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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before a meet

How do you manage them ?

I am so shy I shake and everything

Excitement ! Nerves ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same.. I usually have a vodka whilst getting ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a mixture of both, I get very nervous, hubby, on the other hand, loves the first social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone gets a little

Nervous no matter how many time you have met but meeting somebody new is always exciting :/)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get really nervous before a meet, even if it was a repeat. I found little ways of boosting my self confidence such as brushing my teeth or having a quick splash of aftershave. I rarely drink and I wouldn't consider alcohol to be beneficial.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the same.. I usually have a vodka whilst getting ready "

What in the mornibg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put the music on and have a boogie while getting ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheer terror. Off for a 2 night meet in 4 weeks time, the butterflies have already kicked in. I shake, I babble on to myself, I worry.

Don't think I can stop it. Got a knot in my stomach now typing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same.. I usually have a vodka whilst getting ready

What in the mornibg lol "

Nah lol I just hope I'm not sick on the way

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Just enjoy them.

The moment you don't get nerves, you should quit.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?"

No, Mr D has never, ever been nervous.

Annoying Dutch bastard lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pooing myself I've got my 1st party tomorrow night. Don't know what to say or how I approach it. I'm shaking like a shittting dig lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog even lol. Told you I was shaking lol

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?"

No not weird!

Im the same never get nerves at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul doesn't get nervous. I used when we first started but not so much now. Unless they are really nervous then it rubs off on to me lol but its all part of the fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?

No, Mr D has never, ever been nervous.

Annoying Dutch bastard lol."

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I say to people no pressure we'll meet we'll have a drink and a chat. The worse thing that can happen is we'll make a new friend. If theres a spark for both of us we'll take it further. I met someone.yday and she said she doesnt just want to jump into bed together. I said Im happy to have a kiss n cuddle anything else is a bonus...... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nerves are a natural thing before meets, some people manage them better than others etc, if people don't get them I can only guess they've had many meets and learnt to get past them, but I hope everyone has some excitement before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when someone I've been seeing for years is coming over I still pace the flat and wee every 5 minutes. It's excitement. When I'm meeting someone new I rarely get that feeling. I'm usually worried about getting lost or my phone dying on the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the butterflies in the tummy, Mrs N does go quiet before meeting sometimes if it's new people but they disappear once we're there and realise there's nowt to worry about as always.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nerves are good in a bad way lol

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

It's more excitement than nerves for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous, even for repeat meets but I think that's a good thing. For me it adds to the build up and anticipation. When I ever get to the stage where I'm not nervous it might be time to give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" When I ever get to the stage where I'm not nervous it might be time to give up "

Sounds spot on, we've always said if it became mundane or the norm for us then we stop. We love the nerves and excitement, the butterflies and the anticipation. It's so much fun....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" When I ever get to the stage where I'm not nervous it might be time to give up

Sounds spot on, we've always said if it became mundane or the norm for us then we stop. We love the nerves and excitement, the butterflies and the anticipation. It's so much fun...."

Yes I agree there

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over a year ago

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I still get a slight amount of nervous apprehension but it is mixed with excitement. Definately part of the whole package that makes it so much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the difference is how we process our 'nerves' some of you feed off them so all you sense is excitement. Some are largely able to control their nerves so feel some trepidation but also get excited. Then the rest of us who are almost overwhelmed by nerves are terrified. Then there's the poor souls who are actually overwhelmed completely and it prevents them meeting people.

Thankfully I've never quite tipped into the last category, but I've come close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the initial feeling of nerves and excitement mingled together when we go to somewhere new or the play starts.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?

No, Mr D has never, ever been nervous.

Annoying Dutch bastard lol."

Good to know I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?

No, Mr D has never, ever been nervous.

Annoying Dutch bastard lol.

Good to know I'm not the only one.

"

Not suggesting you're an annoying Dutch bastard though.

I know he's not nervous because about every 10 minutes I go 'aren't you nervous?' The answer remains the same.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I never get nervous.

Does that make me weird?

No, Mr D has never, ever been nervous.

Annoying Dutch bastard lol.

Good to know I'm not the only one.

Not suggesting you're an annoying Dutch bastard though.

I know he's not nervous because about every 10 minutes I go 'aren't you nervous?' The answer remains the same."

Haha well I guessed that

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