FabSwingers.com forum: What's worse than no one messaging you?

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

People messaging you from bloody miles away saying "if I was closer" ARRRGGGHHH!!!!

That is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run sunshine run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody bothering to make the effort to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fancying any of the ones that do message you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

winking then hiding their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ppl that just talk and never get to arange a meet.comming out with all kinds of excuses.wish they would be a bit more honest,to save us all wasting time.

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Gettin blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse ? Messaging then blocking ! X ( no I dont do that lol ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noone are close like less than a mile or same street here, would be handy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging you showing interest, asking to chat then not bothering replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People messaging you from bloody miles away saying "if I was closer" ARRRGGGHHH!!!!

That is all

Hahahaha I get these daily!!!! For shame

but seriously if I were closer to some of them....

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

If it makes you all feel better, if I drove I would visit you all...

But I don't, so I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the sexy men who message me are miles away, but if there's a will there's a way I always say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging you showing interest, asking to chat then not bothering replying

Amen to that...!!!

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Finding someone whose profile like, who seems to tick all the right boxes for me I.e. age range, location, preferences, looking to meet tv etc, then trying to message them only to find that they have blocked everyone of my sex! Ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who message and think because you're on here they have a god given right to bed you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Most of the sexy men who message me are miles away, but if there's a will there's a way I always say

More like where there's a willy there's a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who message and think because you're on here they have a god given right to bed you."

You mean we dont ?

I demand a refund

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the sexy men who message me are miles away, but if there's a will there's a way I always say

More like where there's a willy there's a way.

lol there is that as well but I was trying to be polite and lady like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the the above

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

People who put 'if we wink, it means we are interested' on their profile.

They wink us

We wink back, to show we are interested.

Then nothing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of the the above "

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By *lassyandadventurousMan
over a year ago

England and Wales

Someone mailing you by mistake.........

Its happened to me once and she was sooooo fit too lol

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Someone messaging you and saying....'so, how you finding the site?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone messaging who is near,looks and sounds lovely,say they like your profile then ask "Do you accommodate?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone messaging you and saying....'so, how you finding the site?'

and "How many people have you met from here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone messaging you and saying....'so, how you finding the site?'

and "How many people have you met from here?" "

or What are you up to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging you showing interest, asking to chat then not bothering replying

This ^...

Beginning of this week, we thought "ooo, 1st person to write to us in the 8 months we've been members that says they're interested". Yeah right. We messaged back & haven't heard a thing since.

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

[Removed by poster at 27/04/14 22:21:09]

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

or What are you up to?

I hate "wuu2"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or What are you up to?

I hate "wuu2""

Oh I'd have to ask what that meant

I'm not the best with this txt spk malarkey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when your profile says won't meet smokers, they message you anyway, then you have to do polite decline message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone messaging you and saying....'so, how you finding the site?'

and "How many people have you met from here?"

or What are you up to?

my reply is "nothing much" end of conversation

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Being accepted as a friend then deleting every message you send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And when your profile says won't meet smokers, they message you anyway, then you have to do polite decline message "

Worse still...the face pic they send shows a fag in their hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who message and think because you're on here they have a god given right to bed you."

Totally grips my shit....biggest hate ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who message and think because you're on here they have a god given right to bed you.

Totally grips my shit....biggest hate ever!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Seeing the message icon pop up - but it's not from who you were hoping. My face looks like an upset kitten for about a millisecond.

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

"And when your profile says won't meet smokers, they message you anyway, then you have to do polite decline message "

I'm a smoker and I've had non smokers who have that they don't meet smokers on their profile messaging me asking for a meet, reply back to them and then they don't reply back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And when your profile says won't meet smokers, they message you anyway, then you have to do polite decline message

I'm a smoker and I've had non smokers who have that they don't meet smokers on their profile messaging me asking for a meet, reply back to them and then they don't reply back"

I wouldn't message a smoker and i don't message anyone first anymore because they don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people have posted on there profile they can accommodate. but when you mention it they carnt accommodate.

I suggested to one guy politley of course to change it but he said no.

I dont get messages if I cannot accommodate. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

being winked at, winking back, then messaging back and forth, then seeing a few hours later all trace of contacts have gons, as if by magic,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

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yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranging to meet someone who then goes all quiet and ignores all further contact then puts a status up a few days later saying the site is shit, can't get a meet, no one is geniune blah blah blah!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....not being able to message Densol MILFY..

coz im too old or out of her league an stuff...SO in lust with the lady..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy with a "no thanks" although its a rejection is at least ITS A REPLY ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone sending you a message calling you a name that isn't yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

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Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

in the middle of the night .. i get a tap tap tap at the window .. do you know who it is .. bloody greta garbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

Well if they're my only 2 choices.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

Well if they're my only 2 choices.....

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f..k.or block .That would make a great game show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

Well if they're my only 2 choices.....

f..k.or block .That would make a great game show

Could I be the hostess please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

Well if they're my only 2 choices.....

f..k.or block .That would make a great game show

Could I be the hostess please

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Of course . The hostess with the mostest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody constantly msging til you have to choice but to block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The 100s of wanna fuk messages I get off ladies daily . It gets so tedious

Wanna f...?!

yes please

Is this the point where I block you? I get so confused!!

Well yer rather block me or F..k me . Decisions decisions

Well if they're my only 2 choices.....

f..k.or block .That would make a great game show

Could I be the hostess please

Of course . The hostess with the mostest

Now you've made me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stupid people messaging me who think because i was stupid once and taken for a fool that i will do the same again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

asking to see face pics - show them and then they either block - say no thanks we wont take this any further - we're not for you etc - this actually makes us laugh -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages where you know they haven't read profile then when you say no thanks go on to say shame would have popped round just to lick your pussy.

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

"And when your profile says won't meet smokers, they message you anyway, then you have to do polite decline message

I'm a smoker and I've had non smokers who have that they don't meet smokers on their profile messaging me asking for a meet, reply back to them and then they don't reply back

I wouldn't message a smoker and i don't message anyone first anymore because they don't reply "

I get that a lot, spend ages writing out a message and then getting no reply, I think it might be ok if ladies don't message first as they probably get hundreds of messages from guys but us guys have to make the first move

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Most of the sexy men who message me are miles away, but if there's a will there's a way I always say

Don't you mean "If there's a WILLY there's a way" lol !!

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