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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my buddy is coming round for a few hours. He wanted to know if he could bring a woman but when trying to message her I'm not in her age range and can't see a picture. Should I just wing and meet her even know I don't know anything like what she looks like and stuff? I trust my buddy and his judgment but feel a bit weird about inviting a stranger into my home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck it and see! My best bud finds the couples and ladies that we meet. He never let's me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them somewhere local for a drink first so you can see if you both like each other

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If you trust him and he knows her... Go for it !

Surely he wouldn't do anything to put you or your home at risk !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u was expecting just ure male budd and no one else i would stick to that i wouldnt let any one in ludeing my hubby change the senario but it is ure choice al we can say is be safe and have funn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the worst that can happen ?

You don't fancy her so she watches.

Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with the above. Meet in a neutral place and see how you both feel.

It would be crap if she got to yours and you had to make excuses then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never invite a stranger into our house. As said meet in pub first go from there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah....pub first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never invite a stranger into our house. As said meet in pub first go from there

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Would also agree. Also have a word with your bud. Maybe he s thinking if himself. Did u ever ask for him to organise a 3 some in your house ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he was on about a while ago about having someone else domming me as well. But i think the main thing i'm worrying about it not fancying her and trying to get her to leave. haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't invite anyone to play without at least seeing a face pic. If she isn't willing to send one I wouldn't be willing to entertain it I'm afraid...but that's just me. I's also find it weird if someone wanted to meet me without seeing what I looked like too.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Shes on this site im assuming as you said you tried to message her?

Get your friend to text her to come online and message you and send you pictures.

as meeting up and not knowing if you will fancy her could be pretty akward.

if not then as other posters suggest... social meet in pub first.

Good luck op and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not in her age range when i tried to message her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not in her age range when i tried to message her"

So then he needs to ask her to contact you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"my buddy is coming round for a few hours. He wanted to know if he could bring a woman but when trying to message her I'm not in her age range and can't see a picture. Should I just wing and meet her even know I don't know anything like what she looks like and stuff? I trust my buddy and his judgment but feel a bit weird about inviting a stranger into my home. "

Just say no! I don't know the dynamic of your relationship with your buddy but if you've never discussed blind dates before refuse to go along with it. Meet socially and make your mind up from there. People need to be strong in standing up for what they want in this game and if you feel it isn't right then say no.

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