make me annoying or maybe embarrassing. To someone who loves it that might stick out as truly memorable.

Enthusiasm is pretty useful though in both genders. You can do a lot if someone shows willing!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

tits: A - G cup,

curvy hips

sexy legs

heels

passionate lips

ruthless need

and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on who you're in bed with and what they like as some people like different qualities and what one person classes as good another might think is crap. To be good in bed you need to do your research first and find out what that person likes and just do that. I have found that works for me anyway and have never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I think back to my favourite meets, and the things that made them so sexually enjoyable, personally I'd say a woman with a great sex technique would be

A great kisser

Enthusiastic and receptive of my own sexual technique

Open minded and adventurous - I've been with some women who's oral technique didn't just stop at sucking my penis, but also moving onto my balls and even my anus on occasion

Affectionate and loving in the bedroom

Great sex needs to flow naturally, it should feel light, easy and FUN for both participants, if it feels like a constant load of stops and starts, the overall passion and enjoyment quickly starts to wear away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.

unless she's a strict muslim..

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.

Something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.

unless she's a strict muslim..

....wouldn't be getting porked at all then would she?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

sex is only as good as the man you are with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No inhibitions.

Movement

No giving and taking like a sack of spuds.

Giving the Blowjob like its your last meal.

Her

I agree with most of the comments,

But i will go with this

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Any woman who doesn't snore or fart in bed is a bonus.

So, that counts me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex is only as good as the man you are with"

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

"....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.

unless she's a strict muslim..

....wouldn't be getting porked at all then would she? "

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"what makes a woman good in bed is the same as what makes a man ... rapport... boucing ideas off each other ... finding each others likes .. listening .. and teasing"

Finally a sane response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say - doing what they can to please the person they are with. That goes for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes a woman good in bed? The woman who is there with all her heart wanting to be fucked and made love to by the person or persons she is with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One who brings a cuppa in the morning

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Talkative

Chemistry

Great kisser

Spending time to explore what's good for both of you

Lots of foreplay

Try new things

Not being in a rush

Trust each other and completely let go

Good hands or feet that caress and explore

Mutual satisfaction

Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"vocal, good kisser, lots of spit on the bj and generally dirty minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talkative

Chemistry

Great kisser

Spending time to explore what's good for both of you

Lots of foreplay

Try new things

Not being in a rush

Trust each other and completely let go

Good hands or feet that caress and explore

Mutual satisfaction

Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...!"

I second that but would add :

Sexually Fearless in regard to trying everything once , if it works then great ,if not move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.

Something like that

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Sounds good to me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one thatll change my nappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.

"
Yes a nice big kiss For that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

beggars can't be choosers, I'd be happy just to get a woman in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talkative

Chemistry

Great kisser

Spending time to explore what's good for both of you

Lots of foreplay

Try new things

Not being in a rush

Trust each other and completely let go

Good hands or feet that caress and explore

Mutual satisfaction

Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...!"
Surpriseing how fast time goes When your enjoying yourself Especially under the covers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

She doesnt snore

she does not nick all the duvet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like that

just like I do to Johnny I love watching his expressions

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By *lirty FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I like her to have big suckable nipples, enjoy playing with toys (I've got a double ender and know how to use it), loves to have her puss licked and if she has her own strap-on to fuck me I am in heaven, Flirty (.Y.) x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For both women and men it boils down to being able to read each others body and mind. Its not about skill. When there's chemistry, energy and action flows between 2 ppl and love making is organic. One thing leads to the other. And what you like with one person, might not be as nice with another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, all she needs to do is to spread her legs and open her pussie in bed for my penis to penetrate her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"beggars can't be choosers, I'd be happy just to get a woman in bed!

Can I have the slightly camp hat??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's remaining still and not getting the hump when he doesn't pull your nightie down after he's finished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Hitachi wand?

How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?

Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol

place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties

also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like that

Here here!!! Couldn't of said it better myself (Mrs T)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"one thatll change my nappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"doggy so I don't miss my favourite programmes...

And you can balanc a drink or tray of biscuits on her back

So long as you fuck her slow and deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something like that

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Yeah me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing, all she needs to do is to spread her legs and open her pussie in bed for my penis to penetrate her

ha ha you're reassuringly consistent with your comments....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to suck like a Dyson....apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chemistry..,.."

Beat me to it....chemistry, good shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?

I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)

But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)

???"

I was going to say, does as she's told, but was a joke (well partially anyway)

I like a woman that's comfortable with her body, wants me as much as I want her, kisses passionately (like it when kissing gets her wet), likes being tactile, wants me in control, flexible, (have gotten into some great positions), wants to be taken hard but likes being slow and gentle too, likes oral both ways, lots of stamina, tells me what she wants, I guess a nice fun girl with a filthy streak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?

I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)

But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)

???

I was going to say, does as she's told, but was a joke (well partially anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Dirty Mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting question. I've been told I'm good but never told what exactly made me good.

should message my meets and ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No inhibitions.

Movement

No giving and taking like a sack of spuds.

Giving the Blowjob like its your last meal.

Her

I agree with most of the comments,

But i will go with this

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the man that's with her , if he presses the right buttons all women are good in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fart in bed and then waft the duvet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any woman who doesn't snore or fart in bed is a bonus.

So, that counts me out.

I didn't think my wife was on here lol

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Being relaxed and comfortable. If she is those two things then the real her will come out and she will become what every women wants to be in the bedroom, themselves.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Being relaxed and comfortable. If she is those two things then the real her will come out and she will become what every women wants to be in the bedroom, themselves. "

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