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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Dont it just drive you crazy when you chatted for ages and spoken on fone then arranged a meet. An on day of meet half hour before person says must cancel.

Ano ppl do cancel for good reason but just grrr esp when you changed plans an work for the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its equally as frustrating for those that have to cancel, we had arranged for Bev to meet a guy couple weeks ago, then as bad luck had it Bev was in shower getting ready to visit when the dreaded Monthly arrived, so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont it just drive you crazy when you chatted for ages and spoken on fone then arranged a meet. An on day of meet half hour before person says must cancel.

Ano ppl do cancel for good reason but just grrr esp when you changed plans an work for the meet"

I'd never change plans and work for a meet to start with so I wouldn't really get stressed about it if a meet ever canceled on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancelling so close to the time would piss me off, considering the time and effort thats put into getting ready!

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Well i understand the persons reason but sayin ive just worked two long days plus nights apl weekend an today my first day off. Ive got up early got ready an shaved an trimmed ect an then get txt sayin to delay an cancel just grrr

I know like one person has put its bad on both esp if reason for it but grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frustrating, particularly as it takes me three hours to get ready - washed, shaved, made up, dressed etc. Then someone pulls out at the last minute and I'm all dressed up with nowhere to go!

I think this might happen again to me this week...and I'll be left hot and horny but no one to play with!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Cancelling so close to the time would piss me off, considering the time and effort thats put into getting ready! "
as if you two need much time to get ready you gorgeous couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had similar thing happen to a guy i know on here, he arranaged a meeting with a couple, booked day off work etc then on day of meeting they cancelled but couple of days later they had a verification left on their profile, they had cancelled with him but had actually gone and met someone else that day....

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

If they're genuine fingers crossed for next time, if they see you moaning on here it might scupper future meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's frustrating but we get over it, we'll met them another time. We've had to cancel on people too with unexpected dramas or occurrences, that's just as frustrating too. Nothing worse the. Being excited about a night out only for one of us to not feel well or a loss of mojo for that particular day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually arrange our meets some time in advance, mainly as Bev meets guys alone we try to ensure they are polite and respectable.

However arranging in advance can have it's problems, Illness, Monthly, or sometimes either of us are just not in the mood, no point meeting if that happens so it's best to cancel. Its disappointing but its life and it happens

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I've had to cancel a meet with short notice before due to my son coming down poorly .. I felt soo bad and was worried about being called a time waster .. Then I just had to accept! Sometimes (not all the time) things do go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can get frustrating....but sometimes life gets in the way, even with the best laid plans. I tend to meet married ladies playing away, some with kids some with other commitments... so it goes with the territory for me.... must say though...I tend to check the lie of the land via text/messenger app, then disappointment is less plus sometimes a spontaneous meet can follow.... chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cancelling so close to the time would piss me off, considering the time and effort thats put into getting ready! as if you two need much time to get ready you gorgeous couple "

Have you seen Mrs kk without the war paint???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol."

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really"
I would say women and couple view to, but yesto sum it up it their loss in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially frustrating when they had no intention anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really"

Generalising???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???"

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit "
SAme goes with couples, usually its the guy in the couple, but where is the so called woman? many posts on that to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit SAme goes with couples, usually its the guy in the couple, but where is the so called woman? many posts on that to lol."

I work from home and spend alot of my time dipping in and out the forums, my partner..the woman as you call her, is at work during the day, but I am not whinging am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit SAme goes with couples, usually its the guy in the couple, but where is the so called woman? many posts on that to lol.

I work from home and spend alot of my time dipping in and out the forums, my partner..the woman as you call her, is at work during the day, but I am not whinging am I."
Thats good and no your not, you just generalized all single men, thats all lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit SAme goes with couples, usually its the guy in the couple, but where is the so called woman? many posts on that to lol.

I work from home and spend alot of my time dipping in and out the forums, my partner..the woman as you call her, is at work during the day, but I am not whinging am I.Thats good and no your not, you just generalized all single men, thats all lol."

I stand corrected and your correct, I should have stated the majority of posts and not all, please accept my humble apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit SAme goes with couples, usually its the guy in the couple, but where is the so called woman? many posts on that to lol.

I work from home and spend alot of my time dipping in and out the forums, my partner..the woman as you call her, is at work during the day, but I am not whinging am I.Thats good and no your not, you just generalized all single men, thats all lol.

I stand corrected and your correct, I should have stated the majority of posts and not all, please accept my humble apologies "
Yes that sounds abit better lol and yes the apology is acepted

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Wow i was only askin how ppl felt about cancelling lol

I dont meet lots as i like chat an get know ppl and this is first one to cancel just made me grrr as i had been on nights all weekend an worked 2 14 hr shifts (makes my day 18hrs with travel) so the person knew by me meetin took alot as tgis is my reat day. Yet 30 min before i left to meet she msg cancellin now i wouldnt mind but sayin i got up early an ready etc just made me feel grrr

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By *parrow77 OP   Man
over a year ago

cheshire

An i know alot of ppl get cancelled or dont turn up geluess i was venting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit "

You do realise that men far out number women and couples in here, do the maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit "

Maybe, but there are several different types of shit, can you distinguish one shit from another

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Cancelling so close to the time would piss me off, considering the time and effort thats put into getting ready! as if you two need much time to get ready you gorgeous couple

Have you seen Mrs kk without the war paint???

"
No not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit

Maybe, but there are several different types of shit, can you distinguish one shit from another "

No sorry id be generalising lol

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

If someone has a few verification on their profile, and for some reason have to cancel, why should they be labeled a time waster.

I strained my back about 3 hours before a meet, not wanting to be labeled a time waster. After a 2 hour drive got out of the car looking like a 103yr old war veteran. Fortunately we met up at a later date, and yes we are great friends now.

All ive got to say never again. If you get a cancellation get over it shit hsppens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it hapaneds all the time.. its so easy to see the tale tale signs of a timewaster.. I am ace spotting them lol.

Strange how its always single guys who view people who cancel as timewasters!

Guess they are usually so hyped up with hard on waiting in anticipation as they have nothing ese to do is part of their problem, never believe there are more important things which happen then allowing them to fuck, typical really

Generalising???

Generalising but with alot of evidence, there have been a number of posts on this subject recently and by no surprise mainly started by single guys, cant ignore the evidence.

If it looks like shit, and smells like shit theres a good chance its a shit

Maybe, but there are several different types of shit, can you distinguish one shit from another

No sorry id be generalising lol"

Ironic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has a few verification on their profile, and for some reason have to cancel, why should they be labeled a time waster.

I strained my back about 3 hours before a meet, not wanting to be labeled a time waster. After a 2 hour drive got out of the car looking like a 103yr old war veteran. Fortunately we met up at a later date, and yes we are great friends now.

All ive got to say never again. If you get a cancellation get over it shit hsppens"

Well you are 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had to cancel at last minute a couple of months ago as my son got run over by a car, I'm sure they thought it was an excuse but wasn't bothered at time as he is more important, we have also had to cancel on the day of another meet as time of month came early...

Sometimes real life does get in the way,if someone cancelled last min on us wouldn't be the end of world we would just make other plans x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone has a few verification on their profile, and for some reason have to cancel, why should they be labeled a time waster.

I strained my back about 3 hours before a meet, not wanting to be labeled a time waster. After a 2 hour drive got out of the car looking like a 103yr old war veteran. Fortunately we met up at a later date, and yes we are great friends now.

All ive got to say never again. If you get a cancellation get over it shit hsppens"

I admire your dedication ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had to cancel at last minute a couple of months ago as my son got run over by a car, I'm sure they thought it was an excuse but wasn't bothered at time as he is more important, we have also had to cancel on the day of another meet as time of month came early...

Sometimes real life does get in the way,if someone cancelled last min on us wouldn't be the end of world we would just make other plans x"

Your right, but some people are not as understanding as yourself,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wathcing mr bean

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It is frustrating. I've had it before but we are all adults and 'real life' gets in the way sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to cancel due to something unforseen I would make sure I got back in touch with the person/couple and rearranged.

It is those that cancel and are never heard of again that are the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a pound for every f*****r who has let me down I'd be extremely wealthy. However, you have to persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far arranged 2 socials with single men, 1 text saying just leaving, so I walked down to the coffee shop, never showed up, no reply to texts, logged on, user no longer on site! The other confirmed time and place in morning, then silence and blocked me. Both verified, my child free time is very limited, so iv not tried again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had it done to me a few times and sadly it does happen a lot so im told.I dont let it get to me as swinging should be fun and i really do think its there loss.My most recent was a girl i had been chating to on here and on the phone and we arranged a no pressure social meet at mine to see how we get on.We even arranged to have her favourite meal witch i ordered in.I was just left waiting and waiting with food going cold so i called her and she would not answer.50mins after the arranged meet time i recived a text just saying not coming so i just sent one back saying looks like im not cuming to then . But not all was lost as me and my little dog had a stunning meal each lol and i had a really top night out with my mates and i was already dressed to impress.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"If someone has a few verification on their profile, and for some reason have to cancel, why should they be labeled a time waster.

I strained my back about 3 hours before a meet, not wanting to be labeled a time waster. After a 2 hour drive got out of the car looking like a 103yr old war veteran. Fortunately we met up at a later date, and yes we are great friends now.

All ive got to say never again. If you get a cancellation get over it shit hsppens

I admire your dedication , "

dedication maybe, but i was horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is frustrating. I've had it before but we are all adults and 'real life' gets in the way sometimes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had similar thing happen to a guy i know on here, he arranaged a meeting with a couple, booked day off work etc then on day of meeting they cancelled but couple of days later they had a verification left on their profile, they had cancelled with him but had actually gone and met someone else that day.... "

Sounds like an unused sub

Sorry about the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to vent darlin you vent away. Its extremely annoying and frustrating and something I experienced a lot in my earlier fab days...it did make me review my selection process though (verified, pics avail, speak on phone, social meet prior) and although not totally foolproof its 99.9%. Another tip i found useful was to arrange meets in a club...i don't mean go together...actually meet inside the club...that way if the stand you up or cancel at last minute youre hopefully in a club full of other sexy people to play with and your time isn't wasted getting dolled up xx

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