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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

Absolutely not so long as they have a towel under their bum.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?

Absolutely not so long as they have a towel under their bum. "

"You're gonna need a bigger towel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"
definatly not its a total turn on having your balls tickled while your in deep x lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

And no, it certainly wouldn't put me off if I had prior knowledge. Nor would it bother me if it spontaniously occurred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?

Absolutely not so long as they have a towel under their bum. "

Or bring a snorkel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i absolutely loveee it when a lady gushes allover me...love her straddling my body/face and drenching me mmmmm LOVE IT!!!...the wetter the better;-)

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why would anyone be out off because a woman gushes? It's just amazing to be a part of, to watch, to taste, to enjoy, if your having problems finding someone to share it with please take this as my formal application xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?

Absolutely not so long as they have a towel under their bum.

Or bring a snorkel "

Sod the snorkle! Open your mouth and drink from the fountain!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

It would put me off. Not something I'm into.

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

Very nice when she gushes when riding on top

Just got to gush over my face now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

No, no and hell no

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not at all .. but its not the only thing id want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry about this as happens to me almost every time

But so far everyone has loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I plan to do but at times it happens. I wouldn't want to hold back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worry about this as happens to me almost every time

But so far everyone has loved it "

I love it when a Lady gushes Mmmmmm

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Quite the opposite. It would encourage me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"
then drown him in it lol how very rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

It might put some off - no doubt there's some things you don't like during sex? Just meet the ones that love it. Plenty do. Don't let it make you feel bad. It's not my thing but I certainly don't think it's a bad thing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

Perhaps they mistakenly think it's pee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

Does this person know all the guys that have been put off then?

Some will love it and others don't,there are lots of things that may put me off meeting someone,it doesn't really matter,as you can see by this thread a good few like it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

It's nice getting all wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my kink, sorry. Love watching orgasm, don't get off on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

puts us off..towel or no towel!!! sorry personal thing...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

What utter twadle. I like the lady enjoying herself in whstever way she does that. Whether its cumming, gushing, both and from receiving cunnilingus, anilingus, kissing, toes sucked, whatever .. All is wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me

Does this person know all the guys that have been put off then?

Some will love it and others don't,there are lots of things that may put me off meeting someone,it doesn't really matter,as you can see by this thread a good few like it"

thank you. i dont hide the fact i do either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"puts us off..towel or no towel!!! sorry personal thing...xxx"

Im not offended in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not my kink, sorry. Love watching orgasm, don't get off on this."

thats ok personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put me off and i wouldnt want to meet them .... a few years ago when i met couples with a male friend, one couple we met were lovely and fun but the lady gushed and it was awful, smelt like piss and put me off completly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would put me off and i wouldnt want to meet them .... a few years ago when i met couples with a male friend, one couple we met were lovely and fun but the lady gushed and it was awful, smelt like piss and put me off completly "

probably was wee then. mine dont smell like wee and have been dont it dont taste like it either

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By *undgrenMan
over a year ago

Close By

Understand it's not for everyone, but personally I love it... you will need a change of bedding tho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Understand it's not for everyone, but personally I love it... you will need a change of bedding tho!"

i have a waterproof mattress protector plus i use towels

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By *in82Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Love nothing more!

Also like to give oral afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understand it's not for everyone, but personally I love it... you will need a change of bedding tho!"

But a cheap shower curtain or do it on someone else's bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Understand it's not for everyone, but personally I love it... you will need a change of bedding tho!

But a cheap shower curtain or do it on someone else's bed "

yeah i carnt control so a good thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it puts some off, it definitely doesn't others. don't worry about it hhun. just be who you are and have your fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me

It might put some off - no doubt there's some things you don't like during sex? Just meet the ones that love it. Plenty do. Don't let it make you feel bad. It's not my thing but I certainly don't think it's a bad thing. x"

I gush at times ... Not all the time. I do tell potential meets this just in case they don't like it

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By *uestandpinkCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Love it when miss pink does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't please all the people all of the time.

I have it written in my profile now that I gush.

One of my meets went on and on about it while we were arranging to get together. Gave the impression he loved it. After we met I got a call from him saying it had turned him off. I almost told him it was his fault that his oral skills were so good but thought better of it.

Why should I big him up?

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no love it when a woman gushes, especially when you are down on her.

and I learned to breath through my ears at an early age lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't please all the people all of the time.

I have it written in my profile now that I gush.

One of my meets went on and on about it while we were arranging to get together. Gave the impression he loved it. After we met I got a call from him saying it had turned him off. I almost told him it was his fault that his oral skills were so good but thought better of it.

Why should I big him up?

Xxx "

i had a similar experience. a guy made me gush using his fingers then refused to lick me. i warned him i cum alot and he was ok with it saying he wants to luck me while doing it. but dont think he liked when he realised how much. still asks to meet but i turn him down

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive never met anyone thats told me they gush,Ive made a few gush though. The first time I was quite shocked but loved it,as said above just be prepared. Id rather know and put something on the mattress rather that keep buying mattresses. A mattress protector can be ok for some but a plastic sheet,snorkel and fins are required for others

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

I love the hot feeling I get on my dick just before a lady gushes. Its also a good time to look at her face and watch her eyes rolling in the back of her head. that always gives me a little chuckle to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't please all the people all of the time.

I have it written in my profile now that I gush.

One of my meets went on and on about it while we were arranging to get together. Gave the impression he loved it. After we met I got a call from him saying it had turned him off. I almost told him it was his fault that his oral skills were so good but thought better of it.

Why should I big him up?

Xxx

i had a similar experience. a guy made me gush using his fingers then refused to lick me. i warned him i cum alot and he was ok with it saying he wants to luck me while doing it. but dont think he liked when he realised how much. still asks to meet but i turn him down"

Good for you. Find someone who will appreciate and enjoy your gushing as much as you do. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive never met anyone thats told me they gush,Ive made a few gush though. The first time I was quite shocked but loved it,as said above just be prepared. Id rather know and put something on the mattress rather that keep buying mattresses. A mattress protector can be ok for some but a plastic sheet,snorkel and fins are required for others "

i have a waterproof mattress protector a mattress protector is not waterproof lol

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

If that's what the lady wants, good for her, however we have met ladies who are both embarrassed and proud of being able to. It's not overly our thing, certainly not something we look for. It's more about having fun and everybody enjoying pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

WTF, whoever told you that is an idiot.

Most would be happy that you were comfortable enough to let go. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that's what the lady wants, good for her, however we have met ladies who are both embarrassed and proud of being able to. It's not overly our thing, certainly not something we look for. It's more about having fun and everybody enjoying pleasure. "

thank you.

i dont want to.feel embarassed on a meet so do warn guys of it and have a pic on my profile. its something I have yet to learn to control. so it happens if a guy is good at oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first and only experience with a lady gushing came as a total suprise when it happened, many years ago. It's SUCH a horny memory R.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not something I plan to do but at times it happens. I wouldn't want to hold back "

I dont hold back. i carnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I plan to do but at times it happens. I wouldn't want to hold back

I dont hold back. i carnt "

And why should you?

Xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no but it would be on her bed, not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when women gush, however it works out - on my fingers, mouth or during sex!

Obviously it's not to everyone's taste, but that's like anything else - as long as you're upfront about it and it's only a compliment to the guy / lady so keep doing what you're doing

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By *eryCuriousCouple2012Couple
over a year ago

Funville

It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow "

i carnt stop and mine has no smell and its clear

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By *eryCuriousCouple2012Couple
over a year ago

Funville


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

i carnt stop and mine has no smell and its clear"

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I was told this morning that my gushing is putting guys off meeting me"

How odd of him. If he doesn't like it he should just be honest. Not talk for others. Surely gushing just means you are enjoying yourself. Like you It's not something I can control and it doesn't happen every time.

All that is needed is a towel nearby if he is concerned about his bedding. My partner has a waterproof sheet which also comes in handy. Though I did squirt once and almost blinded him. Perhaps safety goggles are needed as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow "

Purely looking at physiology I think some of this fluid must come from the bladder. There is nowhere else the body can store the amount of fluid that's produced, ejaculate would be a tiny amount of liquid in comparison Not saying it's all urine but having been very close to gusher twice recently it definitely has a trace of the smell of urine and although not yellow it's not clear either.

Please understand this is me thinking about this dispassionately, it doesn't turn me on at all but nor does it repulse me. I'm just wondering what other people believe it is because research on the subject gives many different theories.

It's not orgasm, it's not ejaculate in the sense that a man ejaculates so what is it?

Any human biologists on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

Purely looking at physiology I think some of this fluid must come from the bladder. There is nowhere else the body can store the amount of fluid that's produced, ejaculate would be a tiny amount of liquid in comparison Not saying it's all urine but having been very close to gusher twice recently it definitely has a trace of the smell of urine and although not yellow it's not clear either.

Please understand this is me thinking about this dispassionately, it doesn't turn me on at all but nor does it repulse me. I'm just wondering what other people believe it is because research on the subject gives many different theories.

It's not orgasm, it's not ejaculate in the sense that a man ejaculates so what is it?

Any human biologists on fab?"

yeah, there are seemingly two different types of female ejaculate. one that is whitish, and seemingly almost identical to male ejaculate and occurs in similar amounts. there is also a larger amount of fluid which is best described as 'changed urine' meaning is similar in chemical composition but isn't actually urine as it lacks some key chemicals. women can do either version or combine the two. it's understudied, so doubtless more willbe found out about it in ttime. on a previous threadbon this topic i posted a link to a medical peer re_iewed study on the topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

Purely looking at physiology I think some of this fluid must come from the bladder. There is nowhere else the body can store the amount of fluid that's produced, ejaculate would be a tiny amount of liquid in comparison Not saying it's all urine but having been very close to gusher twice recently it definitely has a trace of the smell of urine and although not yellow it's not clear either.

Please understand this is me thinking about this dispassionately, it doesn't turn me on at all but nor does it repulse me. I'm just wondering what other people believe it is because research on the subject gives many different theories.

It's not orgasm, it's not ejaculate in the sense that a man ejaculates so what is it?

Any human biologists on fab?

yeah, there are seemingly two different types of female ejaculate. one that is whitish, and seemingly almost identical to male ejaculate and occurs in similar amounts. there is also a larger amount of fluid which is best described as 'changed urine' meaning is similar in chemical composition but isn't actually urine as it lacks some key chemicals. women can do either version or combine the two. it's understudied, so doubtless more willbe found out about it in ttime. on a previous threadbon this topic i posted a link to a medical peer re_iewed study on the topic. "

Yeah it doesn't have the ammonia smell, but there is an element, the sweetness of the smell of urine is definitely there. Is it not possible that this is purely liquid that has entered the bladder being pushed out through compression?

I do hope guys continue to focus on orgasm (if climax is important to both parties) as opposed to gushing. There is often confusion that gushing means you're sexually satisfied.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


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I do hope guys continue to focus on orgasm (if climax is important to both parties) as opposed to gushing. There is often confusion that gushing means you're sexually satisfied.

"

Amen to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

God no would love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

It can be if she gushes like a pissing cow in a field

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest. Its very horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its more likely to be an irritant to the lady involved, due to the 'goal' of making her squirt more and more.

its then no longer about her pleasure, but about the man ensuring he is 'the best she has had'

we have found it annoying in the past when V has been made to squirt, and the guy thinks its job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

Purely looking at physiology I think some of this fluid must come from the bladder. There is nowhere else the body can store the amount of fluid that's produced, ejaculate would be a tiny amount of liquid in comparison Not saying it's all urine but having been very close to gusher twice recently it definitely has a trace of the smell of urine and although not yellow it's not clear either.

Please understand this is me thinking about this dispassionately, it doesn't turn me on at all but nor does it repulse me. I'm just wondering what other people believe it is because research on the subject gives many different theories.

It's not orgasm, it's not ejaculate in the sense that a man ejaculates so what is it?

Any human biologists on fab?

yeah, there are seemingly two different types of female ejaculate. one that is whitish, and seemingly almost identical to male ejaculate and occurs in similar amounts. there is also a larger amount of fluid which is best described as 'changed urine' meaning is similar in chemical composition but isn't actually urine as it lacks some key chemicals. women can do either version or combine the two. it's understudied, so doubtless more willbe found out about it in ttime. on a previous threadbon this topic i posted a link to a medical peer re_iewed study on the topic.

Yeah it doesn't have the ammonia smell, but there is an element, the sweetness of the smell of urine is definitely there. Is it not possible that this is purely liquid that has entered the bladder being pushed out through compression?

I do hope guys continue to focus on orgasm (if climax is important to both parties) as opposed to gushing. There is often confusion that gushing means you're sexually satisfied.

"

firstly, yes... guts should focus on orgasm and take gushing as a bonus. i personally am a woman who gushes on orgasm moist of the time but the gush can be forced without the orgasm and that's not pleasant at all. also, I've no control of gushing or warning is about to happen. i don't always gush even when having mind blowing orgasms. it's not reflective of your abilities.

secondly, i suppose it's possible that in the case of changed urine ejaculate that what you are dating is true. though not in the toe ofejaculate that is white and like a mman's. that one is likely from the grand that develops into a prostate and it's likely that in the case of the ladies who ejaculate in that manner the same type of tune which connected the prostate to the urethra in a man is developed allowing release. id query with an endocrinology specialist, though, re the crashed urine theory that you propose. it may be posdible that the did went through the kidneys atypically fast and wasn't filtered andchanged to the usual degree before entering the bbladder......and id ask if the bladder is anything other than a storage device.... i.e. dies it add to the chemical components of urine or concentrate them in some way therefore making them different versions of the same process. dies that make sense? it's hard to keep up with what I've written on the small screen of my phone, andI've had to stop several times to do mommy type tthings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

Purely looking at physiology I think some of this fluid must come from the bladder. There is nowhere else the body can store the amount of fluid that's produced, ejaculate would be a tiny amount of liquid in comparison Not saying it's all urine but having been very close to gusher twice recently it definitely has a trace of the smell of urine and although not yellow it's not clear either.

Please understand this is me thinking about this dispassionately, it doesn't turn me on at all but nor does it repulse me. I'm just wondering what other people believe it is because research on the subject gives many different theories.

It's not orgasm, it's not ejaculate in the sense that a man ejaculates so what is it?

Any human biologists on fab?

yeah, there are seemingly two different types of female ejaculate. one that is whitish, and seemingly almost identical to male ejaculate and occurs in similar amounts. there is also a larger amount of fluid which is best described as 'changed urine' meaning is similar in chemical composition but isn't actually urine as it lacks some key chemicals. women can do either version or combine the two. it's understudied, so doubtless more willbe found out about it in ttime. on a previous threadbon this topic i posted a link to a medical peer re_iewed study on the topic.

Yeah it doesn't have the ammonia smell, but there is an element, the sweetness of the smell of urine is definitely there. Is it not possible that this is purely liquid that has entered the bladder being pushed out through compression?

I do hope guys continue to focus on orgasm (if climax is important to both parties) as opposed to gushing. There is often confusion that gushing means you're sexually satisfied.

firstly, yes... guts should focus on orgasm and take gushing as a bonus. i personally am a woman who gushes on orgasm moist of the time but the gush can be forced without the orgasm and that's not pleasant at all. also, I've no control of gushing or warning is about to happen. i don't always gush even when having mind blowing orgasms. it's not reflective of your abilities.

secondly, i suppose it's possible that in the case of changed urine ejaculate that what you are dating is true. though not in the toe ofejaculate that is white and like a mman's. that one is likely from the grand that develops into a prostate and it's likely that in the case of the ladies who ejaculate in that manner the same type of tune which connected the prostate to the urethra in a man is developed allowing release. id query with an endocrinology specialist, though, re the crashed urine theory that you propose. it may be posdible that the did went through the kidneys atypically fast and wasn't filtered andchanged to the usual degree before entering the bbladder......and id ask if the bladder is anything other than a storage device.... i.e. dies it add to the chemical components of urine or concentrate them in some way therefore making them different versions of the same process. dies that make sense? it's hard to keep up with what I've written on the small screen of my phone, andI've had to stop several times to do mommy type tthings. "

I'm going to ask an endocrinology specialist.

merci.

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

No.

The exact opposite, i love it.

Especially over my face and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

I'd simply want to meet more. Love a lady who gushes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shame there none local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely not,i would be doing my very best for a repeat performance lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I SO adore a lady who squirts and/or gushes wen she climaxes..Such a massuve turn on..screaming too at the same time..quite a few girlfriends did this from simultaneous g spot fingering and clit licking..and my neighbors hate me! lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gush and squirt a lot , I have none or very little control on both, I am often left drained and feel dehydrated and it can also bring on headaches. Just the sheer thought of great sex or having my nipples played with is sometimes enough to get me gushing. If I try and hold back from doing so I find it uncomfortable so I don't even try and hold back any more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no it's a pure turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shame there none local to me "

Yes, would love to experience it again, knowing about it in advance

Doubt I'll be that lucky though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?

Absolutely not so long as they have a towel under their bum. "

Unfortunately towels don't even cut it if I'm very excited :/ it's embarrassing....I always warn people! X

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Not a chance of putting us of it's such a turn on when the lady squirts for both of us well all of us lol when performing oral or penetration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not allow anyone to make me gush if meeting at a house unless plenty of protection is down..

It only puts me off when you know it's not gush lol

Lee is happiest when wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met anybody yet that didn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There she blows!! Don't mind donning sou'wester!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its more likely to be an irritant to the lady involved, due to the 'goal' of making her squirt more and more.

its then no longer about her pleasure, but about the man ensuring he is 'the best she has had'

we have found it annoying in the past when V has been made to squirt, and the guy thinks its job done."

luckily I've never met anyone who thinks that's it. Mind you mostly that isn't normally their sole goal. ...I think they see it more as a bonus than an aim.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Love a gusher such a turn on knowing a woman is comfortable and confident enough to completely let go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak for hubby but it would put me off for sure. If a woman done what felt like a piss in my mouth. I think I would be sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't speak for hubby but it would put me off for sure. If a woman done what felt like a piss in my mouth. I think I would be sick.

"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean all ladies dont gush ???? God I must be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J loves feeling me gush not sure why any guy would be turned off by that!

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By *immy AndrexCouple
over a year ago

OLDHAM

What a waste, love it being gushed all over by warm golden liquid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was out last night and saw a guy guys at different points going at it with his fingers hell for leather, I knew this was to encourage gushing from how they were using their hands. I said to Mr D after the night was over, if a guy ever tried to use his hands like that on me in that setting I think there would probably be a scene.

It looked very brutal, made me wince to see so little care with a ladies genitals and I know how much that personally would hurt me. I would never treat a guys cock with brutality like that.

I know that's probably not how experienced men do it but that's how I experienced it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me gushing is more of a bonus and would encourage me to meet rather than put me off. However its not the be all and end all and i dont id set out with the sole purpose of making someone gush and doing what the poster above saw lastnight. No need for it in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was out last night and saw a guy guys at different points going at it with his fingers hell for leather, I knew this was to encourage gushing from how they were using their hands. I said to Mr D after the night was over, if a guy ever tried to use his hands like that on me in that setting I think there would probably be a scene.

It looked very brutal, made me wince to see so little care with a ladies genitals and I know how much that personally would hurt me. I would never treat a guys cock with brutality like that.

I know that's probably not how experienced men do it but that's how I experienced it myself."

That would put me off, for sure....there is no need for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like it. Something kinky and i just like it a bit messy i suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to gush a bit but tend to try and hold it back as it csn ne a little embarrasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to gush a bit but tend to try and hold it back as it csn ne a little embarrasing"
Why do ladies get embarrassed by gushing . I have heard a few ladies say this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the olden days. A man's mission was to delicately bring a lady to orgasm. Now we have all this new fangle gushing nonsense. It makes my eyes water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you mean gushing, in the sense of a sudden surfeit of vaginal fluid while having sex, or squirting, when it looks like the woman is just pissing in spurts.

We're somewhat suspicious of the "squirting" in as much as quite a few women, especially those who have had kids, tend to have the (also uncontrollable) habit of pissing if they laugh or cough etc.

Could this lack of bladder control not pass over when having an orgasm?

After all, we'd imagine the sensation is a lot stronger than laughing or coughing and therefore more likely to cause involuntary pissing.

So in answer to the O.P, gushing = yes, squirting = no.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us either, its a turn off.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I find it a turn on for me if a lady gushes

A woman I know hates to gush , but she does, and it is exhilarating and powerful to see her do this .like an orgasm x2. Her body goes all stiff and she is so overcum after she needs to come back down to earth before we carry on

I know not all women can do it ( maybe they can but haven't found the right technique )

But I love to see and taste it mmmm

So go for it girls ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ladies who gush/ squirt, would like to meet a big squirters to gush on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

Yes, definately not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gush and squirt a lot , I have none or very little control on both, I am often left drained and feel dehydrated and it can also bring on headaches. Just the sheer thought of great sex or having my nipples played with is sometimes enough to get me gushing. If I try and hold back from doing so I find it uncomfortable so I don't even try and hold back any more x"

That must be a big problem if you are up tesco and see a person you fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i absolutely loveee it when a lady gushes allover me...love her straddling my body/face and drenching me mmmmm LOVE IT!!!...the wetter the better;-)"

Mmmmm i love doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That must be a big problem if you are up tesco and see a person you fancy. "

Clean up in isle 3 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely wouldn't put us off as the F also gushes.

We have found that there seems to be a few misconceptions about female ejaculation; some people seem to think the women are peeing instead (and some may be) but the definitive tells of gushing rather than peeing is an inability to stop, there is no ammonia smell and it shouldn't be yellow

i carnt stop and mine has no smell and its clear"

once i.start i can't stop neither....just put waterproof sheet on plus extra sheets and ave towels ready..... Mine is also clear and tastes good many times hubby can cup it in.his hands and.has poured it over my face Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love ladies who gush/ squirt, would like to meet a big squirters to gush on my face "

cud be the one for u then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if you mean gushing, in the sense of a sudden surfeit of vaginal fluid while having sex, or squirting, when it looks like the woman is just pissing in spurts.

We're somewhat suspicious of the "squirting" in as much as quite a few women, especially those who have had kids, tend to have the (also uncontrollable) habit of pissing if they laugh or cough etc.

Could this lack of bladder control not pass over when having an orgasm?

After all, we'd imagine the sensation is a lot stronger than laughing or coughing and therefore more likely to cause involuntary pissing.

So in answer to the O.P, gushing = yes, squirting = no.

XXXX"

i squirt n.gush.... And have five children so and have.no prob with my.muscles....so.i know its just vaginal fluid n.not piss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i absolutely loveee it when a lady gushes allover me...love her straddling my body/face and drenching me mmmmm LOVE IT!!!...the wetter the better;-)

Mmmmm i love doing this "
"ooo ...we would have fun then!! love a lady gushing/squirting over me...such a very big turn on feeling her warm juices splashing on me mmmm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes to have a man lying there watching and waiting for my hot juices is such a turn on

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By *lwayshornymanMan
over a year ago

Flintshire

When a woman gushes its like she's saying I did a good job of making her horny and the feeling of a woman on top gushing. As it flows and runs over my cock hips and onto sheets. No way to describe that just ahhhhh wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nickname says it all.. and it's never put anyone off. Mind you, it takes more than a towel to stem the tide. I've been known to go through 2 towels, a duvet, into the mattress... gush, squirt, ooze, dribble. Bit like that song in The little mermaid "here where it's wetter, everything's better ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman gushes its like she's saying I did a good job of making her horny and the feeling of a woman on top gushing. As it flows and runs over my cock hips and onto sheets. No way to describe that just ahhhhh wonderful"
" ...its such a turn on!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's definitely a huge turn on and would increase the chances of a meet! haha.

we've been trying to get the mrs squirting /gushing for as long as we've been together (10 years) and never come close books, toys...etc just isn't happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you no a lady gushes before you meet would it put you off meeting?"

No it would be a major turn on for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to gush a bit but tend to try and hold it back as it csn ne a little embarrasing Why do ladies get embarrassed by gushing . I have heard a few ladies say this "

Because it makes a mess...and in someone else's house u kinda feel bad :/ lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a male thing, I have ever only known three ladies who have gushed, and all three were so embarrassed because when they had done it before they were told it was a bad thing, I cannot see the problem they are letting out there satisfaction and enjoyment, Men !!!!! and I am one what a bunch of !!!!!!

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